My man admits that he looks at other women, but it seems like he is not looking her way and he is not really looking at her. He thinks I am cheating on him because I get along with guys more and his friends check me out or look at me, so he thinks I am cheating on him. Sometimes he looks at other women to make me jealous. He said when I get a lot of money then I am going to cheat on you with money and he said that you are probably happy that I am his friend not him and it was him not his friend. He has told his friends that he is the only one that gets to sleep with me not them and he is jealous of them because they check me out. He has jealous issues with me and other men. Sometimes I can't handle it, so men cheat because they are jealous too.
I have gone from confronting him when he does it to asking him in front of the person he is starring at, with, "Do you know her from somewhere or does she know you?" and he will get embarrassed and stop looking. It irritates me cause I feel disrespected and have time and time again asked him not to do that. It makes me feel like I am stupid that my husband is behaving this way in front of my face. And its funny because when another man stares at me, my husband becomes very jealous. I don't have any interest in looking at another man at all so I can't figure why my husband continuously does this.
My boyfriend cheated on me once with a co worker. We have a 7 week old baby together so I need to get over the cheating thing. But now it bothers me that he looks at girls on double Viking site Everyone tells me how good I look couldn't even tell I had a baby. But still my self- esteem is crushed and ruined. And it doesn't help he's on theses sites. I wish I didn't care but I do it's hard for us to go out to lunch together without leaving upset. I'm wondering if I'm just still torn about the cheating and I wouldn't give a crap if he looked at women if he never had cheated.
Yes, very often and it really really bothers me.. I thought I'd seen the worst, when one day we were talking on the sidewalk, he was facing me .. suddenly he stopped mid sentence froze wih his arms on my shoulders and stared/// I couldn't see what he was staring at since I was facing the other direction. He stared muttering some gibberish... I thought he'd seen a ghost or someone he knew or something.. then I turned and saw this slutty chick wit a high pitched voice in shorts and an off shoulder bluse.. I was so furious I just walked off. turns out he didn't know her or anything..
It is so hurtful. I am so tired of his behaviour that I do not want to go anywhere with my husband. He did not do this when we first met, but as time went on, he really started to look. Everywhere we go, grocery shopping yesterday was the last time. I do not know what I am going to do, but I have had it. We just got married in December and I am thinking about ending it if he does not stop. The strange thing is that many men look at me everyday and I catch them. Why does he need to continue to gawk at other girls/women? Why does he have to hurt me so much?
Yes. He definitely looks. It makes me feel like he wants to chase other women and that he is not completely satisfied with our relationship. I have mentioned it to him and I even joked about putting blinders on. It hurts my feelings. I have read about how it is natural for men to look, blah, blah, blah and how women should not feel insecure. I feel like there is plenty of time to look when he is not with me. I respect guys that do not look at me when they are with their wives or girlfriends.
I think.it is sad that men do this openly without thinking of the consequences to their relationship.
Sometimes people take their relationships for granted and some people may not even know how to have a deep, loving relationship.
I am really thinking that I have to stop my relathion with my boyfriend.
As I read here, I don't feel anymore I want to go out or do the things that we did at the beginning when I come to live with him.
In this house it was all with oictures of another women, movies (dvd) and it was really a kind of obsation for him I am sure.
He got ret of them (dvd) because I was really feeling offended all the times I asked him, why do you need to keep this in here? his answer was always, just If you go in
OMG You are so right! I love the BLAHBLAH part!. There is NO difference between a man and a woman. And it is bull crap when they say it is natural. If women can control themselves so can a MAN! Please these men need to have some respect. I was raised by my grandparents so I have learned that knowledge from them (old school). People have no morales this day and age. Men can control them selves.
Mine does it all the time. when I asked him about it he first told me he was compairing my beauty to other women, then when it kept going on, he said he wasn't looking at them per se, he was looking at their clothes or shoes or their kids and dismissed it as quickly as he saw it..but I still feel very disrespected and stupid while the women that he stares at-look back at me as if to say, wow-he sees me and not you-the one he's with! And to me it makes those women "feel good" and leaves me feeling dumb...he doesn't get it and now is calling me insecure and saying that its my "problem" and is going with the "rage" wmotin now saying that basically I am accusing him of lusting after other women when his love is for me and me only...and now he is threatening to not go anywhere with me because now he has to be on the lookout for what he's looking at when we're in public...I give!
He looks but he doesn't gawk. BIG difference. He's very friendly. He talks to everyone. I don't know if he does this to make me jealous, but it doesn't work. I'm too secure with myself.
My ex-boyfriend would glance at other girls, and I'd just give the girls dirty looks. It made me feel like he was going to dump me for a girl he barely knew. When I talked to him about it, he apoligised and said that he loved me. It happens all the time so I don't worry about it..
It hurts my feelings when guys do this. I think a guy should be focusing more attention on the girl or woman he is with instead of obviously looking around when he already has a woman at his side. I usually don't say anything to him when he does this though.
U R right sweetie. No its NOT natural its disrespectful! We R no different than a man. There are sexy men all over but I am happy with the man I am with and all about him. I don't want another man thinking I am sweating him. Why would our men look at another woman? What they are not satisified with what they have. PLEASe they do all that, if they were alone with that woman they would cheat 100%. Shoot they are looking 4 a dam reason,and its NOT a good one. EXCUSES
Well, it doesn't come up in my relationship anymore. My now fianc� has made a complete turn around and now I am one of his main focuses in life along with his job, my daughter, and our (soon to be) son.
ok so my husband looks at other girls but when I catch him he denies it and gets so p*ssed off1 I dnt even get mad but omg he does! AND now here recentally it got wrsoe and he admitted it
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My man admits that he looks at other women, but it seems like he is not looking her way and he is not really looking at her. He thinks I am cheating on him because I get along with guys more and his friends check me out or look at me, so he thinks I am cheating on him. Sometimes he looks at other women to make me jealous. He said when I get a lot of money then I am going to cheat on you with money and he said that you are probably happy that I am his friend not him and it was him not his friend. He has told his friends that he is the only one that gets to sleep with me not them and he is jealous of them because they check me out. He has jealous issues with me and other men. Sometimes I can't handle it, so men cheat because they are jealous too.
I have gone from confronting him when he does it to asking him in front of the person he is starring at, with, "Do you know her from somewhere or does she know you?" and he will get embarrassed and stop looking. It irritates me cause I feel disrespected and have time and time again asked him not to do that. It makes me feel like I am stupid that my husband is behaving this way in front of my face. And its funny because when another man stares at me, my husband becomes very jealous. I don't have any interest in looking at another man at all so I can't figure why my husband continuously does this.
My boyfriend cheated on me once with a co worker. We have a 7 week old baby together so I need to get over the cheating thing. But now it bothers me that he looks at girls on double Viking site Everyone tells me how good I look couldn't even tell I had a baby. But still my self- esteem is crushed and ruined. And it doesn't help he's on theses sites. I wish I didn't care but I do it's hard for us to go out to lunch together without leaving upset. I'm wondering if I'm just still torn about the cheating and I wouldn't give a crap if he looked at women if he never had cheated.
Yes, very often and it really really bothers me.. I thought I'd seen the worst, when one day we were talking on the sidewalk, he was facing me .. suddenly he stopped mid sentence froze wih his arms on my shoulders and stared/// I couldn't see what he was staring at since I was facing the other direction. He stared muttering some gibberish... I thought he'd seen a ghost or someone he knew or something.. then I turned and saw this slutty chick wit a high pitched voice in shorts and an off shoulder bluse.. I was so furious I just walked off. turns out he didn't know her or anything..
It is so hurtful. I am so tired of his behaviour that I do not want to go anywhere with my husband. He did not do this when we first met, but as time went on, he really started to look. Everywhere we go, grocery shopping yesterday was the last time. I do not know what I am going to do, but I have had it. We just got married in December and I am thinking about ending it if he does not stop. The strange thing is that many men look at me everyday and I catch them. Why does he need to continue to gawk at other girls/women? Why does he have to hurt me so much?
Because he is a douche"
Yes. He definitely looks. It makes me feel like he wants to chase other women and that he is not completely satisfied with our relationship. I have mentioned it to him and I even joked about putting blinders on. It hurts my feelings. I have read about how it is natural for men to look, blah, blah, blah and how women should not feel insecure. I feel like there is plenty of time to look when he is not with me. I respect guys that do not look at me when they are with their wives or girlfriends.
I think.it is sad that men do this openly without thinking of the consequences to their relationship.
Sometimes people take their relationships for granted and some people may not even know how to have a deep, loving relationship.
I am really thinking that I have to stop my relathion with my boyfriend.
As I read here, I don't feel anymore I want to go out or do the things that we did at the beginning when I come to live with him.
In this house it was all with oictures of another women, movies (dvd) and it was really a kind of obsation for him I am sure.
He got ret of them (dvd) because I was really feeling offended all the times I asked him, why do you need to keep this in here? his answer was always, just If you go in
OMG You are so right! I love the BLAHBLAH part!. There is NO difference between a man and a woman. And it is bull crap when they say it is natural. If women can control themselves so can a MAN! Please these men need to have some respect. I was raised by my grandparents so I have learned that knowledge from them (old school). People have no morales this day and age. Men can control them selves.
I would have to completely agree with u!!!
Mine does it all the time. when I asked him about it he first told me he was compairing my beauty to other women, then when it kept going on, he said he wasn't looking at them per se, he was looking at their clothes or shoes or their kids and dismissed it as quickly as he saw it..but I still feel very disrespected and stupid while the women that he stares at-look back at me as if to say, wow-he sees me and not you-the one he's with! And to me it makes those women "feel good" and leaves me feeling dumb...he doesn't get it and now is calling me insecure and saying that its my "problem" and is going with the "rage" wmotin now saying that basically I am accusing him of lusting after other women when his love is for me and me only...and now he is threatening to not go anywhere with me because now he has to be on the lookout for what he's looking at when we're in public...I give!
unbelievable...EXACT SAME RESPONSE from my pig of a boyfriend. I am done, he can look all he wants.
He looks but he doesn't gawk. BIG difference. He's very friendly. He talks to everyone. I don't know if he does this to make me jealous, but it doesn't work. I'm too secure with myself.
My ex-boyfriend would glance at other girls, and I'd just give the girls dirty looks. It made me feel like he was going to dump me for a girl he barely knew. When I talked to him about it, he apoligised and said that he loved me. It happens all the time so I don't worry about it..
U need to worry girl! A satisfied man would not find the need to look
It hurts my feelings when guys do this. I think a guy should be focusing more attention on the girl or woman he is with instead of obviously looking around when he already has a woman at his side. I usually don't say anything to him when he does this though.
U R right sweetie. No its NOT natural its disrespectful! We R no different than a man. There are sexy men all over but I am happy with the man I am with and all about him. I don't want another man thinking I am sweating him. Why would our men look at another woman? What they are not satisified with what they have. PLEASe they do all that, if they were alone with that woman they would cheat 100%. Shoot they are looking 4 a dam reason,and its NOT a good one. EXCUSES
Hi hunni my man is the same .he can't stop being a d*** when we go out .i don't go out to pub or cinema with him anymore with him just got sick of it
I mean, I look at other men. I would probably look at the women with him too. I like attractive people.
all men look at other women., including myself. its part of our DNA. sorry to break the news.
Well, it doesn't come up in my relationship anymore. My now fianc� has made a complete turn around and now I am one of his main focuses in life along with his job, my daughter, and our (soon to be) son.
ok so my husband looks at other girls but when I catch him he denies it and gets so p*ssed off1 I dnt even get mad but omg he does! AND now here recentally it got wrsoe and he admitted it
only the insecure won't like it