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Anonymous

Am I his "second choice"?

Basically (in short version because it is a long story) my best guy friend liked one of our mutual best friends, she rejected him. A couple weeks later (because I liked him at the time) we made out. I told him we need to...

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Anonymous

Am I his second choice?

I've been dating this guy for about 5 years and he told me he was texing a girl for about 2 weeks and I found out that he liked her a lot but she didn't like him back and this isn't the first time... about 2 years ago i...

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Anonymous

Am I his second choice?

I was dating a man casually, but we had an intense connection and it seemed like we were headed toward exclusivity. However, a woman he dated just a couple of times returned to the area, even though it is a couple hours...

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Anonymous

I like him but I dont want to be his second choice.. what should I do?

Normally, I wouldn't want a relationship with someone I work with but I like this guy and I know he liked me too. He's told me before and he flirts with me all the time. However, the second this other girl that we both...

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Anonymous

Am I a second choice ?

I confessed to this guy that I like him and he said he has a girlfriend and they've been together for a year. He said that he would have dated me if he met me sooner. I didn't know him when he started dating her. I just...

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imsofancy

Am I his second choice ( story )?

I met this guy September and we would never stop speaking, we would always have really good conversations which could last the whole day, he was so interested in what i had to say and i was interested in what he had to...

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Prettyinpink2000

Am I his second choice or is he actually interested?

This guy was showing signs of liking me.. Then he started talking to this girl. The girl and him broke things off a week ago and apparently he broke it off because she was "a whore"- which was true. Anyways I confronted...

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lace031172

How do I know that I am not my ex boyfriend's second choice?

My ex boyfriend and I broke up over 2 years ago. We were together for 9 months. I thought he was the one. He broke up with me a week before Valentine's day and 2 weeks later started dating this older woman. She was...

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Anonymous

How to handle that I am always just second choice?

i feel like I am always the second choise and like I am never good enough to be someones first choice. my first boyfriend first likedmy friends and as they turned them down he started to like me, the he cheated on me,...

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Anonymous

How can you tell if you're a second choice?

For instance, me and this guy almost started dating. We were really flirty and he'd always pay for me when we'd go out. He introduced me to his friends and always told me how much he wanted to kiss me. People kept saying...

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rescueme

Am I a second choice?

at uni, I met an incredible guy recently and hit it off right away. He asked me out and we went on a few dates over the course of 3 weeks or so. Then, suddenly he told me he can't do it any more, as he has just realized...

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Anonymous

Am I a second choice?

Before he made it official with me, he liked her and made efforts to talk to her but she acted like she wasn't interested and that's when he made me his girlfriend. He confessed to me recently that during our relationship...

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Anonymous

Inferiority complex because I am always second choice?

i absolutely have an inferiority complex because i have always been second choice, literally always as long as i can remember! i have a little sister and when we both cried at the same time and both wanted or mommy my mom...

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Anonymous

Am I just the second choice? Does he have feelings for her?

I overheard a convo between my boyfriend and hist best friend/roommate. His friend showed him an online profile of a girl he liked and my boyfriend knew that chick apparently. He said something like 'Oh her? I know her....

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Anonymous

What should I do if I am second choice for his prom date?

There's a guy I'm interested in, and prior, I had wanted him to ask me to prom. But I just heard that I am "one of his choices of girls to ask," and his first choice is being asked by someone else. I am slightly...

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Anonymous

Am I his second best? Or second choice?

There's this guy I really like. He likes me too He knew I like him, but yesterday I saw him flirting with someone else on facebook. He said he's available and he's single. It makes me sad and I was hurt. I stopped talking...

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d4ndelion

My boyfriend and I are fighting a lot, I'm not sure if its my fault or his or both of ours?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we had a short break a few months ago and things haven't been the same since. He used to be really clingy but now he made friends and he is always skateboarding....

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Anonymous

Is there such thing as a second choice girlfriend?

I had been dating this guy for about 5 months exclusively. We never gave ourselves the "title" I wasn't sure if a title was even a thing anymore. I was just going with it because I was happy. 5 month mark we had the...

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Anonymous

If someone told you that weren't his/her first choice would you stop talking to them?

I've been talking to this guy for a while now, years actually. I like him a lot and he says he likes me. Every blue moon he'll even use that word "love".. anyway, recently I found out that he had a few girls that he liked...

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Anonymous

Am I overthinking when a guy suddenly treats me well?

the guy I am seeing is kind of tight with his money bc of his student debt , so he just never spends money on me or brings me out for formal dates (also bc he doesn't want to invest in me). He suddenly asked me to go to...

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Anonymous

Am I over reacting or is this making me a second choice?

So my boyfriend will be moving in 15 days, and I've always felt like he chooses his friends over me. We've been together almost 10 months, and today I asked him to hang out, and once again he says "sorry, im hanging out...

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Anonymous

Am I coming second at a time like this?

So a week ago or so me and my partner found out i am pregnat , and we have yet made a choice of what we will do , in this time i am really crying a lot and i need not to be alone. since i have not told this to any of my...

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Anonymous

Is he using me like a rebound or/and second choice?

Hey I have met a guy like 3 months ago and we text everyday, the first month we both initiated the conversation. But then I stopped texting him first because, a very good friend of mine (who studies at the same University...

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Anonymous

Should I get over the fact that my boyfriend is taking his best friend to prom instead of me or should I let him know I'm hurt & feel misplaced?

my boyfriend wants to take his "best friend" to her senior prom... should I be upset that he isn't taking me or should I just get over it. I truly am hurt & I feel like his second choice... I'm not really comfortable with...

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Anonymous

Feel like second choice to my boyfriends ex crush?

My boyfriend and I used to be friends, and I know he used to be a player who slept with quite a few girls. He never grew attached to anyone except for this one girl who he was crazy about. She's really popular, active and...

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Anonymous

Am I this guy’s second choice, or is he just not interested?

My friends keep asking me if this guy I hangout with likes me, but I’m not sure. He and I went to a basketball game (we invited other friends, but they couldn’t come) and while we were walking to the game, he gave me his...

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Anonymous

Why am I always the second choice, and what should I do?

Okay so a few months ago I was drinking with this guy and I realized that I had a little crush on him, but naturally he didn’t like me back and liked one of my best friends. Well now my roommate and I met this guy and she...

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Anonymous

Should I trust his relationship with his female friend? am I being unreasonable? does he have a preference for blondes?

I discovered my boyfriend considered sleeping with his close female friend when we were together but unsure of what was happening with our relationship because he was going back to Paris. once he found out I was coming to...

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Luci92

A guy friend made an interesting comment, am I reading into it too much?

I have a really close guy friend of mine, who I really liked at the start of the year (and still sort of have feelings for now) but unfortunately, I was the second choice, and he asked out another girl instead of me. To...

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Sidney428

Am I right to expect boundaries with my boyfriend and his female friends?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. He's been bestfriends with a girl for years now. She lives right down the road from him so They hang out all the time. They go to lunch, the mall, movies,...

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Anonymous

Have you ever felt like you are just someone's shadow in a relationship?

Like they choose us just because they couldn't be with their exes for some unavoidable reasons. Honestly I am going through this right now. I don't know why I feel like I am just his second choice after her. I feel like...

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Anonymous

I can't stop obsessing over his ex from 7 years ago?

My boyfriend dated someone 7+ years ago and she broke his heart. He claimed she was the love of his life and thought he was going to marry her. Fast forward to 2016 and he has had a couple short term relationships and one...

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juliaaa

I liked his friend, but his friend doesn't want a girlfriend, and now I like him, but he might be a player?

Okay so sorry this is long... I liked this guy that is in the group of friends that my bff's boyfriend is in. So we see each other all the time (I'll call him Al). My bff's boyfriend found out I liked Al so he confronted...

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Anonymous

I am not happy anymore can someone help me?

Hey guys, wondering if anyone could give me some advice as I feel like I can't speak to anyone about this. Long story cut short, me and my partner moved in together last year and had a baby. He works a lot, I dont mind...

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Kaya35

He's not over his ex, should I wait?

I went to a party and I met a guy that I've already met before (we have common friends) Whenever he saw me in the past he was always attracted to me and liked talking to me. When he saw me at the party he was very happy,...

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Anonymous

Is it normal or am I just out of my mind?

When I like a man, I tend to feel, "I want him to see only me. I don't want to be a second choice or one of many." I want to be his No.1 because I treat him as my No. 1. And, most men I was with, I didn't find any...

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Anonymous

Am I seeing this the right way?

I liked this guy for a while and we were friends but he was in a relationship so I never really brought it up, but he was aware of the fact that I liked him. When he and his girlfriend broke up, he and I were definitely a...

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holliister

How can I make him regret his decision?

So..my last question was about a guy who apparently thought I took too long to express my interest in him. SO...tomorrow night he is coming over with one of our mutual friends and I want him to get the point that I am NOT...

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Jackie7

I shouldn't be anxious about this, but I'm anxious. Why isn't he texting me?

Me and a guy I had class with a few years back were catching up on Facebook. It was the first time we'd talked normally in a LONG time. Turns out we had some things in common so I gave him my number, he gave me his and he...

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Anonymous

I love him, I don't want to end it, what other choice do I have?

I love my boyfriend, but there are just to many things that I can't deal with anymore. He had a drug problem and we worked threw that, fine but there is more. He has double standards coming out his ass. I can't talk to my...

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