Search Results: Do I let go or still keep holding on
Guys, your prespective on holding hands with female friends?
I've known my best friend for 9 going on 10 years, since we were in 9th grade, about two years into the friendship I developed feelings for him and told him, he said he only saw me as a friend, he moved schools junior...
What does it mean if he keeps saying I'm his best friend?
OK so one of my guy friends/crush keeps saying that I'm his best friend when I think that that is obviously not really true. so to recap a little, my friend flirts with me a LOT, like he'd say what he wants to do to me,...
Ex keeps coming back around but won't commit?
So my ex of a little over a year broke up with me six months ago. Ashamed to say the breakup was horrible. I was a basket case/he was an asshole. I later found out he had cheated on me before the breakup so it kind of...
I Have Finally Let Go of the Past and Lost Friendships
For the longest time, I have been holding on to the past. Yes I did some things I was not proud of in and ended up ruining some friendships with my own hands. I even humiliated myself making fake accounts to reach out to...
5 dates but still no kiss...
Okay, I (Im 31y.o) met this guy(age 36) online a month ago, and we went out for 1st date 3 weeks ago. We always have a great conversation and time. He is a engineer and he loves computers and all the technologies. So He...
Letting Go and Moving On After a Breakup or Divorce
Heartbreak hurts. Loss is shattering. Put these two together and you’ve got the lovely one-two punch that can come with breakups of short-lived or long-term relationships.It brings most everyone down. Otherwise...
Let's Be Practical: How To End A Relationship And Minimize The Stress!
I present here another rewrite of one of my earlier myTakes. Some breakups occur suddenly. You make a surprise visit to his apartment and find him in bed with the girl who you thought was your best friend. You scream and...
u What would you make of these mixed signals from my ex? I want to work things out which I told him when we split, but he hasn't spoken to me about it?
*long term relationship, 2 kids, a house and up until the non-toxic issues that caused the split, we were best friends as well* So last night my ex came around to grab a few things from our house and see our daughter....
Guys Need to Re-Evaluate the Girls They Go After
It seems to be that many guys feel like they should have the girls who are tough to get. Or maybe they’re inadvertently being taught that they need to try hard to get the girl. Either way, it sends a lot of guys into a...
The difficult first love of a teenager :) Just a basic vent where I let out my emotions. Thanks for listening/reading.
There is this guy that I really like, but he has a lot of strugles and things going on in his life. He flirts with a lot of different girls, but that's like his personality. I have been talking with him for 9 months and...
Letting Go of Love
Jeff was my first love- I’d known him since grade one when he teased me about not liking pizza, made me cry and bought me a cookie to make up for it. We grew up in the same neighbourhood, went to the same high school and...
The Effects of Letting Go
This is the song that inspired my MyTake today. I'm sure you can get the gist of it, but I was somewhat disappointed in the lyric when the girl is still in love with her ex after the breakup. "But it's still your side..."...
Wife carries hurts far too long?
I was married before and have a son with my ex that we co-parent together (every other week). It was really difficult at first. At one point my ex filed a restraining order against my then fiancé. The order was reversed a...
A Thoughtful Musing: I'll Never Let My Rough Past Go
I was talking to someone recently about childhood. They described their childhood as great. They mostly lived in the same neighborhood most of their lives, so they formed long-time bonds with the other kids there. They...
Why Pokemon Go is Failing: A Design Perspective
Pokemon Go: the mobile game turned worldwide phenomenon. Unless you've lived under a rock, you've either played it, know someone who's played it, or at least heard about it by now. After it's July release, it peaked at...
Why You're Still Single
You're single because you choose to be so. Whether consciously, subconsciously, directly or indirectly through your actions, you choose to be single for reasons only you know yourself. If you truly want to find someone,...
Why Women Actually Go for Looks Instead of Personality
Here you are. At a coffee shop looking at your dream girl. She's sitting down with a caramel frappe and looking at her laptop. You decide to get the guts to go and talk to her. You say to her "Hey! I saw you sitting here...
No Relationship Is Perfect, But You Can Still Have A Good One
I thought I would write this because I used to be jealous of certain friends relationships but then when I have found out more about them, I realise they have their own problems too which I would feel irritated by....
What I Learned Keeps Me Confident
1. Constantly expanding my knowledge What I once thought to be my biggest distraction, I've started to grow a deeper appreciation for YouTube for its vast resources of handy, educational videos. Reading books have also...
My girlfriend broke up with me because she wanted space and time to think. I need some really good advice.
Okay, please bare with me because this should make a lot of sense. I've been dating this girl for a year and 2 months. We were madly in love and I could tell. We were so happy together and had no problems and when we...
