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I've heard getting a hot girl to be your girlfriend is not worth it.


Some arguments I hear from people spouting this who have been in relationship with hot girls is that they tend to have princess complex and expect you to put up with their behavior just because they are attractive. You have to deal with guy's constantly white knighting and staring at you and your girl when your out in public. Another common problem i heard is that when it comes to sex hot girls tend to be a little more lazier than girls who are average or even ugly;think lazy star fish.

So basically the general premise people are saying is that girl who are hot thinks their look carry considerable weight for what they bring to the table for the relationship.
Meaning that they believe being good looking should be nearly enough weight to bring to the table for a relationship because it elevates your status to both men and women and you have a girl with good genetics who can pass on those genes to your kids. So everything else about her whether she is boring, lame/selfish in bed, and has negative traits that for a normal girl you'd probably not put up with should be overlooked because she is pretty and not only that you should treat her really well even though she doesn't reciprocate in the same fashion.

Is this true in your opinion?

For example, the Florida Republican lawmakers just passed a law to banned transgenders from playing in girls sports.

-Why care about what transgenders are doing in their lives
-Who cares if a woman gets an abortion
-Who cares what someone else put in their body
-Who cares who someone is sleeping with and/or getting married to

Care about the real important issues such as healthcare, education, infrastructure, climate charge, getting people higher paying careers not some low loser jobs such as fast food or Wal-Mart not silly stupid cultural wars shit!!!

One thing that would happen to me a lot in my time as a bouncer, a football player, and now as a (heavy air quotes) hockey player is people actively disrespecting me, maybe trying to goad me into something, maybe not, but always them being an asshole without provocation from me. You can think it’s ridiculous or not, but disrespect will get the worst out me. I could throw my whole life away over intentional disrespect, which sounds crazy when cool-headed me is typing it, but seems like the logical solution when I lose control of myself. Needless to say that has caused some negative situations in the past, to put it politely.

I have to own my response, as unintentional and unconscious as it might be. There have definitely been times when people have just been like “holy fuck, dude, take it easy!”, and I get it, but it really pisses me off that no one is mad at the person who brought this out of me, because it’s not like I just flip for nothing. You have to do something egregious to get me there. What you do might not be as loud, or as physical, but you’re still every bit the asshole for creating the environment for a situation like that to transpire. I’m not blame-free, but I’m not even there without you doing something first.

So I guess I’m saying I feel like the quiet “cause” gets dismissed, and the blame just completely shifts to the noisy “effect”, and I think that’s pretty off-base if you ask me. I very much reject the notion that I or anyone else should just be able to absorb whatever mistreatment we experience and not react, and if we do, everything is our fault. That really feels like a cop-out for the more common “quiet offender” to get away with doing stupid shit and then spinning it around on whoever calls them out or reacts to their bad behavior.