Search Results: hyphenating last names

I have a twin brother, so the "no sons" thing is irrelevant. However, I wanna keep my last name when I get married. Its very nice: Robinson.
I don't want to hyphenate or take my husband's last name and I want our kids to have my last name.
In the age of "equality," does that make me selfish? Why?

Seems pretty straight forward.
Comment if anything doesn't suit you or if you'd rather hyphenate whatever.

If you'd keep your last name (as a girl), what name would you want your kids to take?

I'd rather we both hyphenate both our last names.

He wants me to take his last name, said that any kids we have must have his last name, and told me that he won't take my last name in any form (because neither of us like my dad).

He also said there is no point in getting married if I'm not going to take his last name.

I'm not really opposed to taking his last name other than I want to know why he wants me to (which he refuses to tell me) and I don't want the same last name as his mother (she flirts with him, uses him, talks badly about him, and expects him to be a mama's boy (he used to be one, but got over it when we got engaged)).

I'd appreciate a guy's opinion on why he might not want to tell me the reason he wants me to take his last name. I'd also apreciate opinions from guy's and gal's on why I should take his last name, hyphenate, or keep my last name.

Thanks in advance for voting and giving opinions.