Search Results: what makes a good relationship trust

What is going through his mind?

There's a guy that I've worked with on and off for two years now. We're pretty good buds, and usually work well together. We have a ton in common, and I feel like we generally have a good time together when we hang out. A...

_Emmie_

Xper 5 Age: 26

Flirting

Are you talking/texting someone you shouldn't?

I ask because I'm currently texting three women who are in fact married. I have no interest in being with them beyond flirting. I've plainly asked at the beginning if "it's okay" or if "it might cause issues, i can stop"...

pervertedjester

Editor Age: 46

I ask because I'm currently texting three women who are in fact married. I have no interest in being with them beyond flirting. I've plainly asked at the beginning if "it's okay" or if

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Relationships

We're both too old, unwanted pregnancy, she wants to keep the baby?

Hello all, I'm 49, my girlfriend is 43. I met her 6 years ago. She already had two young kids from a previous relationship. I made clear when we got together that I would never want kids, being too old, and thinking her...

max_stress

Xper 1 Age: 51

Dating

Did he lost interest in texting me?

So I met this guy online and we've been talking for like a month, tbh we talked dirty stuff andI told him we need to stop cause I don't wanna lose him I wanna keep our friendships, and told him lets just be platonic...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Did he lost interest in talking with me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Do I forgive him if he cheated?

Anonymous

(25-29)

so I have been talking to a guy for over a year now. very hard to communicate with. He putted the effort to talk to me everyday and be present. But because he is a workaholic he could

so I have been talking to a guy for over a year now. very hard to communicate with. He putted the effort to talk to me everyday and be present. But because he is a workaholic he could not make a lot of time to spent some time toghether to really bond. At first I didnr mind because i have a good life of my own and i would make time to see him when it could. That would be taking a walk eating or spent some time alone in the car. He toldnme he is looking for something serious and wants to get married. I dated in between of the beginning stage with other guys. i stopped and only dated him the rest of the 5-6 months. When i would ask about our relationship he was very hessitant about the future but would still send me a lot of signals about marriage like houses he is looking for to live in and would say things like do you like this one and that one. So he would act really serious but when it came to talking about how serious it was always a open end. Like he was scared to commit. So he told me about his past relationshipsnot having a really serious relationship with any girl and that i feel different to him ( in a good way). I recently found out he talked to a girl in the beginninf of the talking stage and also would see her. ( hook up) But I know for a fact he was not planning to marry ( no offense, there are deeper lying things that i know about. Just know for a fact he would never marry her). 2 weeks ago i asked about our relationship again and i found out that after i had the talk with him he contacted the other girl again after not talking for months. When she asked about something serious he would ghost her. I had a conversation immediatly and he told me that he was not serious about her and he is with me and doesn't want to break contact becaus he wants me and wants to further invest more in the relationship and did wrong. He doesn't want me to leave but give him a chance to prove himself and told me he has a lot of commitment issues and trust issues with girls.

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Dating

#1 What’s the youngest you feel comfortable dating AND #2 what do you think of this situation?

I met this great guy. We’re both Christian, not into smoking/drinking, good sense of humor, monogamous, great conversationalists/listeners, respectful, low body count, and have similar interests. But… — He’s younger than...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Dating

My insecurity is ruining my relationship. How can I stop being so insecure?

I have trust issues (who doesn’t lol), but it’s definitely gone too far to the point where it’s harming my relationship. My boyfriend does have a history of lying and he has done some shady things in the past which...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Attending a wedding soon — I’m MoH and my ex is BM. Suggestions? (See details.)?

My ex and I have a long college sweetheart relationship, but we parted ways because of diverging career paths (and some really needless jealousy issues on his part since everyone knew I was 100% committed to him, but I’m...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Why is he choosing toxic but comfort over a deeper connection?

Me and this guy met 2 years ago. Both in toxic relationships where we werent getting our needs met. Feelings grew between us, he left his relationship thinking I would leave mine bc we were having issues. I said no I have...

roseyynh

Xper 4 Age: 28

Relationships

I’m tired and regret that I didn’t put enough time to built this relationship, that now I think it’s too late?

When my boyfriend and I started dating I was working away every second week. We did long distance for 5 months out of our 10 month relationship. Within that time during our first month I found out he stayed at his ex gfs...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Boyfriend has been lying all this time?

Hey, so today i’m desperately in need of advice because I’m tired and feel drained from my relationship. i’ve been dating mr perfect for almost 2 years (mr perfect cos he’s a good guy and has always treated me right) We...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Can trust issues be a good reason to avoid relationships?

I've only been in one "serious" relationship when I lost my virginity to him at 26. We met online through a dating site (in 2013) and kind of hit it off but I wasn't expecting anything serious being that it was long...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Do I move on or?

I’ve been friends with a guy for about a year through that year there has been flirting from both sides and he’s gone out of his way to see me and his actions have suggested he's interested in more than friends but he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Should I date if I have low self esteem?

Although I've always been an excellent student, I earn minimum wage after graduation. I can't have relationships with girls anymore because if they like me, I think there is something wrong with them. Why would they...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Feel like women can’t get past my looks?

Not trying to point the finger, I can own my faults and mistakes. I admit, I’m not a chiseled alpha “top G”. I’m a tall but large guy in my early 30s. I’m educated, have a respectable job that I’m growing with, I’m very...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

I am confused can someone help me So the thing is I heard something about my crush from this girl who kinda confused my perception about him now?

So my crush is from my building I know him since long time we were good friends but now we are friends but I don't know much about him, So there's this girl whom I walk with usually since a few months she told me that she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

How can I move on?

My ex from 7 YEARS AGO keeps constantly popping back into my life. normally isn’t a problem because I don’t usually entertain it. But I did give in & make the mistake of meeting up with him (as a friend) last year July....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

What do you think of the “orange peel” relationship theory?

The whole idea of the theory basically the idea that if you can trust your partner to do easy small tasks for you - (like peeling an orange) without asking or complaining then that means that you can trust them to have...

caitycat21

Xper 7 Age: 20

Guy's Behavior

Why did he switch up so suddenly?

My ex-boyfriend and I ended things on good terms and we remained friends for a couple of years before we started really talking again. We were constantly communicating every day for a few months, some lingering feelings...

carlyd1015

Xper 3 Age: 22