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Search Results: long term relationship
In long-term relationships, do women truly value personality over looks?
I’ve heard this said a lot, especially when people talk about what really matters in a long-term relationship, but I’m curious how true it actually is in real life. Obviously physical attraction gets things started for...
BDRick
Xper 4 Age: 33 Talking to a guy for 2 months… but he has a girlfriend (long-distance). Am I wasting my time?
I need outside perspectives because I feel like I’m starting to lose clarity. I’ve been talking to a guy consistently for about 2 months. We text almost daily — not just small talk, but real conversations, flirting, and...
confusedgirl1025
Xper 1 Age: 30 Can you have a healthy long-term relationship while living with mental illness?
My mental illness has made relationships exceptionally difficult for me. It saddens me because I know I’ll never fully get better but I don’t want to end up alone. I thought hearing other people’s stories could give me...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do you know when your relationship is sufficiently solid for you to propose?
Over the past eleven years, I have frequently responded to questions on this subject and have always said that you should not consider marriage until you have had a few conflicts with your partner. Almost every...
u Is my girlfriend ignoring my advice a communication issue or disrespect?
In a long term relationship 6 years. I'm finding that my girlfriend will do anything in her power to go against my advice or suggestions. We have talked about it several times and still we find ourselves in situations...
Anonymous
(30-35) How did you meet your partner and realize they were the right one?
I want to know 2 things 1) How did you meet your current or your best partner, or the longest term partner? 2) What made you confident that they were potentially a Good person to be your partner and then you agreed to go...
Nik1hil
Master Age: 29 Why do fanatics and radicals see the world only in extremes?
Here are some examples where fanatics and radicals only think the world works in extremes: - A man that suffers from Madonna-Whore complex views women as either a sweet and pure virgin or a dirty slut. Even if she only...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why does this taken guy with a long-term girlfriend keep pursuing me?
I met this guy who is in a relationship. (the time I met him i didn't know this) he's been pretty open about his situation which is pretty much he's been in a relationship with this girl for 10 years. he doesn't want kids...
fuzzybunny420
Xper 1 Age: 26 Should I list ‘long-term relationship’ or stay open on dating apps?
There are so many people out there saying they are unsure what they’re looking for and honestly it’s like big time red flags but even the good ones are seemingly very receptive to you even when you have “looking for long...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it likely my boyfriend lied about his past long-term relationships?
We shared about our childhood past, our family dynamic, likes, dislikes and past relationships. I had two long-term relationships during my HS years and one in college. He would briefly claimed to having two past...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do people stay years with people they never end up marrying?
I've met few older dudes in their late 30s to early 40s. Both have been in multiple long term relationships for 7-10 years. One guy lived with his ex for 8 years. Another guy dated an older woman for 10 years throughout...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do many women have low self esteem and mistakenly believe empathy will cause a man to love them and stay with them long term?
Do females think they need loads of empathic skills to be in a relationship with a man that loves them but in reality they don’t? A woman having strong empathetic or relationship building skills doesn’t seem to really...
1949baddie
Xper 1 Age: 77 How many time should a girl waiting to receive a message from a guy?
So me and a guy have been chatting and there’s sparks flying between us. It’s really good. But he read my message 2 days ago and hasn’t spoken to me ever since not even to check on me. I’m sorry if I might sound crazy but...
Anonymous
(25-29) When you chat on here, do you tell your partner?
We all chat with different people on here. At least that's my impression. For those who have a steady partner or are in a long term relationship, do you tell your partner you chat with other people?
Natasha1995
Xper 6 Age: 30 How do you know if they're the right person for you to choose to be with for long-term?
Modern dating has been pretty complex in the U. S. as we know it. Although we would like to think and build on the ideals that we know what we want. But to strive for that long-term relationship you know you'll settle...
bobalife
Guru Age: 35 Would you be disappointed if you had a date with your long term partner on Valentine's Day and the date didn't end with sex?
If you have been dating long enough that your relationship already includes sex, are you expecting that a date on Valentine's Day will eventually lead to a romp in the bedroom and spending the night (if you don't already...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) 
How do you deal with losing a colleague you have feelings for?
I talked about this before. I have feelings for a woman I work with but she’s unavailable, being in relationship I was playing a very long game hoping she would one day break up with her boyfriend to ask her out...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I being dumb by falling for someone before my divorce is finalized?
I’m divorcing my husband I told him a few months ago I wanted a divorce. He is a pathological liar and cheater and I keep forgiving him and eventually stop caring after he cheated on me while I was pregnant and I lost the...
Anonymous
(25-29) What is the most important idea in a long term relationship to you besides trust?
I was talking to someone earlier about long-term relationships and how far capability creates a sense of mutual respect. The comfort in knowing you’re both capable people. Someone responded by talking about worldview,...
Would you tell your friend if her boyfriend was talking trash about her behind her back?
I’m dealing with a really uncomfortable situation at work involving a friend of mine, Alex. I helped her get this job when she was struggling. She’s very shy, has low self-esteem, and lost her long-term boyfriend years...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 