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Anonymous

Me and my boyfriends relationship is dom/sub and unconventional, he also wants to dominate another girl, not sure how to react?

Me and my boyfriend relationship is dom/sub and generally unconventional, we've both discussed before that we'd be ok with the other having 1 night stands etc. For a while I've known that he is really close with a girl...

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Anonymous

This is for submissive males/females. Do Dom sub relationships last?

I have been a Dom in most of my relationships, it's very hard to explain exactly how it came about. I treat my sub men with respect and care. I admire their complete trust in surrendering to me. I am in a vanilla...

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jnp11

HELP which way should I go? Relationship vs Sub?

hey im 24, bisexual, and interested in the sub dom lifestyle and have hit a fork in the road in my personal life.  I have been talking and getting to know two very different people who would offer 2 very different...

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Anonymous

What is a girlfriend called in a Dom/Sub relationship?

My friend and I have been talking for awhile and I think we fell into a Dom/Sub relationship but im not sure. He said he's a daddy dom and I am his princess. He said I am his pet, His sub, His princess and his. Are these...

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asymond13

Is it appropriate for a sub to talk to another guy friend that is not her Dom, if said guy is a friend they have known for years before their Dom?

I have recently, over the past year, become involved within a D/s relationship. It is so far long distance, but it works for now. I had a male friend over and I found out that he is ALSO a Dom. I'm just wondering how to...

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Anonymous

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GreenRocket59

Why are girls informing guys that they are dom/sub?

I've not yet had one of these woman give me the same answer of what a Dom or Sub is.

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Anonymous

Feelings between Dom and Sub?

I am a Dom and have a Sub, im pretty sure she has feelings for me outside of our arrangement and im starting to have feelings for her too, how can i be sure she really has feelings for me? helpful tips appreciated!

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Anonymous

Dom/sub relationship?

So I am dating this guy and we both really like him being the dom and me being the sub. The issue is that I don't know how to find a good balance outside of the bedroom. I love being bossed around in the bed room but...

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JustADude5253

I am a Dom (M) and I have a girlfriend (my only girlfriend, don't worry), who is my sub. Would ignoring her be an advisable punishment?

My girlfriend and I recently became a couple, though we've been Dom/sub for a while before that. I've punished her with many punishments like, choking, biting, slapping, and spanking. But none of these really feel like...

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Daddyssub33

Dom/Sub question?

Why is it so hard for Dom's to let there Little have contact. I am new to this... but my Dom is very quite about things where as I am open... Any ideas?

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Anonymous

I think I have feelings for my dom, what should I do?

he's my only dom but he has 2 other subs. I've been with him for 10 months. recently i think I've been having feelings for him. i get really attracted to him and excited when it's time for us to meet. it's not just about...

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nishayo

Female dom / mistress?

Do any female would like to be my mistress. ... I am a sub...

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Anonymous

I Want to be his Submissive, but he has a girlfriend?

Long story short, I met a man who said that he's very much into Domination D/s. I told him I've been a sub for 3 years and would love to have a Dom again. My last Dom lied to me about not have a wife and I called it off....

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Anonymous

D/S relationship- How to get over his other submissive? (please don't be rude)?

I'm new to the whole D/S relationship. My Dom is very open to me and told me he has another Sub who he actually lives with. He travels during the week and is home on weekends but shares the same bed as his other sub. I...

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Anonymous

Do you like your men to be Dom or sub?

what is your preference. do you like dominant or submissive men. both sexually and in relationship.

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Anonymous

Dom, Sub or Both?

Are you a dominant, submissive or both?

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Zendrya

What would be a good theme for a burlesque show?

I'm starting to get ideas for a solo showcase at a showgirl festival. I need an idea for a storyline. I currently have a girl who's fairy godmother turns her from a sub to a dom, something to do with aphrodite or Philotes...

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AislingStarr

What's a name for a girl/guy that acts dom but is sub? (Read des)?

What's the name of a girl/guy who acts like or has a dominant presence, but is actually really submissive, but continues to act dominant through being dommed?

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oOsweet~o~nessOo

Which girl do you prefer, dominant or submissive?

Submissive Girls: Tend to be more passive or passive aggressive, keeping their own concerns down mostly, and being more concerned with pleasing the guy and making sure she does everything in her power to make him happy....

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rkf_helps_247

Why do you wear chokers?

chokers have been known to symbolize dom/sub relationships. So are you a dom/sub? or do you wear it for some other reason?

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Goddess_Lexii

Dominant Male or Submissive Male?

Scenario: You’ve met a guy who is attractive, funny, intelligent, ambitious, loving, and treats women well (as equal, if not superior). He is the leader of the relationship, but he would never make a decision without...

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front2back

Do girls wear chokers to symbolize they're subs?

It seems as though the choker, specifically the black lace ones, have become more and more popular. I see women wear them all the time. However, in regular Dom/sub play chokers are used on the sub. It's well known that a...

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ValleyofDrakes

This girl was all over me, suddenly she doesn't want me to touch her. Why?

Mind you, this is someone I met for business. All the while we were conducting business she laughs at all my jokes, she's touching me on the arm, resting her head on my shoulders, that sort of thing. I took it as light...

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PessimisticSerpent

Guys, a little help with analyzing this behavior from my ex boyfriend?

So recently I became Platonic friends with my ex, Devin* (fake name) besides being dates, we were also a dom/sub couple. He's been super supportive in my search for a dom but sometimes gets weirdly protective, nosy, and...

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Anonymous

10 Books You Should Read

The Help by Kathryn Stockett I read this book twice. It's kind of a popular book and there's a movie based on it. Roxane Gay has a whole essay on how bad it is on her own book, Bad Feminist. She claims it reduces black...

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ikissedtheskyonce

Girls who are in a relationship, would you leave if your boyfriend if has a homoerotic bromance with his guy friend?

By Homo erotic bromance I do not mean that they are having sex together. I mean that they talk to each other in a way that is surpassing bromance but not going too far. I'm not in a relationship but I am curious how...

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Anonymous

Guys, The psychology of dominant men?

I recently started working as a phone sex operator. A friend who also works as a phone sex operator but as a Domme (she is a control freak in real life so she plays her role well), suggested that I become a phone...

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PessimisticSerpent

Guys, Former FWB's puzzling behavior that I still can't explain maybe you can?

So me and my friend (one from last post) were discussing Ash* (Not his name) and his weird behavior. Ash was a 23 year old guy I met online as a friend. After awhile he wanted to be FWBs (Friends with benefits) which I...

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Anonymous

Do guys ever call their girlfriends daddy?

It’s a bit of a role reversal of the daddy kink I guess, but I don’t know if he actually is into that sub/dom thing. If he was though, I feel like he would be a sub simply bc he’s a bit shy and awkward. I am too, just not...

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Anonymous

Would you find it a turn off if your girlfriend called you daddy?

Its not rare, but how would you feel about it? Mostly during sex, but maybe here and there out of it. Not as a daddy daughter roleplay, but as a dominant/submissive and pet name thing. I'm not a submissive woman at all...

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EddyMetal

What are your favorite Black, Death, Thrash, Progressive, Grind, and Folk/Viking Metal albums?

For me... Black: Nokturnal Mortum - Lunar Poetry Mayhem - De Mysteriis Dom Sathanas Leviathan - The Tenth Sub Level of Suicide Death: Vader - De Profundis Suffocation - Effigy of the Forgotten Immolation - Dawn of...

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Anonymous

How would you feel if your boyfriend said "Bring out the Girls" to you while you two were in bed?

The other day, my boyfriend said this while we were in bed together... in the process of getting busy. I was so taken aback! I wasn't sure if that the bossiest thing I'd ever heard or the most disgusting? I'm not sure. I...

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Anonymous

What are your thoughts on this situation?

I have a boyfriend and we've been together for ten months. Just recently one of my co-workers (a guy) and I have started talking a lot more outside of work. Most of conversations revolve around sex, we've found that our...

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LittleFawn

I love calling my boyfriend, "Daddy"?

So, my boyfriend (of almost 2 years) and I do a lot of things together, and we're extremely open with what the other has on their mind. A couple months ago we got into a conversation (which in all honesty I can't remember...

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Anonymous

How do u girls feel about a polyamorus relationship? 2 girls and a guy?

Hey girls. I was wondering how you felt about a relationship made of you another girl and a guy. Currently I'm in a light owner/pet relationship or a Dom/Sub. We have been together for 2 years. iv always wanted a...

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Anonymous

Should I be pissed off, he didn't even know my name?

I'm in a dom/sub relationship and I just found out my master doesn't even know my real name. I've had sex with this guy, I've slept over at his house, he's spanked me and put beads up my ass, and he didn't even know my...

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Anonymous

All I think about is sex?

I've always got sex on my mind, like i love exchanging pics vids and talking about it, i find sub and dom really sexy but knowone ever answers on here, just want to know if others feel this way, if its normal and if...

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