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Anonymous

Guys, do you really pull away when you like a girl too much?

It was ldr. We served in the military together. I live in New Jersey, he lives in Virginia so not too far away. We kept in contact with each other and realized recently that we have feelings for each other. We were...

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Anonymous

If a guy presses his leg to a girl's leg, tenses up and pulls away a bit, but then he presses his leg to hers again and not move it at all?

I'm confused, what could it mean? He's my coworker and it was a night out with some other coworkers. We ended up sitting next to each other and I didn't initiate body contact, just sat really close to him but wasn't...

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BubbyLove

Did I make the right decision?

My boyfriend of a little over a year just broke up with me a few days ago because he was "tired of arguing" with me. (The things we would argue about were never even anything big AT ALL) He wrote me a long letter about...

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Anonymous

How do I stop running away now that I'm vulnerable?

So I told my boyfriend I'm serious about the relationship. I just wanted him to know. He said he is as well and all is hunky dory, right? wrong. I've started to second guess everything and it's confusing me. I've...

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Kims2016

What should I do? I'm confused, does he like me or not? Keep trying get or give up?

It's going to be a year since we became friends. We are so much a like. I like him and ended up catching feelings towards him. Before I told him that I liked him. He will suggested for us to go to the movies together. I...

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Plato

I'm going to do some meditation right now, who's with me?

So here are some important steps: 1 - breath steadily and slowly; 2 - pull your mind back to the center of focus every time a thought pops up; 3 - lay completely still; 4 - point your eyes to a focus point and keep them...

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Anonymous

I keep falling for the girls that I can't have. Wow... AGAIN?!

I don't know why I keep falling for the girls that I can't have =/ Okay... so there's this girl that's a little less than 2 years older than me. I've known her since I was 2. are families are really close but we don't...

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7 mo
Anonymous

We talk over text, but I'm always the one reaching out first. Keep going or pull the plug?

Been friends with this girl for a while now but lately I think there might be something more going on than friendship. I obviously fancy her and I think sometimes she seems to fancy me. Whenever I text her, I get a reply...

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maryj420

What should I do?!? How do I keep the peace?

okay... so this guy I'm into has been sending completely mixed signals... basically, I have seen this pattern emerge, we got kinda close.. he pulled away... we got a bit closer (we cuddled and held hands) he pulled away...

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Anonymous

Guys, How do you feel and what goes through your mind right before/ after a first kiss?

I just went on a fifth date at the movies with a guy I've been dating for about three weeks now (he's 25 and I'm 22). We went to see an awful horror movie, then had some dinner. When we went out to our cars, he shyly...

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Anonymous

The push-pull factor. Best way to handle it?

So right now im in the middle of the push-pull break up.  I was the one that got broken up with.  There were a lot of things that happened, and mistakes from both parties that caused a lot of drama. We hung out about a...

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Anonymous

Guys, Can men pull away to avoid getting more attached when they know the relationship has no future?

Long story short: we dated 2 months. Everything was going so greatly that he told me he wanted to be my boyfriend if things kept going so well. The next day he pulls away. I give him space, then ask what is up one week...

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Anonymous

So upset right now. I pushed him away and now he's with someone else. Crying?

I've been hurt several times. Last year I met an amazing guy who is everything I have ever wanted, talks to me every day, tells me that he loves me (even when I don't deserve it). The thing is that I have been two timed,...

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Anonymous

How can I tell if this guy likes me. Are legs touched multiple times and he never pulled away. What does it mean?

There is this really shy guy especially around girls. I've known him for a very long time but I don't yesterday we were in the hot tub together (other people were there too) but we were sitting right next to each other...

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Anonymous

How is he feeling about me? Should I keep hooking up with him?

I'm in college and I've been hooking up with this guy for 6 months now. In the beginning everything went by so fast and we acted almost as if we were dating. Even though we'd hook up multiple times a week, he told me...

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trueviolet3

Did I make the right decision? How come I don't know what's right anymore?

The reason I'm posting this question, is Ben. We lasted a little over a year. When I first met Ben, he was prince charming. Our chemistry was intensely strong. Ben was a whole lot of testosterone. Not "bad ass" I'm over...

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guycurious2012

Why does he keep coming back?

I met a guy via online dating. We talked for 5 weeks before meeting up. I guess I wanted to make sure he seemed normal, nice and decent. We opened up to each other about a lot of things, but as time would tell, he hid a...

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Anonymous

I always people away. I can't stop?

Everytime someone gets close, I push them away. I haven't realized what a big problem that is until today. I knew I did that but I didn't see how bad this is getting. It has prevented me from forming new relationships,...

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dancinggurllove

Pls pls help me!!! Whats going on with this guy? I really am confused right now... any advice?

So there's this guy I really like, but he has a girlfriend and I am friends with her. He has messaged me before on social media, tried to talk to me outside and so on. We went clubbing yesterday and I don't know this...

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needmymojoback

He Was SO In Love, I Was Hesitant, He Pulled Away, I Realized How Much I Love Him, He Pulled Away & Dumped ME?!

Let's get things straight here. I am a rad chic, I am good looking, confident & I am a well respected business gal. 6months ago I met the sweetest/honest/caring guy who fell 4 me HARD.But it seemed like situations kept...

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Anonymous

Did I handle it the right way?

My niece is 9 years old and I have two other nieces who are her siblings. I love these girls so much. I don't have kids right now but I love them all very much. We are always playing together and having a good time. Well...

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Anonymous

I told my best friend I can't see her anymore, did I do the right thing?

This girl and i have known each other for 2 years. When we first met we dated for 8 months then we stopped speaking for 4 months. After the 4 months of no contact she contacted me again, and now for the past year she...

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Anonymous

Guys, am I "decoding guy speak" correctly and doing the right thing?

He's probably being very clear with me and I'm ignoring it. But… Background: ex and I reconnected, became friends, became intimate but kept the understanding that we could date other people. He claims I'm the only one...

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Anonymous

Why did he suddenly pull away? Will he message me?

Everything was going so great, We had three casual dates, got to know eachother and had fun. He initated getting my number, going for coffee, then messaging me then asking me to go out with him one night. We talked about...

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7 mo
Anonymous

Why He Pulled Away When Everything was Going Well?

So I was seeing this guy for about half a year. We were both in relationships with someone else when we met at work and we began to realize that we had undeniable chemistry between us that we didn’t have with our...

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Anonymous

Parents called security on me. Are they right or wrong?

My parents called security on me after I completely snapped. What exactly happened was: I was just minding my own business was going into my room with my laptop. But my mom is strict when it comes to using computers to...

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Anonymous

One of my friends pulls her boyfriend's pants around us?

I was hanging out last week with some of my girl friends and one of their boyfriends (who was wearing sweatpants that day) eating some Easter treats and it was all fun and games and my friend with the boyfriend (who I...

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sweetbluelove22

I can feel that I'm pushing him away. What do I do?

So this guy right.. Everything was so good but about two weeks ago we were ducking and he pulled out but barely and so I had to take plan b or whatever and like after that he's been so distant... Like he used to text me...

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JustAsking_1991

I am so confused. What is his deal? Should I walk away?

Okay, so I have been seeing this guy for a month now, multiple times each week. It began on the 28th Oct when we both went to the same party. Instantly, we connected holding hands, looking into each other's eyes, and not...

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melloncollie

Why did he pull away after I confessed my feelings?

Well I'm sure you've seen/read this a million times, but hey all we have is time right? So I got in touch with this boy I knew from high school, who apparently recognized me while I didn't recognize him at all. We...

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Anonymous

Am I really being rude or is he not doing enough to help so I have a right so say and act the way I do?

Background: Got a DWI on Black Friday Night while my boyfriend was with me. We both had been drinking and he wanted to go get something to eat from Dunkin Donuts a block away from his house. I told him I wanted to go...

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Anonymous

Did I do the right thing?

I became friends with a guy and we had a really good connection right from the start. When we hung out, everything was going great. We got eachother's number, then he messaged me, and called me 'buddy', he has called me...

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wildchildx

This doesn't make me bi right?

So, I'm feeling a little OCD. I love guys. I've always loved guys. But there's this girl I'm friends with who has had a crush on me for a while. Well, we were hanging out tonight. She wanted to smoke weed, so I was like...

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Anonymous

The Guy that got away, what can I do?

He's 26 and I'm 23Me and this guy talked from Sept 2015 till December 2016. We went on LOTS of dates. He wanted to make it official but I kept telling him that I wasn't ready. He told me he loved me and everything. He...

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Anonymous

Do I have a right to be mad?

So lastnight I went to the carnival with my friend. The wrist band was $20 and we both brought money for that. I brought some extra for gas for my car since I drove us, and then for some food and drinks. When we get there...

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Kims2016

I should just give up? right?

me this guy became friends about a year ago. We meet at a transportation system, he works for. A few months later like 2-3 he started to nudge me here and there. Like lightly tapping my arm or squeezing my shoulder...

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Coconut1390

Why men pull away when everything seems great?

We've been dating for three months. Nothing's official yet, though all of his friends keep saying we need to, and I've met his family. We have good chemistry, enjoy one another's company, rarely argue, and a couple weeks...

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Anonymous

Guys, what would you do if a girl was honest and said this to you... you were pushing her away because you're scared?

I'm not going to play this push/pull game with you. I've been there, so I know what's going on. Because I care, you push me away. If I treated you like shit and was shady (the kind of girls you've probably always dated...

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Anonymous

She keeps asking me to hang out and flakes on me? Any opinions?

Me and this girl were friends then we had a fling at which point we both really liked each other and things looked good. All our friends were jealous of how things were going. The thing is I was nervous and it showed and...

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Anonymous

Made out with a girl and she randomly walked away?

I've known this girl for a few years, but we were never really close friends. Hangout with the same friends at times. We were on a party bus together and out of nowhere she asked if I wanted to make out with her. I said...

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