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Search Results: getting approached by guys
How do you deal with being on the other side of unrequited love?
I met this guy whilst on a training course with my work. He was first to approach me and I was very shy and nervous on the course but him and another guy really bought me out of my shell and supported me a lot. I moved...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it ever understandable to hate the opposite gender?
I was listening to a story of a self -proclaimed misogynist, He's now dead by the way. But he was telling a story about how he went to jail for statutory rape at 16. The girl was 15 and it was consensual. But word got out...
chris_987
Yoda Age: 38 Is this “married” guy really interested or just over all friendly guy and just messing around in general and don’t mean anything?
He has been at my job for a year now, when he first came the first day he came up to me asking me if I was ( European) I said yes abd he introduced me to himself and that’s how at least I would say it started… he would...
Anonymous
(25-29) Not sure what Im feeling about this situation? Is it my intution that smth is wrong or im overthinking?
So this guy (21M) and I (19F) just got offical 3 days back after 4 dates. We both are old school with dating tho we met on a dating app. it is hella weird cause I am the type to want to take my time knowing someone even...
confusedtea
Xper 4 Age: 22 Why are older guys approaching me more than guys my own age group?
Please do you have any idea how I can attract a slightly younger guy. I am 25 and I keep on getting asked out by guys who in their 40’s. How can I get someone who is near my age group. I don’t mind 10-12 years old. But...
Anonymous
(25-29) How does one 'put themselves out there'?
I would ignore it if it were only one or two of my buddies telling me this but I am getting told this by a couple of my friends that as a guy, I'm supposed to be 'putting myself out there'. I didn't express any...
Al_Musafir
Xper 6 Age: 25 Why is it easier for guys to get female attention than for women to get male attention in the younger generation?
I don’t think this applies to older generations but I’m a 19 year old freshman in college and even since high school i’ve noticed how easy it is for a decent guy who dresses decently to get a girlfriend. Guys don’t even...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why am I unlovable?
I feel like I try so hard with the women I like, and it always gets me nowhere! I had a blind date, and half the time she just ignored me. And as me and my friends left the bar, she gave her number to some random guy that...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, if you notice a bigger gap in looks between a couple do you assume that is a high quality man?
I was once told that men who are in a relationship are getting more attention of other women who are still single. I always assumed this was just because these women feel competitive and want to see if they are able to...
sawno
Master Age: 32 If a guy starts dating his female best friend after getting rejected by another woman which woman is his backup usually?
This guy approached me when he already knew his female friend for about a year. I rejected him and a few months later they are a couple. Did he at the time consider me a plan B or backup for her or was she the consolation...
Anonymous
(25-29) If you install dating apps on and off every couple of months, isn’t that an indication you actually want a relationship?
29F, I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years. I’m under the impression that I want a relationship as I install apps on and off. I’m at the point where I get drained when they’re installed & when I’m not in the mood...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why did this random girl approach me and ask me if I was ok on my date with this guy?
Last weekend I agreed to meet up with this guy for a drinks date. He was being very forward and familiar with me in the week leading up to the date, and it felt kinda strange he was pretending to know me so well, and was...
LL2939B
Xper 1 Age: 33 He lost interest in 2 days?
This guy started showing interest in me at the gym. (He's maybe 28, and I am in my 30's but look about 30). He's the one who initiated it, by hovering around me, while he is quite shy. He continued to hover around me in...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do some girls get mad when you ask them out?
I can't recall one getting mad in person, I'm sure they did, I just don't recall because I used to approach so many girls at the mall regularly. Or anywhere for that matter. Usually it's online they get mad. Honestly just...
red324
Guru Age: 37 I think I'm asexual and don't want to be in a relationship, but I also get jealous when others date?
Hi, so I have a problem that I've been dealing with for a long time. I was wondering if I could get some opinions about this, or if anyone can relate to my experience. I don't have the desire to date or be in a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do some guys are trying to impress girls and try to test them to see if they are interested and when the girl is showing interest they step away?
There was this guy at the gym that I had a crush on ( he didn't have a girlfriend) and he seemed to be interested too but at some point his behavior was starting to getting odd. When I started going to the gym this guy...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is our partner selection shaped by the opposite sex we were exposed to early on?
Georgian men - while might be very sexy, there’s a reason I never wanted to have a relationship with one. On a nice note, they are not shy, they are assertive, masculine, brave and chivalrous but some can get a be a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Did we fuel this behaviour?
We employed an office manager. I can't say anything in regards to her work but she seemed OK to me. We only ever had very brief conversations that were rushed. We had a trip to manchester 4 days after she started. The...
lilyanony1
Yoda Age: 35 Guys, Met, hit it off, followed me on socials and liked my post, then suddenly ignored me and removed his like weeks later?
Knew "O" at the start of the year. Always thought he was attractive but way out of my league (tall, accomplished, good looking, popular). Got acquainted on a 1:1 basis at a party recently - danced together (not intimately...
Anonymous
(18-24) Met at a party, requested to follow me the morning after, likes my post then unlikes weeks later?
Knew "N" at the start of the year. Always thought he was attractive but way out of my league (tall, accomplished, good looking, popular). Got acquainted on a 1:1 basis at a party recently - danced together (not intimately...
Confuzed247
Xper 3 Age: 23 