Search Results: love handles

Is it projection?

My boyfriend, ex boyfriend now, always accuses me of cheating. Brings up made up stories he believes from years ago. People that I haven’t even seen in years that he believes I cheated on him with. He is a known cheater...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Do people care about people 25+ who don't have an abundance of money or time in this generation?

They say social media isn't real, but now a lot of people are starting to ask for social media handles instead of phone numbers. What I'm seeing is women living long enough to become villains and men continuing down their...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How do you cope, while you wait on love and stability?

Time started: 2:04am I don't think it's right to start dating someone or trying to pursue someone when you're not in a good position in life. If it's a chronic problem and you learned to manage it , I think it's ok....

Wuai201

Xper 6 Age: 29

Dating

Why would a guy just straight up share his "red flags"?

I'm crushing on someone and I think is reciprocated. Like 90% sure. However, he will casually just mention his red flags (or what he considers to be red flags). Stuff like having an addictive personality and being...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Anyone else dislike tall men >than 6'1 or men who stare when they're locked into a conversation with them?

I'm a 5'7 big woman, but when taller men see me I'm either cute or flirtatious. I think that my eyes are a little seductive already, but I think from their view, it's even more so. When they look down at me I feel...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

My boyfriend said I was gross because I didn’t shave my body hair in some time is this ok?

So I recently decided to stop shaving because I always get ingrown hair and nicks and overall I feel like I got a beard wherever I shave so I called this place for a wax appointment and they said my hair was too short...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

Do you also halve your appetite when you begin a real weight loss diet?

I usually mix 2 fruits with yogurt in the morning as a form of half breakfast, and today I was stuffed to the brim after 1 fruit. I also find when I eat dinner now, I have to halve my rice intake because I cannot handle...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Education & Career

How do I handle judgement from employers about my spent criminal record stopping me from applying for jobs?

Long story cut short I made mistakes in my younger years and have had no criminal record for over 5 years. However employers don't want to hire me and when they find out some of them even fire me understandably. But this...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Technology & Internet

What do you think about Bluesky?

Bluesky is a social network modelled on the old Twitter. These are my cons and pros: Cons -Almost total left-wing/liberal echo chamber, with a handful of never-Trump Republicans and some apolitical users -Far fewer...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How Do I Look?

Are “Love handles” attractive?

I was a little fat before and I was always insecure about my waist love handles jajaja. But recently a girl friend of mine told me they’re actually attractive I at first I thought she just said it to make me feel good but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How do you handle bf’s excessive jealousy?

I love my boyfriend and I don’t want to break up with him, but his jealousy is becoming really difficult to deal with. He gets upset when I talk to my male coworkers or if I go out with my girlfriends and their boyfriends...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Genuinely what do I do?

So I am in a bit of a weird situation. A girl I got to know last summer suddenly was texting me heavily and showing interest in all parts of my life and noticeably asked questions about my love life. I developed feelings...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Marriage & Weddings

Starting the CR1 Visa Process — Advice Needed (U. S. Spouse, Husband in Gambia)?

Hi everyone, I’m just getting started on the CR1 visa process and would really appreciate some guidance. I'm a U. S. citizen living in Tennessee, and I’m petitioning for my husband who lives in Gambia. We’re legally...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How do I handle my complicated relationship?

I've been needing advice on this for a long long time, but never knew where or how to ask. I've been seeing a woman for quite some time now. We started very intense, but both had just gotten out of relationships. We have...

miyiva9717

Xper 1 Age: 35

Dating

Girls, How do I know if my girlfriend has crossed the line with my man?

Ok, I have a question. Here lately, my friend who is a girl is getting very very comfortable with the guy that I am dating. He seems to reciprocate. Do you think this is me being protective and jealous? Am I overacting. I...

Sparklight

Xper 4 Age: 33

Family & Friends

How do you handle an abusive parent as an adult?

My dad used to physically and mentally abuse my mom when we were kids. He also cheated on her several times and since my mom, he’s cheats on every other wife or girlfriend. He also never put us first and always his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why would he start dating his best friends ex?

The guy I was seeing hated his friend’s girlfriend because she was toxic and mean to his friend and she was controlling while they were together. Around the same time the friend broke up with the girlfriend my guy and I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Education & Career

How do I handle this new job?

So I started working a new job a few months back and it’s been an adjustment, I love the job and I make pretty decent money but that is heavily reliant on my co workers. I work in sales and I’m essentially an...