How did your first relationship help you understand what you want?

ManWhoDropsTheBall
For those who have been in one or more relationships, how did your first one help you for going forward with another relationship?

I am currently in my first relationship and it is going over 6 months now. So far so good, I definitely will admit I have lost track of things I thought I would never have a problem with, such as keeping up with friends and keeping a wide range of personal goals. I don't blame this on my girlfriend, it is more of a transition period between school and first year of work, etc... The one thing that really trips me up about our relationship is how much of a mental toll it takes on me. For me I believe it is inevitable regardless of the girl, that I would be fully engaged to her if I truly loved her. So the mental aspect I do not believe I could full avoid.
How did your first relationship help you understand what you want?
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