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Anonymous

Do you believe that cheaters never change?

Being a member of the "I've cheated before" club, I want to vouch for others who have made the same horrible mistake. The majority of people are relentless towards us and say that "once a cheater, always a cheater". Now,...

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Anonymous

"Cheaters never change": Why this is a stupid saying

I feel the need to post this after reading about another recent cheating post: I do not believe in the saying “Once a cheater, always a cheater”. I find that mentality very immature. People are not robots with on and off...

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Anonymous

Cheaters never change?

At the expense of getting a lot of hate, I'm ending this myth now. I have a boyfriend who I would have been with 10 years now if I hadn't cheated on him. Twice. Yes, you read that correctly. Twice. We started dating at...

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Anonymous

Why do cheaters never suffer?

They have loads of friends on facebook, always have people to talk to & hang out with, popular etc, yet these people dont know theyre a cheater? Whether people would change their opinions if they knew they were a cheater...

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Anonymous

Are some people doomed to never change?

For instance, will the players, the cheaters, and the guys in their 30's who won't grow up change?

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BCRanger10

Have you ever lived with an alcoholic, drug user, or cheater who changed their life? What was it like adjusting to that?

I've been very blessed to have been raised by parents who have been faithful to each other, never been arrested, never been alcoholics or drug users, and have never been abusive.  Sadly, I know that this is not the same...

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Anonymous

Should I be right on believing my dad never changed?

I'm 100% he never did. Anyways this weekend he came to see my sister and I and I finally talked to him after years of avoiding him. He left when my sister and I were younger but now I've realized he's a cheater. So we...

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CamCarr

What's the real reason most cheaters cheat

You're told not to take a cheater back because they'll never change but why is that? What is the real reason most cheaters cheat and why can't they change? Most people would say insecurity and selfishness but I say they...

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Anonymous

Ones a cheater always a cheater?

So my boyfriend cheated on me last year i found out couple days ago he said he was stupid n he was used to that lifestyle now he realises and will not do that again. Should i believe him or is it true that if u cheat once...

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designer1

Once a cheater always a cheater?

Do you believe in second chances when someone cheats or do you believe that once someone is a cheater, they never change?

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Simmy

Once a cheater, always a cheater?

Does everyone agree with this statement? My step sister is going out with an ex of kelly, whose a girl in my school . They were together for a few months and then he cheated on kelly with my step sis. He then broke it...

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Anonymous

Is it true that for guys "once a cheater, always a cheater"?

I'm just curious if guys never change.. I dated a guy, we had been together for awhile, and no matter what we did that day or night, I would always find him looking up porn, talking to other girls.. etc. What's your...

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Anonymous

Is this considered cheating and is it possible for him to change

My boyfriend and I have known each other over a year and been together for 9 months now and have been living together for 4 months. He gave me his Facebook and phone and basically all his passwords to everything cause he...

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Anonymous

Do men change? Be it a cheater or a jealous jerk?

So do men change over time or "leopards never change their spots"?

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Anonymous

If Once A Cheater Always A Cheater Then What's The Point Of Trying To Change?

When I was 22 I cheated on my girlfriend of 5 years several times. I'll admit I was a shitty person back then. I only cared about myself and didn't take commitment too seriously. After many hard lessons, I realized the...

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Anonymous

Question for "once a cheater, always a cheater" believers..

I often read "I lose interest in dating him/her once I find out that he/she cheated, no matter how compatible we are or how attractive he/she is"... but What would you do if you find out years into the relationship (and...

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Anonymous

Ones a cheater always a cheater?

Im not specifically asking about guys, this is not a rant about guys. im talking about both genders. the reason i bring this up is because i used to be a cheater and i have matured and changed (now i dont see the point of...

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Do you think people that take back cheaters suffer self-esteem issues?

For me taking back a cheater would be like eating a shitty, leftover sandwich. Something like this: The sandwich is no longer in it's original wholesome, untainted state. Similarly, by staying with a cheater in a...

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Anonymous

Is it possible for a man to change his mind about relationships when finding the right woman for him?

or he stick to his beliefs and won't change? For example a guy who is in his mid 40´s who always had said he will never get married or form a family, he enjoys being single and not tied down to any serious or stable...

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Anonymous

How do cheaters feel?

I found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me. He admitted to me a month later the girl he cheated on me with confronted me. Through out that time, he said he never slept with her but did see her behind my back. We...

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jesshkah

Why do you say "once a cheater always a cheater"?

On a lot of posts about cheating you usually see a ton of people saying "never go back, once a cheater always a cheater." Curious as to why people think that, whether it's from experience or something else. I personally...

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Anonymous

Once a cheater always a cheater?

Hiiii, The brother of my best friend likes me. He is a little bit of a player and cheated on his ex girlfriend. Now he’s a little older (and maybe wiser?). My friend said that he has liked me for years, but i never...

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Anonymous

HELP! A plan backfired on me and now my boyfriend thinks I'm a cheater & hates my guts? Kinda long but interes

So this was a little while ago but part of me feels like I should tell him the truth even though it makes me look like a ***** and immature. My boyfriend would stalk me on Facebook ALL the time. To the point where I felt...

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littlemiss02

Can a cheater ever redeem themselves?

I cheated on my husband two years ago. It was by far the worst mistake I have ever made in my entire life. After it happened I developed a strong self hatred for myself. I know that the majority of people feel that...

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falendove

Once a cheater, always a cheater?

What's your perspective? Can people change? & I don't mean, "i kissed a guy once when I was drunk and I've never cheated again" HXC CHEATER! lol GO!

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grits94

Once a cheater, always a cheater? Can he change?

Me and my ex (also child's father) broke up because I knew he was cheating so I couldn't trust him and that caused arguments all the time. Even though I was completely faithful and did any and everything he wanted. I...

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Anonymous

Self Recovering Cheater?

I've cheated a few times and she doesn't know. I cheated with a rather close friend of mine and have recently chosen to change my ways. Maybe it's because I just graduated, maybe it's because I'm getting older, I don't...

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MissVannessa

Are men attracted to cheaters?

Before you start guessing around, read the story. My sister is the most popular girl since childhood. I've never met a man who wasn't impressed by her. She's a champion. She's not even that beautiful but super feminine,...

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Anonymous

I'm a bad person but I'm changing! Will I get another chance ?!

guys I need help ! I never had a very good life, I had a miesrable one actually ! so I lie ! I lie about everything ! I tell people stuff that never actually happened ! look I know that's bad and I've been trying for a...

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ERhae

Once a cheater, always a cheater? Is it true?

What is your pov on this? I have encountered several instances with my husband where lying & infidelity has occurred. I feel like we are in this odd place where we have fun, sex is always new/hot...so...I have no clue...

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CeciliaMaria

Do you believe, once a cheater always a cheater?

My boyfriend gave me the password to his Snapchat, and told me he wanted me to find out everything he did to me. I found out my boyfriend went to meet up with a girl in the beginning of our relationship. He swears he...

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Anonymous

Is it possible to be the reason for a guy to change?

So I've been dating this guy for 8 months now, things have been pretty darn great so far, but he recently told me that he was proud of himself and I asked him why and he said "because he had actually been loyal in our...

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Anonymous

Am I foolish for hoping for a change? Need some words of wisdom from an objective point of view?

I'm seeing a girl who I felt I was compatible with, sweet, kind hearted and had her morals straight. When things are good it's quite good. The flipside has been very hard. To start, she's not that educated but acts like...

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Anonymous

Libra men are indecisive and cheaters?

Calling all Libra men and all women who have dealt with Libra men..Please answer? i have read a whole lot about how Libra men are indecisive and cheaters.And yes its true it is not all about the signs,but about the...

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Anonymous

If you were a cheater during your teen years, did you grow out of it by adulthood?

Is this ever just due to immaturity? I was a cheater in highschool but not long once I passed 20 that all changed. I emotionally cheated in my early 20's but I would never dare to do anything like that ever again. But I...

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melmel16

Once a cheater, always a cheater?

Is it true that once you cheated, you'll most likely cheat again? Or do people really change, and never cheat again?

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Paultripp7221

Female serial cheaters, have you ever stayed faithful?

My girlfriend is an admitted former serial cheater. She's been in therapy for four years for it. She was "better" with her last boyfriend, but still cheated on him at least 20 times over four years. Some were breaks, but...

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Subflics

Is the mistress a cheater as well as the husband?

Here's my story. I met a girl a while back in college and we didn't get along. Time flew and we went our separate ways. I have changed drastically and was enough to spark her attention when I visited my college town. We...

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Anonymous

Am I addicted to a cheater?

I have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 4 years. The first year was okay...but there were definite signs that this guy was bad news that I chose to ignore. Such as ...he openly told me that he cheated on his ex...

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Anonymous

Why does my sister act like this and her attitude change towards me?

My sister's husband hangs out with friends that are cheaters. My sister says that she's always got along with guys better than women. My mom says the same thing but because she used to play basketball and was a tomboy. I...

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