Why do guys like putting their hands on a girl's waist so much?

I'm just wondering why guys seem to like putting their hands on a girl's waist so much? Especially if I'm at a club, it's like a guy will put his hands on my waist or put one on the small of my back even if we're not dancing. To be totally honest, I LOVE IT! :D I love the way a big, masculine pair of hands feel around my tiny, little waist. Something about it feels protective. But I'm just curious why guys do this? I've seen them do it with other girls to? Is it meant in a sweet, affectionate way or a more "lets f***" way?

So, Why do guys like putting their hands on a girl's waist so much?

Thanks :)

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Most Helpful Girls

  • I love when people touch my waist! I would always place my ex’s hands there as a hint, unfortunately he didn’t take it. And kept touching me on my upper back, which I kind of understood, because that was his favourite spot to be touched like that, it’s just that he could’ve figured that out about me too, I mean, I knew his favourite spot, why didn’t he discover mine?

  • I LOVEEEE when guys do that! It instantly grabs my attention and feels so intimate. I can't help but think of the guy in a sexual way afterward, and it definitely does make you feel like he's protective or putting a claim on you haha. Its nice!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Who said us protective and touchy guys are a-sexual? I love to touch a woman and hug her, keep her close and I love sex too. Men are blessed (cursed?!) at times with the much higher sex drive and protective instincts of girls. Consider it a blessing if you're with the right man.

  • Because your tummy is so soft, it feels fantastic. It can either be a protective thing or a sexual thing. I sort of think it is both. It is hard to not touch a woman and not feel some attraction towards her in a sexual manner. Us protective men have sex drives too! ;)

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  • Its just a natural thing we do, and a nice response is to smile if he is facing you, lean into him if he is behind you or just place your hand on his,x

  • lol why do we do it? I think if you re-read your question you'll know.. your reaction is the exact reason we do it

    • hehe, what reactions do you usually get?

    • almost all women like the protective feeling that comes from it, and once a guy first figures this out he begins actively using it... but that's if he's just wanting to f***. the other side of this is that guys tend to be protective of our women, it's instinct.. we want to protect you.. but in response to your comment. it depends on when I'm using it. if I'm single, and its a wild environment, I'll generally get laid... if I'm with someone I'm seeing, I may get laid,

    • but that's not the goal and that only happens after extensive cuddling and general lovey/romantic stuff.

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  • Not a guy, but I just love the shape and feeling of female hips and the security of holding them

  • When being taught to dance, women are told to put their arms on a mans shoulders and men are taught to put our hands on her hips. Same way we feel when you put your hands on our shoulders is the same way you feel when we put our hands on your hips. It's not meant to be sexual...but if you get horny from it, more power to ya

  • I view it as a romantic move. I personally would only want my boyfriend to hold me that way.

  • All I know is the girls love it when I grab their waist in doggy position and just jack hammer her to squirt'n'queef town.

  • He wants to feel protective of you and at the same time he feels so big holding the smallest part of your body... it is close to your butt too. So easy access when he feels being naughty by grabbing it

  • I don't know but hope they won't stop lol

  • Umm, because it feels nice to them? Why is that suprising to you?

  • You answered your own question.

  • I personally get very turned on by female curves. It just revs me engine. ;)

  • cause it just fits i guesssssss

  • Hey I like when guys put their hands on my waist lol. I like being held, so I guess these guys like.. holding? 😂 also they probably like feeling the girl's body

  • because curves are hooot

  • It feels so good😀

  • Men like touching women...weird huh?

  • That is just the natural place to place your hands when you hug her.

  • It's better than if he put his hand on your shoulder all the time

  • Possession. Plus, I just love to feel her body. And to possess it.

  • It's the same why I love putting my arms around a guy's big strong shoulders.

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