Search Results: Guys I know a lot of guys on GAG and some of them

It's certain questions that kind of leave you wondering what kind of delusional world women are living in when they believe MOST men can get sex very easily and is one of the reasons why they can't find a guy to seriously commit.

I'm going to leave a quote from two users:

Female GAG



"They're going for the guys a lot of other girls would want too. The problem with that is when people have a ton of options for sexual and romantic partners who are all of similar caliber, they're more likely to think of you as disposable and replaceable, and not be emotionally invested in you.

Those women need to communicate more and have boundaries. If a guy doesn't want to go out on dates, get to know you, be exclusive, etc. and is only interested in sex... don't hang out with him. It doesn't matter how great he seems. That's not what you're looking for, so why bother? If girls collectively did this, they'd see better results."

Male GAG

"I was in a lab of about 30 people. On the first day we had to introduce ourselves socialize and make groups. I went up to two girl confidently and start talking to them and all the other girls started gravitating towards me from all corners of the room... I ended up with me and 3 girls in my lab group. Throughout the semester all the girls from other groups came to hang out at my lab bench and flirt with me and ask me questions and for help. The TA that prepped materials for the lab always came by to talk to me and even the female professor would treat me special. I was the big swinging dick in the room. One of the guys in the lab who was a rich frat boy got pissed off about it and actually came up to me and said "I don't get it! What the hell is so special about you?" and he started making comments about me and I blew it off with a joke and some oblivious act and all the girls giggled and we went on our way... When you're on top sure you get approached... But everyone one else is no one...

I know that guys are lot more open to trolling on the internet than girls but so far, I've been observing female trolls lately on GAG and surprisingly, it's more than I think.

I just read a MyTake about how not all men don't think about sex and a lot of female trolls have the nerve to have some confirmation bias towards men and hear what they only want to believe. It pisses me off.

Funny I was noticing lots of women on here have their actual faces in their profiles but very few guys do that. Now why is that?

I know society gives men little leeway to broadcast our problems, insecurities and emotions without looking pathetic. If we do share issues we better have a way to resolve them or at least be open to suggestions to take action. Just sharing a problem for the sake of sharing it is not considered masculine.

Not to say women are completely off the hook when it comes to judgment. However they don’t seem to publicly lose face the same way men do.

So my theory is men are more likely to look for “safe” and anonymous places to get their crap out. Either that or they get their crap out through action which can be good (hard work, exercise, martial arts, adventures, creativity, etc.) or bad (heavy drinking, drugs, gambling, escapism like porn, promiscuity, violence, etc.).

I notice guys tend to write in greater depth about their problems on here and that’s no coincidence. We feel safer opening up here

Overall I think it can be a good thing just as long as they are open to insightful feedback and don’t get trolled. I know some women are quick to write these guys off as “incels” but I vouch to say most are decent guys once they feel heard (whether you agree with them or not). Nowhere else is anybody going to listen to them. Men generally don’t participate in “mens groups”at the same rate women form their cliques.

This is also the reason why guys tend to anon more and rather keep their identities secret. We are much more vulnerable to harsh judgment.

This is a follow up to the last question "Ladies do you realize that men have standards in dating?"
There was a lot of snarky comments from women. Everything from trashing men all the way to saying in a sarcastic way that they know this already.

Well ladies, let's put your knowledge to the test. What is it that you think a man is looking for when he is dating and looking for a wife? Do you think that "wifey material" is just opening up your legs and letting him put it deep inside you?

Or do you think that the reason why so many women are in their 30s, single, and unmarried with children is because they have not offered something more than sex to their man?

(oh and if you are going to complain about men leaving you etc etc. realize that YOU chose the men in your life. YOU are the one who chose to carry to term a child who wouldn't be a good father. that reflects on YOU.)

On the other hand I am hearing some ladies out there with open minds who have some bright ideas about how they will treat a man. I am hearing from a lot of ladies on GAG that definitely sound like wife material. There some ladies on here I would like to ask on a date if they were in my city. Are you one of those high quality ladies? How will you treat your king of a man? I am hearing from some of these ladies out there... I must admit. Ladies take notes because some of us want to be on their wifey program!

Fellas! Gents! Guys! What do you all think? Are you seeing a lot of wifey material out there? Or are they more just hit it and quit it?