What if your wife secretly use a Ouija board or witchcraft?

Question

My husband and I have been married for nearly 4 years now (no kids yet). He had issues with my mother but eventually things ''worked out''. However, I wanted her to not get involved too much. She hated him once and now she was suddenly too nice, saying he's like a son, etc.

Feb 2019:
I secretly started playing the Ouija board with a friend (no one in our family nor my husband would've liked it because they supposedly had bad experiences). I'm not a believer but played it for fun and asked it several question, if Satan was real, if it was stupid, if my mother was being fake again to my husband, etc. A couple months later, I did some witchcraft and summoned Satan for fun. I read that it keeps people apart, that way I can have my husband for myself only. I don't believe in these things but I still ended up for hard.

Supposedly weird things have happened. My husband sometimes has nightmares of shadows having him, his relationship with my mother's fake ''you're like a son'' thing bs has ended, my mother showed her true colors (she never liked him and was only being polite out of resignation) and now I can keep my husband to myself, my younger sister (who lives with my mother) claims someone moves her covers and has nightmares, etc.

I can't help but laugh at this whole scene happening. I stopped playing with it though but these things are still happening according to them. They have no idea how, why nor what's going on. I might be careless one day and perhaps he'll find out. Honestly, what would you do if you find out your wife was using a Ouija board or witchcraft (for fun), meaning she was behind all this basically?

Updates:

3 mo

Nothing is happening directly to me though. I'm not the one with nightmares, nor visions of being watched, nor anything.

Answer 1

devilman666 | 273 opinions shared on Religion & Spirituality topic.

Yoda

I wouldn't care, but then I'm an athiest who thinks satanism is rad af. There's no real magic to it, it's just fun for the imagination. As for the dreams, seems kind of normal, as you said it's prerty common for your sister, and I don't know maybe your boyfriend is going through some stress rn? Maybe he's planning on proposing but afraid? Or maybe it's his subconscience telling him to fix the problems between himself and your mother? I don't know the answer, but ik there are plenty of normal explanations.

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3 mo
I'm already married. There is nothing to fix between my husband and mother. He was right the whole time that she'll never like him. She showed her true color of what a fake she's still is with him. He limited further contact with her, more than before. He can't stand fake people.
Asker

3 mo
At this point he doesn't care anymore about impressing my mother. In his view, he did more than enough.
devilman666

3 mo
Have you ever asked her why she doesn't like him?
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Asker

3 mo
She always wanted me to marry a very tall and wealthy professional man such as a doctor or lawyer; one that buys me expensive things and takes me out on dates and vacation many times. Well he's none of that and I'm happy. I believe in fairness to be honest. Why should the guy spend lots of money on us and pay our even our trips? I went to college, graduated in hotel administration and work too.
devilman666

3 mo
Sounds to me like your mother is being selfish and manipulative, she was just trying to pretend to be happy for you in the hopes that you would come running back into her arms crying about how poor he is. I think she probably cares for you, but you need to be upfront with her here and draw a line in my opinion. Either she gets the fuck over herself, and for real, not in some fake ass way, or she needs to get out of your life. If she can't put in a real effort to be happy for you then she doesn't deserve you. Tbh I kind of think your mother might just be wanting it so that she can befriend the rich boyfriend/husband and go on vacations with you two, I think she wants to live out her own fantasy of dating a rich man through you, which is very selfish. I might be reading into it too much though, I don't know her personally after all.

Answer 2

Asker

I'm already married. There is nothing to fix between my husband and mother. He was right the whole time that she'll never like him. She showed her true color of what a fake she's still is with him. He limited further contact with her, more than before. He can't stand fake people.

Answer 3

Asker

At this point he doesn't care anymore about impressing my mother. In his view, he did more than enough.

Answer 4

devilman666

Have you ever asked her why she doesn't like him?

Answer 5

Asker

She always wanted me to marry a very tall and wealthy professional man such as a doctor or lawyer; one that buys me expensive things and takes me out on dates and vacation many times. Well he's none of that and I'm happy. I believe in fairness to be honest. Why should the guy spend lots of money on us and pay our even our trips? I went to college, graduated in hotel administration and work too.

Answer 6

devilman666

Sounds to me like your mother is being selfish and manipulative, she was just trying to pretend to be happy for you in the hopes that you would come running back into her arms crying about how poor he is. I think she probably cares for you, but you need to be upfront with her here and draw a line in my opinion. Either she gets the fuck over herself, and for real, not in some fake ass way, or she needs to get out of your life. If she can't put in a real effort to be happy for you then she doesn't deserve you. Tbh I kind of think your mother might just be wanting it so that she can befriend the rich boyfriend/husband and go on vacations with you two, I think she wants to live out her own fantasy of dating a rich man through you, which is very selfish. I might be reading into it too much though, I don't know her personally after all.

Answer 7

OfDeath | 1.4K opinions shared on Religion & Spirituality topic.

Master

I wouldn't care because that stuff isn't real. Everyone has bad dreams and some people are more sensitive to delusions than others. Mothers in law also never like the son in law. Everything happening in your story is completely normal.

Answer 8

Agape93 | 1.5K opinions shared on Religion & Spirituality topic.

Master

I wouldn’t care. Ouija boards are nonsense. They don’t work.
But if they did something that would work, I still won’t care. It’s my house and my land, the only spirits on it are ones I allow to be there, for that is MY Will, and my Will is absolute and beyond contestation.

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3 mo
If anything I'm actually glad my mother revealed her true color again. When we were dating, he clearly said ''your mother will never like me''. He was right. I find it disgusting to pretend to like someone and go out of your way of being extra nice only out of resignation, faking it.
Agape93

3 mo
That literally has nothing to do with what I just said. :/
Asker

3 mo
Actually it kind of does. If hypothetically speaking the Ouija board and witchcraft nonsense caused that to happen (a fake getting exposed), then I'm glad.
I don't believe in those things but did it for fun on my spare time.
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Agape93

3 mo
They can’t cause anything to happen.
1. It’s for divination, nothing more.
2. It literally cannot work because there is zero necromantic properties to it.

That’s like people saying telling a ghost story can cause grandma to die 3 states over.

Answer 9

Asker

If anything I'm actually glad my mother revealed her true color again. When we were dating, he clearly said ''your mother will never like me''. He was right. I find it disgusting to pretend to like someone and go out of your way of being extra nice only out of resignation, faking it.

Answer 10

Agape93

That literally has nothing to do with what I just said. :/

Answer 11

Asker

Actually it kind of does. If hypothetically speaking the Ouija board and witchcraft nonsense caused that to happen (a fake getting exposed), then I'm glad.
I don't believe in those things but did it for fun on my spare time.

Answer 12

Agape93

They can’t cause anything to happen.
1. It’s for divination, nothing more.
2. It literally cannot work because there is zero necromantic properties to it.

That’s like people saying telling a ghost story can cause grandma to die 3 states over.

Answer 13

Swe_Elin

Xper 4

Well, neither satan or god i visiting you in any way, or your husband. His dreams is caused by electromagnetic signals in the brain, and it's not dangerous in any way. You can relax, you have done nothing.

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3 mo
True and the other things can also be explained by logic. My husband and mother being distant again is because the truth came out and mom simply showed her true colors, that she was being a fake all the time and the mask would come out again at any time. My sister having nightmares is common. Everyone has bad dreams.
Swe_Elin

3 mo
Exactly! It have nothing to do with you or god/satan, but bad dreams can have a stand in bad experiences which we reveal in our dreams - like an argument.

Answer 14

Asker

True and the other things can also be explained by logic. My husband and mother being distant again is because the truth came out and mom simply showed her true colors, that she was being a fake all the time and the mask would come out again at any time. My sister having nightmares is common. Everyone has bad dreams.

Answer 15

Swe_Elin

Exactly! It have nothing to do with you or god/satan, but bad dreams can have a stand in bad experiences which we reveal in our dreams - like an argument.

Answer 16

Anonymous

you are opening yourself and family up to demonic spirits

the bible says take no part in divination

and it will affect your husband

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3 mo
If this were true than I'm glad it revealed my mother's true colors. I'm glad her fake niceness got exposed.

Answer 17

Asker

If this were true than I'm glad it revealed my mother's true colors. I'm glad her fake niceness got exposed.

Answer 18

blondfrog | 220 opinions shared on Religion & Spirituality topic.

Master

Then we are getting a divorce.

Answer 19

_Just_A_girl_

Xper 7

Rebuked.

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