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Anonymous

Guys, do you really pull away when you like a girl too much?

It was ldr. We served in the military together. I live in New Jersey, he lives in Virginia so not too far away. We kept in contact with each other and realized recently that we have feelings for each other. We were...

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Anonymous

If a guy presses his leg to a girl's leg, tenses up and pulls away a bit, but then he presses his leg to hers again and not move it at all?

I'm confused, what could it mean? He's my coworker and it was a night out with some other coworkers. We ended up sitting next to each other and I didn't initiate body contact, just sat really close to him but wasn't...

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BubbyLove

Did I make the right decision?

My boyfriend of a little over a year just broke up with me a few days ago because he was "tired of arguing" with me. (The things we would argue about were never even anything big AT ALL) He wrote me a long letter about...

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Anonymous

How do I stop running away now that I'm vulnerable?

So I told my boyfriend I'm serious about the relationship. I just wanted him to know. He said he is as well and all is hunky dory, right? wrong. I've started to second guess everything and it's confusing me. I've...

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Kims2016

What should I do? I'm confused, does he like me or not? Keep trying get or give up?

It's going to be a year since we became friends. We are so much a like. I like him and ended up catching feelings towards him. Before I told him that I liked him. He will suggested for us to go to the movies together. I...

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maryj420

What should I do?!? How do I keep the peace?

okay... so this guy I'm into has been sending completely mixed signals... basically, I have seen this pattern emerge, we got kinda close.. he pulled away... we got a bit closer (we cuddled and held hands) he pulled away...

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Anonymous

Guys, How do you feel and what goes through your mind right before/ after a first kiss?

I just went on a fifth date at the movies with a guy I've been dating for about three weeks now (he's 25 and I'm 22). We went to see an awful horror movie, then had some dinner. When we went out to our cars, he shyly...

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Anonymous

Guys, Can men pull away to avoid getting more attached when they know the relationship has no future?

Long story short: we dated 2 months. Everything was going so greatly that he told me he wanted to be my boyfriend if things kept going so well. The next day he pulls away. I give him space, then ask what is up one week...

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Anonymous

So upset right now. I pushed him away and now he's with someone else. Crying?

I've been hurt several times. Last year I met an amazing guy who is everything I have ever wanted, talks to me every day, tells me that he loves me (even when I don't deserve it). The thing is that I have been two timed,...

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Anonymous

How can I tell if this guy likes me. Are legs touched multiple times and he never pulled away. What does it mean?

There is this really shy guy especially around girls. I've known him for a very long time but I don't yesterday we were in the hot tub together (other people were there too) but we were sitting right next to each other...

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Anonymous

How is he feeling about me? Should I keep hooking up with him?

I'm in college and I've been hooking up with this guy for 6 months now. In the beginning everything went by so fast and we acted almost as if we were dating. Even though we'd hook up multiple times a week, he told me...

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trueviolet3

Did I make the right decision? How come I don't know what's right anymore?

The reason I'm posting this question, is Ben. We lasted a little over a year. When I first met Ben, he was prince charming. Our chemistry was intensely strong. Ben was a whole lot of testosterone. Not "bad ass" I'm over...

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guycurious2012

Why does he keep coming back?

I met a guy via online dating. We talked for 5 weeks before meeting up. I guess I wanted to make sure he seemed normal, nice and decent. We opened up to each other about a lot of things, but as time would tell, he hid a...

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Anonymous

I always people away. I can't stop?

Everytime someone gets close, I push them away. I haven't realized what a big problem that is until today. I knew I did that but I didn't see how bad this is getting. It has prevented me from forming new relationships,...

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dancinggurllove

Pls pls help me!!! Whats going on with this guy? I really am confused right now... any advice?

So there's this guy I really like, but he has a girlfriend and I am friends with her. He has messaged me before on social media, tried to talk to me outside and so on. We went clubbing yesterday and I don't know this...

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needmymojoback

He Was SO In Love, I Was Hesitant, He Pulled Away, I Realized How Much I Love Him, He Pulled Away & Dumped ME?!

Let's get things straight here. I am a rad chic, I am good looking, confident & I am a well respected business gal. 6months ago I met the sweetest/honest/caring guy who fell 4 me HARD.But it seemed like situations kept...

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Anonymous

Did I handle it the right way?

My niece is 9 years old and I have two other nieces who are her siblings. I love these girls so much. I don't have kids right now but I love them all very much. We are always playing together and having a good time. Well...

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Anonymous

Guys, am I "decoding guy speak" correctly and doing the right thing?

He's probably being very clear with me and I'm ignoring it. But… Background: ex and I reconnected, became friends, became intimate but kept the understanding that we could date other people. He claims I'm the only one...

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Anonymous

Why did he suddenly pull away? Will he message me?

Everything was going so great, We had three casual dates, got to know eachother and had fun. He initated getting my number, going for coffee, then messaging me then asking me to go out with him one night. We talked about...

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7 mo
Anonymous

Why He Pulled Away When Everything was Going Well?

So I was seeing this guy for about half a year. We were both in relationships with someone else when we met at work and we began to realize that we had undeniable chemistry between us that we didn’t have with our...

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Anonymous

Parents called security on me. Are they right or wrong?

My parents called security on me after I completely snapped. What exactly happened was: I was just minding my own business was going into my room with my laptop. But my mom is strict when it comes to using computers to...

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Anonymous

One of my friends pulls her boyfriend's pants around us?

I was hanging out last week with some of my girl friends and one of their boyfriends (who was wearing sweatpants that day) eating some Easter treats and it was all fun and games and my friend with the boyfriend (who I...

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sweetbluelove22

I can feel that I'm pushing him away. What do I do?

So this guy right.. Everything was so good but about two weeks ago we were ducking and he pulled out but barely and so I had to take plan b or whatever and like after that he's been so distant... Like he used to text me...

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JustAsking_1991

I am so confused. What is his deal? Should I walk away?

Okay, so I have been seeing this guy for a month now, multiple times each week. It began on the 28th Oct when we both went to the same party. Instantly, we connected holding hands, looking into each other's eyes, and not...

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melloncollie

Why did he pull away after I confessed my feelings?

Well I'm sure you've seen/read this a million times, but hey all we have is time right? So I got in touch with this boy I knew from high school, who apparently recognized me while I didn't recognize him at all. We...

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Anonymous

Am I really being rude or is he not doing enough to help so I have a right so say and act the way I do?

Background: Got a DWI on Black Friday Night while my boyfriend was with me. We both had been drinking and he wanted to go get something to eat from Dunkin Donuts a block away from his house. I told him I wanted to go...

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Anonymous

Did I do the right thing?

I became friends with a guy and we had a really good connection right from the start. When we hung out, everything was going great. We got eachother's number, then he messaged me, and called me 'buddy', he has called me...

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wildchildx

This doesn't make me bi right?

So, I'm feeling a little OCD. I love guys. I've always loved guys. But there's this girl I'm friends with who has had a crush on me for a while. Well, we were hanging out tonight. She wanted to smoke weed, so I was like...

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Anonymous

The Guy that got away, what can I do?

He's 26 and I'm 23Me and this guy talked from Sept 2015 till December 2016. We went on LOTS of dates. He wanted to make it official but I kept telling him that I wasn't ready. He told me he loved me and everything. He...

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Anonymous

Do I have a right to be mad?

So lastnight I went to the carnival with my friend. The wrist band was $20 and we both brought money for that. I brought some extra for gas for my car since I drove us, and then for some food and drinks. When we get there...

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Kims2016

I should just give up? right?

me this guy became friends about a year ago. We meet at a transportation system, he works for. A few months later like 2-3 he started to nudge me here and there. Like lightly tapping my arm or squeezing my shoulder...

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Coconut1390

Why men pull away when everything seems great?

We've been dating for three months. Nothing's official yet, though all of his friends keep saying we need to, and I've met his family. We have good chemistry, enjoy one another's company, rarely argue, and a couple weeks...

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Anonymous

Guys, what would you do if a girl was honest and said this to you... you were pushing her away because you're scared?

I'm not going to play this push/pull game with you. I've been there, so I know what's going on. Because I care, you push me away. If I treated you like shit and was shady (the kind of girls you've probably always dated...

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Anonymous

He can see right through me, help!

A week or two ago I cheated on my Boyfriend by kissing another guy when I was really drunk. It was just a kiss and I pulled away really quickly and made it clear that nothing else could ever happen. I decided not to tell...

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dlj1223

Help me understand !!! What should I do?

So I recently met a guy in tinder on we hung out a few days later and hit if off right away. We kept hanging out for about 6 months and things were going well. Nothing seemed like a lie, he always had time for me & things...

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Anonymous

Why did he come back just to pull away again? My ex showed back up in my life after a year and a half. We have dinner. He says we're on a date?

Tells me how much he's missed me how he never stopped caring or thinking about me, how he tried to replace me and couldn't. spending every free moment with me. Then he came under some stress dealing with his ex and issues...

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Anonymous

Should I just keep being his friend?

Guys dont like any drama right? I dated a guy and things were amazing but he began to pull away after things got stronger. Well he got out of a relationship last year, they dated for 6 years and his ex has a bf and is...

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Hannabanana22

Was she right to kick her Ex between his legs in this instance?

My youngest sister's boyfriend (they are both 16) cheated on her with 2 other girls from a different school, then broke up with her via text message on a Friday in September. I would have reacted heartbroken, but she...

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Anonymous

Guys-is he right? Am I crazy?

Hello everyone, I was seeing this guy for a while in my first casual "relationship"until I finally realized this guy was never going to "be ready for a relationship" (go figure). I stopped talking to him for a while and...

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Anonymous

Is this right in marriage?

I let my husband go hang out with his friends and he also have a life of his own. He does things without telling me ever. He used to tell me beforehand what he is going to do, and why he will be coming home late from...

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