When a guy says he wants to make love to you...What does it mean?

When he says he wants Make love passionately to you, what does that mean? Could a guy say something like this without having/developing feelings for a girl? If he says he wants to cuddle and keep you warm? Lol without even knowing you much though? Confused as!
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  • Fact. Anyone (male or female) can say anything to anyone about anything without having or developing any kinds of feelings. But even then, when someone says "make love to" or "making love", they are usually trying to sound warm, or smooth, or maybe just trying to use the term as a replacement for cruder expressions, such as "bang" "hit" "fuck / fucking" or whatever else.

    The other part about him wanting to cuddle could be that he's a cuddler. Some guys are.

    Anyway all of it combined though, says he either fell in love with you way too fast, just thinks he did, or he thinks he's some kind of smooth operator. Still, no matter what the case, I wouldn't take this TOO seriously.

    If he starts sounding serious though, and it's been less than say... I don't know.. Let's say six months, then yeah he's getting a little too attached. In that case you may wanna consider cooling him off, or maybe even dumping him. It's not usually a good sign. It CAN be, it IS possible, just not probable.

    Anyway I hope this helped.

    Good luck here.

    • Sex is something we know we both want.. He says it every time we talk, and usually he uses words such as f***, f*** you hard, 'tear you apart', ravage you... Etc etc... LOL which is why I foun it strange that he was talking to me like that...

    • Then it's hard to say. Maybe he means it how it sounds? I don't know. At this point, all I can do is guess.

  • It means exactly what it says.

    He said nothing about having feelings for you, so it would be a mistake to make that assumption.

    Like most men, he means *exactly* what he says, but girls seem incapable of understanding the words coming out of his mouth.

    "Could a guy say something like this without having/developing feelings for a girl? "

    Easily.

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  • He's doesn't want to be just friends with benefits anymore. Making love and crazy sex aren't the same thing, emotionally. Seems like he likes you and wants a closer companionship (relationship).

    • So when he said he wanted to make love. He meant he wanted to make love to me, ans also what about him wanting me to spend the night?

    • I think it'd be implied, as he said it right before you were gonna have sex, it'd be weird if he didn't mean with you haha That's why I think he likes you too, if there's no attachment why would he want you to stay?

    • Yes it was right before sex lol.

  • Making love and having sex are not the same thing. Sex is just sex while making love means that there is an emotional connection.

    • So he wanted to actually make love to me and he wanted me to stay the night with him as well because he wanted to hold me.

    • Right. Meaning that he thinks of you as more than just a booty call,

    • Wrong.

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  • In my opinion since I am a guy, I have a a biased mind, but overall, it would probably mean something along the lines of he thinks you're beautiful and wants to have sex with you to satisfy his lusts.

  • Doesn't mean more than the statement itself. :)

  • You have a lover meaning a boyfriend or a guy that you are fucking. "Making love" to me is meaningful sex two people in love and in a relationship have.

  • 1. "When he says he wants Make love passionately to you, what does that mean?"

    It means he wants to show his love towards you in a way he thinks is best according to him.

    2. " Could a guy say something like this without having/developing feelings for a girl?"

    The answer is NO.

    3. "If he says he wants to cuddle and keep you warm? Lol without even knowing you much though? "

    A guy wouldn't want to cuddle with any woman just like that, the guy must know the woman well enough.

  • For now, let's consider that he means exactly what he says, he loves making love to you.

  • Making love is having sex out of feelings, and "fucking" tends to mean sex with no emotion there.

  • Depends on the guy - Unfotunately there are some who would say this to get in your pants then again there are some more romantic/sensual who want to say I don't F***, I make love - There is no fixed answer but a way of seeing his true intentions is insinuate you want to take things REAL SLOW, a true gentleman will hang around, a player will scarper

  • sex...

  • That means he just wants sex. Most women I swear always trade sex for love. Don't be naive to think that he will eventually has feelings for you. Maybe a very small chance, but in this day and age, don't count on it. Sorry to burst your bubbles.

  • Just follow your instincts. Sounds like your on track.

  • PIV. :)

  • Isn't that illegal?

    Even if it isn't it's disgusting he is literally only using you for sex with a pretty young girl

  • It means he wants to build a giant heart sculpture in your honor.

  • It's just a lame excuse to get in your pants.

    • This

  • "Making love" doesn't exist. The physical act does not change just because you call it something else. Having sex is having sex. Period.

  • Well, I had an experience like that once and I was the one whom said all that to a girl and I actually developed feelings for her. It didn't work out and I had to end it for the better of both of us.
    That's my opinion about that. I hope it makes any sense.

  • That means that he wants to put his D in your V

  • If you guys already had sex, it means he wants more. Set up a romantic ambiance. Get in the mood. Spend hours looking at each other. Touch bodies. Fondle. Listen to the other’s heart beat. Play with the hair. Whisper softly in the ear. Say words that make lovers shiver. Breathe. Then move on slowly to have sex.

    If you never had sex, it just means he wants to do it.

  • It's just a sugar-coated way of saying he wants to have sex with you.

  • He wants to fuck your hot body

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