Search Results: Do you ever get nervous when someone you like

This is about me & guy I asked out a few weeks ago —and after some mix up we’re on track to hang out Thursday evening or Friday morning 😂

… So he knows I hang out in a tree at the library where he works in between my shifts, bc he ran into me there a while back. He has since made it a habit of stopping to say hi & sit with me on his way into the library to work.

I don’t think there is anything wrong & obviously he’s free to sit in any tree and I certainly never ashes not to. I think it is very sweet and courteous. I think if I was normal, I’d probably enjoy it. But well I go there between shifts to decompress and be alone and with him coming by it feels like I need to be “on” which is stressful.

And yeah I know when you get along it shouldn’t be stressful but sone prophetic get stressed & we only really just decided to maybe date so the dynamic has changed tho I’ve known him a few years.

first person I ever felt really strongly about I got so nervous I’d end up avoiding him and he thought I hated him and it was a big mess. And I don't know if I’m always going to feel weird around people I like or what. I was five till I ashes him out in text between the two of us he was the mire shy. I think tuat has flipped now & I’m very disoriented. he seems really confident and I’m all spazzing out inwardly. Outwardly luckily I’m composed. It’s my thing lol

Not sure exactly what I’m asking. Im just a bit concerned of my unfortunate tendency and I don’t know if this is “ new situation nerves” or I’m just beginning my truest journey of escapism even tho I like the person very much.

So I don't know, I guess any thoughts on the subject are welcome, thank you.

LOL I love how with these images, when the girl is nervous the girl is brunette. When the guy is nervous, the woman is blind 😂 🤦🏻‍♀️

One morning, I came into school dressed up for an event and when I went to my locker the guy I like was there. We started talking about the event and our outfits etc, and then he asked me if he looked festive enough. I said yeah, but I have accessories in my bag if you want to amp it up. He was excited and I gave him some beads and a fresh flower for his hair like the one I had in mine (seriously, I didn't think he'd be willing to put the flower in his hair...). I really wanted to be less nervous around him so when he asked me if it was in straight, I said no (Ha, I lied) so I could "fix" it and break into his personal space. He just stood there and let me fix and then showed another friend of ours what I did and complimented me on all the things I brought in etc.

Anyway, later after I got close to him. He wanted to see if this bag I always carry was really heavy. I said not really, but when he grabbed it, instead of just taking the part of the handle my hand wasn't on or waiting for me to pass him the bag, he wrapped his hand right on top of mine to take it so I had to slip my hand from underneath his when he pulled it from the other side of me.

To me, this is a REALLY awkward way to grab something. It seemed like an excuse to hold my hand because I've totally done this move before when you pass something to someone awkwardly so you can touch their hand.

What do you all thing about this "move"? Is it a sign of affection toward the other person? Would you ever do this to get closer to someone?

So for about 15/20 mins today I was following this mum and her kid. I knew I was making her nervous as she kept looking back at me, her movements were that touch hurried and it ended up that she was looking back every 20/30 seconds or so. I even noticed her face getting panicky, it was really bizarre.

I wasn't creeping as I would kick the stones around and I was just listening to music on the walk home from work, and due to the music I walked fast as I'll put a catchy rock tune on and walk to the beat. I mean I was about 3/4 inches taller than her and she was definitely skinner than me but it was really odd how nervous she got. I mean if it came down to a fight then it'll more than likely be in my favour, I guess, personally it was just super awkward as this was my direct way home and the three/four turns we both took were all the same. And being the cause of the anxious feeling in her made me feel bad I tried on three separate occasions to walk on the opposite side of the road to her to stop her from being so anxious/scared - which didn't seem to work at all so 🤷‍♀️

Has this happened to you before, what has been your experiences?