Search Results: Am I being too hard on myself
Am I too hard on myself or are my generation just really lacking compared to me?
I'm always thinking I'm such a loser and I can be really harsh on myself. I've recently turned 25, I have a boyfriend who I'm moving in with eventually in are first home together, I'm learning to drive and I have okayish...
Why does it turn girls off so much when a guy is desperate, needy, and trying too hard to get a girlfriend?
Seriously, why do girls despise guys who are desperate, needy, and trying or looking too hard to get a girlfriend? It really frustrates me and depresses me, because I am a 21 year old guy, I have been single my entire...
Am I too hard on my girlfriend?
I find myself getting short tempted with my girlfriend lately. We are in a long term relationship with a dead sex life. She has taken a real negative attitude with sex, that only leaves me frustrated. I fall asleep at...
Am I trying too hard? Should I put myself first? Or am I overthinking? </3?
Hi, so I have a really close friend who I haven’t seen since the beginning of quarantine. We’ve been friends for almost 9 years now and we consider each other to be our closest friend. We’ve been through a lot and tbh,...
Was I being too much?
I got soaked in the rain yesterday and I came down with a cold it was bad but because I work in air conditioning it got worse today so I called my boyfriend if he could pick me up and drop me home today cause I wasn't...
I can’t seem to find myself in a loving relationship. What am I doing wrong?
I am a 29-year-old black male a lot of people say I’m a catch, and wise beyond my years (my personal opinion I’m outgoing and funny and good looking) and in the past three years I’ve been working on my mental physical and...
Is there a way to recover from being too available with a guy?
I have discovered the hard way, that I have made myself too available for a guy that I really like and want to get to know. We have known each other for several months and he is getting over an X. During this time, he...
Do you think my friends and family may be right about me being too nice and I should be a little meaner?
So I am a very nice girl. I’m sweet, kind, thoughtful, always thing about others, wanting to be like and I don’t even dare to curse but I do admit I have a hard time standing up for myself. I’ve been lied to, used for my...
How can I stop being TOO independent and let a guy in?
Being an independent woman is something I always admired in others, and I always wanted to become one myself. Well, it seems that because of how much life kicked my butt the last few years, I have become SUPER...
Am I being too demanding of my boyfriend?
I was always the laid-back type of girlfriend, who doesn't easily get annoyed and doesn't cause the kind of drama that most girls do in relationships. I don't get upset over dumb things or little things. BUT there is...
Do you think it’s weird to wait?
I’ve never had any sort of romantic experience. I’m 18 years old, I’m in good shape and I’m generally considered to be pretty attractive. I’ve probably had plenty of chances to try stuff but I’ve always believed that when...
Is it really hard to win over an ex girlfriend when we messed up?
I heard from my good friend my ex girlfriend might come back and is willing to give it another chance, last one though. However, she's taking her time and is still hurt at this moment. I've failed her by being tardy on...
How do I get my boyfriend to try harder in our relationship?
So, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years and things are great, for the most part. I know he is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with and I know he feels the same way, but sometimes I feel...
How do you deal with comments about weight gain/or being overweight from family/friends?
Just some background to this, I'm 24 and I have never been "overweight", until now. I always could lose 10-15 pounds but never "fat". I am 5 foot 6, normally around 130, In 2015 i lost 20 pounds the wrong way and got down...
Is it possible to be too nice?
The other I was talking to a friend and they inquired how the dating scene was going for me. For me it never goes well, I have a hard time meeting people. My approach has always been simple, a greeting and some small talk...
Too scared to make a move?
Ok well, there's this guy who is one of my best friends, and he says he's in love with me but hardly ever speaks to me in person, only on IM and texts. A while ago he hooked up with this other girl I really don't like and...
I like a guy friend, he doesn't know. He's getting over someone and is being distant. Not sure what to do?
We started talking just as his relationship was coming to an end (about a month ago). We sent long paragraphs to each other, I was helping him any way I could. I've caught feelings and haven't told him. He told me he...
How much makeup is too much makeup?
So my usual routine is some nude colored eye shadow, winged eyeliner, and a tiny bit of foundation and blush on my cheekbones. The whole process takes a grand total of 10 -12 minutes. Honestly I thought I used a very...
I have a boyfriend but I might be falling for a friend. (A lot of detail might not be able to fit everything) How do I stop falling for the friend?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 1/2 years. Past 2 1/2 are long distance. I love him and I see him as my best friend so I don't see myself cheating or hurting him. However, I met a guy doing prereqs for nursing...
How can I stop being frustrated with myself?
I’m the kind of person where every time I mess up/make a mistake, I get down on myself to the points of tears and self-loathing. Making a mistake can put me in a sorry mood for the rest of the day and I question if I can...
