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I know some of you are going to go off about never using dating apps or trying to find people online period. That’s a separate debate so please don’t bring it up. Not everybody has the time or environment to socialize with singles on a consistent basis.

Anyway I’ve gone real back and forth about ever mentioning sex or even acting flirty with girls I match on dating apps. On one end if she already finds me attractive, is in a good mood and hit her vibe right it can make her more eager to meet up.

However the downside if I just make one wrong comment many women panic and hit the “creep” button. It’s game over and there is little or no room for forgiveness. Often the guy has no idea he’s out. It doesn’t matter if it was an honest mistake or I had no idea she didn’t like a certain comment. Many women just freak.

An even worse scenario is she might just want all virtual sexting and has zero interest in meeting for real. The virtual attention is good enough for her. Most men aren’t satisfied with that. They want to meet someone for real.

Then there is the safe route (and it can be genuine). Just act friendly, funny and don’t mention sex. Many women find this to be non-threatening and are more likely to meet in person.

But a downside with this is she might find me more boring. Some women are deluded/selfish to believe that guys are okay just making “friends” with women on dating apps. Nope. That’s a huge waste of time and effort. That doesn’t mean men are always looking for hook ups. Some of us really want to start a relationship. But there is always at least some romantic interest. Men don’t seek out random women to become “friends” with.

So anyway what’s the best route?

I used to make these all the time in Reddit's /r/6perks, but they always whine and b*tch over on Reddit, so... I'm bringing them here! Which one of these would you want as a Winggirl?

1. Marla Rivas is a quintessential city girl in a leather miniskirt with a Mid-Atlantic accent who works as a bartender while pursuing a law degree. She's street smart and savvy to how people work but behind that cool as ice exterior, she's really insecure and it's all a facade.

2. Kessandra/Kesi for short, is the socialite who knows the upper class lifestyle and is your golden ticket into how the elite and super-rich party. She'll connect you with the big wigs. However, she's a bit past her prime and getting a little too old for this sh*t, but can't admit it.

3. Kyung/"K" is the laid-back feminine tomboy who looks pretty, but acts like one of the guys and has some of the filthiest sex jokes you've ever heard. But, she comes from a really racist family who want nothing to do with you and will only hang out with you in secret.

4. Holly, the sweetheart Christian girl-next-door who doesn't like partying, but has a semi-famous rapper brother who's cool and often likes to invite her out to various events and parties. He's generally nice to anyone his sister likes, but you'll never really be in the inner circle of her brother's crowd. Just a "guest."

5. Miami Millie is a whole lot to deal with, and lives the hard rock and roll lifestyle when not doing exotic dancing as a job. She's friends with some of the hottest sex industry workers in town and can hook you up for free, but she's also on the verge of catastrophe with the hard partying she does.

6. Kharisma/Khari is an Indian immigrant pharma grad student and D&D nerd and likes to play board games and card games with friends. She loves superheroes and has a decent size community of nerdy online female friends who live close by. While cute enough for your tastes, Khari is not at all attracted to you as a lesbian.