Search Results: meetup group

What should I wear to karaoke night?

It’ll be summer here. I’m also going on a pub crawl, with a meetup group, in an attempt to make friends. I’ve never done either of these activities and I’ll be going without my friends, most likely. I want to look nice...

MoonFace2

Xper 6 Age: 37

Is she trying to take me out of the 'friendzone' into something or am I overthinking this?

To start I met her through a IRL friend we're not friends with anymore, we flirted a bunch talked about dating but didn't happen. I introduced her to my online friend group as she's starting out streaming, over the last...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl i'm crushing on mentioned dating someone, not sure if it's me or not?

In short we met through a mutual friend, it was heavily flirty at first even considering a friends with benefits situation then dating after I confessed I started to like her, but she got feelings back for her old...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

What should I do about these guys?

There are these men in our Autistic meetup group (and it’s a big meetup group with many tables); who keep trying to sit with my best friends and I, when we’re trying to enjoy our time together and meeting other people....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, Do you think he's interested?

Before I begin, I have isolated myself for a few years, and I would like to try dating again, but I am clueless, right now. I met this really nice Korean guy who is the shy type, so he is hard to read, for me. All are...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a guy dump me due to “lack of mutual attraction” when he asked me to be his girlfriend a few days before?

I went on three dates with a guy with my MeetUp group in less than three weeks. On the third date, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I was taken aback by all of this being that we had only known each other for less than a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My friends with benefits (30F) doesn’t really seem to want to be friends?

I met my friends with benefits “M” through a MeetUp group. I was instantly physically attracted to her and we started flirting a bit each MeetUp. Eventually, we hook up and agree that neither of us is looking for anything...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is my match losing interest in me?

So i've been talking to a match on a dating app for about 3 weeks. he asked me out to a boardgame night (which meant i would meet him for the first time in a group setting, and i wasn't keen on that, i'd prefer a 1-on-1...

Anonymous

(30-35)

"just do things you enjoy and you'll meet people" = Most out of touch dating advice

As stated in the title that advice is garbage. If your goal is to meet people naturally away from work then its always better to place yourself where they want to hang out, rather than where you want to hang out. For...

deus_ex_sisyphus

Xper 5 Age: 31

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Guy's Behavior

Why is it that everybody I meet in meetup groups who does not have friends is overweight (significantly overweight) ?

Why am I the only one in the meetup groups I’m in who isn’t. I have an athletic lifestyle and I know that they won’t enjoy doing what I do. And won’t be able to do those things. that’s why I ask this.

hsshannah96

Yoda Age: 29

Need closure on the end of a friendship - thanks for your input on a VERY long post (not really a my take, sorry!)

Apologies ahead of time, for the extremely long wall of text. This is a complicated matter, that has spanned a few years - so it is impossible to write a shortened version of it. Definitely not a read, for those that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Health & Fitness

How do you deal with loneliness?

Let's tackle the elephant in the room – loneliness. It's that unwelcome companion that can sneak up on us, making even the sunniest days feel a bit gray. But fear not, because dealing with loneliness is not a...

YesterdaysChild

Xper 7 Age: 59

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How to host what could be a bigger birthday party than the one I’d intended?

One of my mates is hoping to hit on a girl he liked from our last meetup picnic group and informed me that he’s inviting a whole heap of people from meetup to my birthday party bbq in the park to try to find her. I wasn’t...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did my friend go silent when I invited him to a group activity?

It was a meetup bad movie club night and my besties and I and many others are going. He just went silent after he tried to persuade me to join an Asperger’s meetup event and said his sister isn’t going and I said no,...

HappyWoman34

Explorer Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

A guy friend invited me to a meetup group?

He mentioned that his sister isn’t going. For me, It’s too far away and I don’t like the host. So I told him to invite his guy friends. I followed up by inviting him to a group movie night and he went silent. Did I miss...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What should I wear to the next social group?

I’ve joined a meetup bad movie night group with my friends and there will be lots of men and women our age, attending. It’s a library group. What should I wear?

BrightBubblyKat

Xper 6 Age: 37

Where do you meet men in NYC besides bars?

the bar scene doesn't work for me. I walk in and nobody talk to me for hours. I try to make eye contact with some dudes and they almost always are just looking for nothing but just hookup. Nobody ever hits on me. Maybe...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I break the Lonley & Bored of life?

I've been single for 7 years, I barley dated anyone in that time, despite being attractive. I get out as much as I can with different hiking and traveling groups. I've made a friend or 2, not anyone I cab truly trust....

Anonymous

(36-45)