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Girls, would you message a guy first on a dating site?

Whether you guys matched or you just find him attractive. Would you message him first? another question separate from the poll: would you approach a guy or make the first move in person?

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Anonymous

Girls have you ever messaged a guy first on a online dating site?

Guy would welcome it or hate? I read so many articles about it and all of them suggest to never message him first, so I didn't so far. And it works OK, I get loads of messages but there is this one guy who seems really...

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ntulsian

Why do girls go incommunicado after a good first date?

Two people meet on a dating website, exchange a few emails. They meet for a quick coffee date and have pleasant conversation where both seem happy, compliment each other, talk about doing things together or going on more...

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AMT5585

Girls, She went from being what I wanted to dating another guy within a day with no real warning... How does this happen?

I am beyond curious to see if this normal in today’s dating world. I met this girl on bumble (first mistake) when I was out of town on a trip. Long story short she kept saying how she’d like to meet me so I booked a...

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mileswmr1989

Girls, what do I say to a girl in the first message on an online dating site?

My girlfriend recently broke up with me and we decided to go our separate ways. This is the first time I have joined a dating site, and to be honest I have never actually 'dated'. Most of my girlfriends were girls that I...

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Anonymous

Girls that have actually gone out of their way to message guys on dating sites, what was the biggest reason?

Im sure there are girls who have gone out of their way to message a guy for the first time on here right? Well what is the biggest reason above all that makes you message a guy?

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Anonymous

I found my boyfriend on a dating site...

WTF? we met online anyway in order to remember the first conversation we had I searched my inbox and guess what I found. I found his profile, with a new photo so I know he has been on there chatting up girls since we got...

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Anonymous

Why aren't girls responding to me on online dating?

It's getting real frustrating. First of all, I'm not in any way shape or form ugly. I'm a good looking guy and I'm a nice guy. Secondly, some of the girls that I message aren't even good looking at all, sometimes they're...

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ashleymaries1990

Was this guy being a typical jerk? How should I view the situation?

Sigh talking to this guy online actually put me down. I was talking to a guy online off a dating site and he wanted me to add him on kik which is NEVER a good sign usually perverts want me to add them on kik so I did...

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GuyAdviceFromGuy

Why do women have double standards on dating sites?

Lots of girls write the following on THEIR PROFILES when telling guys how they should message them -Please spell check your messages -Please read my profile before messaging me -dOn'T sPeLl likE tHiS -I'm not here for...

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Anonymous

Girls, what's your experience of online dating?

Girls who have tried online dating, do you think from your perspective it's worth a man's time to bother with online dating? From what I've heard, every woman gets bombarded with first messages: several a day. So, the...

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BluMac81

Why don't girls let guys know if they're not interested after the first date?

I've been having this experience in dating that has been happening a lot and it's getting very frustrating, and I'm sure there are others here (both sexes) who have experienced it to. You go out on a first date, maybe a...

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trojan82

New to online dating. Girls, what should I say in the first message that I send her after seeing her profile?

I just moved to Miami a few months ago to finish my degree and start my Master's program. Dating is Miami is tough if you do not have a million dollars and do not speak Spanish. I am a white guy from the northeastern part...

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Anonymous

Should guys or girls be the first ones to message on dating sites?

So the question is, should guys or girls be the first ones to message on dating sites like OkCupid, Match. com, and Tinder? What if you already knew the person in real life? Could you still message them first, and who...

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HGirl80

My boyfriend has falsely accused me of cheating (based on a misunderstood text message). What do I do now?!

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. He and I are pretty religious. So, he got this text message (my phone is messed up and sends delayed messages often.) This message seemed to be continuing a...

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Anonymous

Is this normal, common, part of Online Dating? I understand if you are a guy, most of your messages are going to get ignored?

This is what has been happening to me as of lately, with some girls, they respond to my initial message, and we exchange some messages with each-other, have a brief online conversation, then when i ask them out, ask them...

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rachelwatson13

Can you guys please help me decipher this guy's mind because I'm starting to overthink everything (and I might go crazy)?

So, I met this guy on a dating app. He's quite fun and intriguing, and after chatting with him for about 3 days, he suggested to meet in person and I said yes. Our first meeting (in my opinion) is actually went really...

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OlderAndWiser

Twenty-One Tips For Successful Online Dating

I am 62 years old. I have used online dating sites three times in my life: 2007-2008, 2015, and 2017. I am not looking for hookups, FWB’s, casual sex, ONS's, etc. I want to find a woman for a long term relationship 1. who...

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The-Dude-Next-Door

Girls would you accept a friend invitation from a guy on Facebook you never met?

I sent a message to a girl on Facebook saying simply "Hello, may I add you to my friend's list?" I did not want to give a paragraph about anything or say much more, because we have never met in person. I wanted to keep it...

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Anonymous

Guys, how often do you message girls you like before you are officially dating?

I met up with a guy I met online. We went for coffee and got along really well. We ended up talking for hours until we were the last ones left and were asked to leave the store coz they were shutting down! He messaged me...

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HeBrokeMyHeart

All you need to know about texting a guy you like and where you are going wrong

So I have just recently started getting back out into the dating world after a year break from my sort-of relationship ended. Now I've never been one to be good at dating, I was always sh y at school and held myself back...

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ChromAzonyx108

Girls, Let's Get Serious About Online Dating

I have some suggestions for those who want to make the most out of online dating. Some of this may also apply to guys, and some of this is just me ranting about some pet peeves I have. 1. Profile Pictures A) With or...

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Xseed

What to say on the first message to a girl on an online dating site?

I am on OKCupid and I constantly hit up all of these girls, because women never message first even if they are interested in you. But what are some tips on what to say on the first message so that the girls will respond...

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Anonymous

What do guys think of 19 year old virgin girls? Will I ever have a boyfriend?

I'm 19 and I'm a virgin. I'm the only girl in my group of friends who is still a virgin (my best friend just lost her virginty 2 years ago at age 18 untill then she was my only friend who was a virgin) Im friends with a...

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Anonymous

Can some honest girls here tell me why it's so hard to find a girl that wants something serious?

And some background about myself too, I am a serious guy. I am an open book, friendly, outspoken yet shy in newer settings, I have myself together. I make decent money and work hard. Really, I have prepared myself to find...

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blazethetrail

For online dating sites, should guys message girls? Or simply Wink, etc and let them message if interested?

So weird question... if a guy sends a message to a girl he likes on an online dating site, chances are he will not get a reply unless she has some interest too. Therefore, is it sufficient for them to just send a wink,...

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Anonymous

Why don't any girls give me a chance?

Okay so this may sound pathetic but I'm 23 years old, have never had a girlfriend, never been on a date, never had my first kiss, and never had sex. Some of the time I have wanted or preferred the single life, but for the...

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Anonymous

Girls, what's an example of a first message you'd want sent to you?

So what is an example of what you'd personally want to see a guy message you, that you'd reply to. Whether it be online dating apps, or a guy who got your number earlier in the day, what is a concrete example of what...

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OlderAndWiser

Some suggestions for online dating

Let's identify my biases. I am 60 years old. I am not looking for hookups or ONS's. I would prefer to find a woman who shares my interests and beliefs and can share the rest of my life without telling me to stop eating...

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Anonymous

Is it possible that this guy could like me?

I used to like this guy a long time ago . We never really talked much but the times we did I thought he was interested in me but I was too shy to talk to him or make a move so he ended up dating another girl. I found him...

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Anonymous

Do guys like when girls message them first?

Do guys like when girls message them first online? or would they rather make the first move? I'm interested in a guy online and we've never met so I was thinking about messaging him to get to know him. What would you want...

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Anonymous

I messed up because I panicked but I’m not ready to let go of the guy I left, but my main question is is it most likely too late to message him?

Basically we were together for 8 months but during the 7th month towards the end he began questioning if he liked me anymore like he did in the beginning and so we took a break for a week but then he ending up ending the...

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Anonymous

How do I accept and lower my own standards in dating?

First off I'm 22 and never even kissed. I've gone through university, socialized, learned how to make some guy friends and twice at a club even hit on a guy, once asked the guy to dance he turned me down (even though he...

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Ggrant8

Girls, Ladies when you get a message on a dating site from a guy what sort of things determine if you respond to or skip it?

When you get that first message from a guy on a dating site what makes you say "hey Im going to respond to this guy"

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TheDarkPegasus

I need online dating tips?

Dating all seems to be online now, and I've just begun to acquaint myself with it. What's all this crap about girls sending the first message? That's feminism gone too far. If a guy doesn't message me within 24hrs of...

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GriswoldsLover

Do guys like getting dms from girls they don't know?

Do guys like when girls message them first online? or would they rather make the first move? I'm interested in a guy online and we've never met so I was thinking about messaging him to get to know him. What would you want...

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vodoochild81

Amazing first date - then she cuts off?

I am not big into online dating so I thought I would give it a shot. So Wensday night I went on a first date with a girl. It went really well right off the bat. We have a ton in common and we connected on a lot of levels....

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Anonymous

Friend zoned or not? would you do this to a guy you like?

If you liked a guy but were afraid he didn't like you back would you start dating other guys or find out if he likes you first.. ? I read a question just now that described a girl similar to her. they said she like him...

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showstopper227

Girls, would you ever do this?

I dated this girl months ago and we're in our mid 20s. We are no longer dating but grew incredibly close with each other (hugging, kissing, holding hands, sleeping over). She knows I like her a lot and she says she really...

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guitaryo

Ladies, what do you look for in a first message from a guy on a dating site/app? Guys what do y'all say that has worked in the past?

I'm pretty socially awkward and tend to be quiet. So I've been single for the better part of 3 1/2 years now so I don't have much experience in dating girls at my age and what not. I suck at these dating apps and never...

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