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I might answer this question myself. Of course not all of them are gold diggers. I have seen one category of them working and or studying steadily, another category where they have relocated for work outside of Russia, another category where they drive cars like Mercedes, another category where they paid for the meal for both of them, another category where they marry the wrong Guys, another category where they married a low wage earner, another very major category where they ignore men or dont want any relationships and the list goes on and on. So this renders my question pretty much pointless.

However i keep getting told how these Russian girls sit back and do nothing in dating and expect us to do everything, invest in them even if they dont return anything, pay for them and the dating instructions in Russia go almost as closely as possible to invade their space, just short of r a p i n g them. I personally get gold digger vibes from that.

Some of them even told me (perhaps as a joke but i can't tell) about migrants from Europe or America coming to Russia and depart later away from there having married one of the Russian women so these women would gain citizenship or a green card and a ticket out of Russia, basically any legal type of permit into the country where those migrants came from and take her there too. This has happened before and its not so uncommon.

This scared me because i can not know whether its for the citizenship they are in for or the real deal. I almost never had a relationship with a Russian girl but right now i am on the safe side since i am not in Russia anymore. No need to dig for a citizenship and a passport where i am.

not hating but... recently I've noticed a lot of girls wanting us guys to be more feminine and girly...
for example: I've been seeing questions: why is it wrong for guys to cry? and then in the comments section all the girls are like "its ok for men to cry, no need hold back ur emotions, just cos u are male doesn't mean u can't cry" - well its not that im holding emotions back, i personally jus dont have the emotions there, i dont care about anything enough to be sad by it.

and then i be seeing questions like "is it ok for men to wear this pink handbag?" and then in the question us guys obviously say "no, its faggy"
and then the girls always have some war with us like "why is it not ok for him to wear a feminine bag?
jus because he's male? we should all have the freedom and choice to wear what we want"

its like they dont understand gender roles... men are suppose to be tough, not girly,
could u imagine a world wear every guy is weak and cowardly, never does anything brave,
and constantly crying in the corner over the smallest things? i dont think u do.
why do you girls are always trying to encourage us to be feminine now?
what for?
i dont get it

So on this site I've been hearing on both sides from men and women that:This has been sprouted for example:

1. Man risking his life to push a woman out of the way of danger. Severely damaging themselves.

2. Men who go out of their way to help women get over some obstacle in their life. Be it helping a girl pass a course she was failing, getting over a nasty breakup, helping an impoverish single mother.

3. This has been sprouted in girls using guy's as utilities. For example a girl using u as a charfeur to drive her around places, buy her gifts etc.

Anyways, do you agree with this stance that no matter what a man does, that women owe's him nothing?