Not healthy. However, Personally speaking here, I got jealous over insecuriti4es caused by an ex that resulted in my sick jealousy so I finally ended it. I had to get me back again.
Jealousy is just a feeling. How someone deals with their jealousy and how easily and for what reasons and to what extent they experience jealousy, that's what determines whether it's bad or not. Most of the time it's bad.
Jealousy is a mix of emotions. Emotions aren't good or bad, but how you handle them determines whether they're healthy or pose a problem to you and/or your surroundings.
I’d say overall it’s just a little bad. If it’s just a wee bit then that is okay as long as it’s recognized and cured. If it gets to the point where the person starts murdering then I think we all know what that is.
@thatssuppy190 jealousy isn't a requirement of sincere love. In fact I think trust is a better foundation of sincere love than insecurity is - which is the basis of jealousy, insecurity and the fear your partner will leave you.
Jealousy is a result of love and it should be controlled. If you dont ever feel jealousy for your parnter, you either dont sincerely love him or you have a heart that doesn’t live. God placed jealousy between a man and a women as a protection so that they dont let each other cheat and become animals who have sex with x amount of people without barriers which results in weak and unfulfilling relationships
You also say that jealousy comes from insecurity, thats not true, though it can. Jealousy comes more from entitlement. I mean if my girl kisses another guy who is less funny than me, smaller, less attractive etc im still going to feel jealous regardless of me being confident about myself.
In moderation, it can be rather cute, but if too extreme can completely derail your life and the relationship. Some is healthy, but when they're actively treating you like a prisoner, no.
Jealous patner is cool only till a limit if they're being overprotective or maybe they are raging over it or overthinking about such stuff the relationship might be affected. And making your patner jealous is fine but only once or twice.
Same. Then my husband had to go follow this bitch all over my 1 acre property, &/or he has to position himself in her direction so he can keep his eyes on her ass. Another time I walked into th shop to hear him & another bitch saying how Ebert since they were introduced, blah... blah... blah...& then I heard her say, "If I wasn't married, ... Then I heard him say, "If I wasn't married, ... WTF? WTF IS REALLY GOIN ON? Th other day we went to more a yard. Well we have friends that live across th street. Just do happens th 1st bitch I just told u about, it's her boyfriend's house. Well, I told my husband I'd prefer if she's there & I ain't w/him, for him not to go over there. No different then him telling me not to contact another friend who's male. Weigh it out, it's virtually th same. My husband told me to get over it! So then th next day was not so good right. @ th end of th night, he finally told me I've been down n dumps for all day, what's wrong w/me? I told him, "There's NO need for me to share my feelings w/him no more. He don't give a fuck about my feelings, much less how HE MAKES ME FEEL. He's cheated on me. That bitch went to our wedding after th fact. Then my husband had th nerve to walk up to me that same day w/his arm around her waist, & w/his other hand/arm, he lifted her arm up to hand me a card. WHO THE FUCK DOES THAT BULLSHIT? SERIOUSLY! GOLLY G BUM
@crazy_worthless and get this.. people are blaming you for fealing this jealousy. Imagine a world when we let our partners sleep around with how many people whilst not getting angry or upset
I think it's both because the good thing is that being jealous helps people figure out what they're feeling inside and the bad thing is that some people will do stupid or irrational things to cover up their jealousy.
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Not healthy. However, Personally speaking here, I got jealous over insecuriti4es caused by an ex that resulted in my sick jealousy so I finally ended it. I had to get me back again.
I think its sweet if its called for. But if they become super possessive around other men because they feel threatened then thats a bit of a turnoff
I prefer she trust me and not worry about other women. If I am with her, other girls tend to fade in the background.
It's negative emotions and showing emotional impulses especially negative ones isn't a good strategy for interpersonal relations.
To some small degree, a small amount of jealousy can be good, but mostly the controlling and territorial jealousy thing is pretty bad in my eyes
Jealousy is just a feeling. How someone deals with their jealousy and how easily and for what reasons and to what extent they experience jealousy, that's what determines whether it's bad or not. Most of the time it's bad.
I like it when someone gets territorial and jealous over their partner ( not in a toxic or unreasonable way lol )... It's like a form of intimacy...
Jealousy is a mix of emotions. Emotions aren't good or bad, but how you handle them determines whether they're healthy or pose a problem to you and/or your surroundings.
I’d say overall it’s just a little bad. If it’s just a wee bit then that is okay as long as it’s recognized and cured. If it gets to the point where the person starts murdering then I think we all know what that is.
It is absolutely bad. It does not do good in any way.
I don't want a jealous partner. I want a partner that trusts me.
You don’t want a partner that has sincere love for you is basically what you are saying
@thatssuppy190 jealousy isn't a requirement of sincere love. In fact I think trust is a better foundation of sincere love than insecurity is - which is the basis of jealousy, insecurity and the fear your partner will leave you.
Jealousy is a result of love and it should be controlled. If you dont ever feel jealousy for your parnter, you either dont sincerely love him or you have a heart that doesn’t live. God placed jealousy between a man and a women as a protection so that they dont let each other cheat and become animals who have sex with x amount of people without barriers which results in weak and unfulfilling relationships
You also say that jealousy comes from insecurity, thats not true, though it can. Jealousy comes more from entitlement. I mean if my girl kisses another guy who is less funny than me, smaller, less attractive etc im still going to feel jealous regardless of me being confident about myself.
In moderation, it can be rather cute, but if too extreme can completely derail your life and the relationship. Some is healthy, but when they're actively treating you like a prisoner, no.
Jealous patner is cool only till a limit if they're being overprotective or maybe they are raging over it or overthinking about such stuff the relationship might be affected. And making your patner jealous is fine but only once or twice.
A small amount is OK. It's kind of proof that they care. But beyond that it's bad. A relationship cannot exist without trust.
I'm a jealous woman myself. But im also insecure about my looks and body. Every girl is so much prettier than me.
Same. Then my husband had to go follow this bitch all over my 1 acre property, &/or he has to position himself in her direction so he can keep his eyes on her ass. Another time I walked into th shop to hear him & another bitch saying how Ebert since they were introduced, blah... blah... blah...& then I heard her say, "If I wasn't married, ... Then I heard him say, "If I wasn't married, ...
WTF? WTF IS REALLY GOIN ON?
Th other day we went to more a yard. Well we have friends that live across th street. Just do happens th 1st bitch I just told u about, it's her boyfriend's house. Well, I told my husband I'd prefer if she's there & I ain't w/him, for him not to go over there. No different then him telling me not to contact another friend who's male. Weigh it out, it's virtually th same.
My husband told me to get over it!
So then th next day was not so good right. @ th end of th night, he finally told me I've been down n dumps for all day, what's wrong w/me?
I told him, "There's NO need for me to share my feelings w/him no more.
He don't give a fuck about my feelings, much less how HE MAKES ME FEEL.
He's cheated on me. That bitch went to our wedding after th fact. Then my husband had th nerve to walk up to me that same day w/his arm around her waist, & w/his other hand/arm, he lifted her arm up to hand me a card.
WHO THE FUCK DOES THAT BULLSHIT? SERIOUSLY! GOLLY G BUM
@crazy_worthless and get this.. people are blaming you for fealing this jealousy. Imagine a world when we let our partners sleep around with how many people whilst not getting angry or upset
Cuz thats what they want
85% of the time it's a bad thing and the rest of the time it's legit
I think it's both because the good thing is that being jealous helps people figure out what they're feeling inside and the bad thing is that some people will do stupid or irrational things to cover up their jealousy.
A lot is really bad... little bit and bout a pertener is fine
I kind of think is sexy in a new relationship. I would say after like year ten maybe it’s something deeper that needs to be addressed
i think a litle bit of it is healthy. but too much becomes controlling and cringy