Search Results: Bond Over Relationship

Option 1 (SINGLE MOM) - Single mothers. They have 1 or more kids. Their kids are their number one priority, followed by them and then the father. You come in fourth. Part of her reason for picking you might be because she is looking for a provider and/or possible father figure for her kids. If you choose to take part in a relationship you might form strong bond with her kid and grow attached. However, you will be constantly reminded by her and the kid if you over step that you are not the father. In addition, there is always the possible threat that she might kick you to the curb if the father and her rekindle and get back together so they can be a family.



OPTION 2 (Women looking to settle down) - She's gone through her bad boy phase, party girl phase, traveled, had exciting sex with different men, ONS, as well as, been in a couple of relationships that didn't last and is now looking to settle down with someone who is willing to commit. Usually women in this age range can be anywhere from their late 20's to women in their 30's.

Part of her reason for her liking you might not be 100% because she total lust after you. Her attraction for you might also partially come from the fact that you have a stable job, are willing to commit and essential can provide her a stable life and environment to raise children. Sex life is more tamed, less exciting than what she had with men in the past and tends to become less frequent the longer your relationship progresses. As a couple you also tend to do boring stuff such as going to IKEA to purchase furniture on a weekend and it's less exciting compared to relationship in early 20's that people experience during college/high school.

OPTION 3 (Remain single forever) - Stay in perpetual bachelorhood and never get into a relationship. Do whatever you like to do for fun, travel the world and have the occasional ONS if that's your thing. If you can't get girls at all then use escorts for sex.

I met her on a coding forum in June 2020. I can remember our first conversation.

I remember her telling me she never had a first love or any romantic bond with a guy before. At the time, she was 17 about to turn 18. I never expected to come across her, especially because I wasn't particularly seeking a woman at the time. She was perfect, and we really hit it off. I was specifically wanting a woman without a romantic past.

Anyways, we continued to talk more and more and we eventually formed an online relationship.

After several months had passed, I remember us talking about getting married and where we would go on our honeymoon and what we would name our kids. I was truly excited.

Sadly, when I met her for the first time in person a week after her 18th birthday, she rejected me. She found I wasn't her type.

Fast forwarding, she just recently married a guy a few weeks ago who got to be her first everything. I am still devastated. I had to tell her mom not long ago to cease sending me emails. I was hurting too much, so badly I had to be hospitalized. I am still recovering from the trauma of it.