What are the signs a guy is afraid of commitment?

Are there any signs to look for when you think a guy is into you but doesn't want a committed relationship with you, Even if he says he's not scared of commitment.


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  • Here goes:

    1. He obesses about sex or attempts to force you to sleep with him.

    2. He rarely talks about his own family (if he has a decent one) or your family for that matter. Guys that don't ever talk about families are giving much thought to the future of building a family with you.

    3. His conversations with you focus mostly about casual topics. That's not to say you can't have fun chats, but a lack of seriousness in addressing the matters that affect a couple in the long run need to be brought to the table.

    4. Plans, does he have any? Does the guy ever envision his future, with or without you? If too many of the talks you have with him focus strictly on what is happening for tomorrow, this is a warning sign.

    5. He's afraid of intimacy or unreceptive of getting to know your more personal and private details. If you open up to a person and share something that few people know, he ought to feel comfortable sharing back. If he never lets you close to his heart, there's a decent chance he doesn't picture a long-term relationship.

    I'm going to assume that the guy in question is your boyfriend or potential boyfriend? Why are you asking this question? Do you suspect that this person might be shying away from making you a long-term girlfriend? The more details about the guy and girl in question would be most helpful.


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  • -if he says 'we're just friends'

    -if he doesn't answer you 'yes you are my gf' if you ask him

    -if you ask him about the future and he says 'i don't know'

    these are a few ways of knowing a guy is afraid of committment

  • guys have a saying every wholes a goal well if he thinks sex is important then don't even start.

    most of the time guys feel scared of committing them selfs cause of other women .. just just like us ladies look at men and think ooooo he's a bit oright or what evers he mite be the same about women.

    if he's saying he's not scared then put ya foot down... if he likes you too then tell him youd like it to work out.

    and try to start somthing but don't get attatchd to him emotionaly cause if he does do somthing that hurts you then you will be more upset

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