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5 mo
Anonymous

Was he really just using me to hookup? Or is he possibly still thinking of a response?

Today, I have been snapchating the guy I occasionally hookup with. We go to the same college and have known each other for 3 years. We have communicated off and on during this time. I started to develop feelings for him...

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taleets

Guy kicked me out when I wouldn't hookup with him?

basically we had never met and he asks me everyday to come over or to hangout or whatever. he is very blunt always messaging me saying let's f*** or let me f*** your brains out. i have rejected him and said no and that i...

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1 y
Anonymous

Did I scare my hookup away?

I met this guy through some acquaintances and one night after coming back from a night out, we hooked up. We got interrupted and didn’t get to finish. I wanted to message him about hooking up again (or at least finishing...

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BrunetteBabe1005

Does he just want a hookup or a relationship? Best Answer Guaranteed! Please read and help, I am so confused!

I only known Sam since April. He works for my dad. Sam would stare at me alot, and my dad came home one day and said "Sam likes you he talks about you" Then me and my brother were invited to a party, and Sam was there. He...

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Anonymous

Is this guy actually into me or just looking for a hookup?

I just want to preface this question with the fact that I am terrible at dating. I'm currently more than halfway done with college, haven't been in a relationship since high school, and have stuck strictly to hook ups...

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Anonymous

Would your view on Obama go down during his time as president if his daughter Malia dated a rapper?

I was watching this clip from TMZ in which a rapper by the name of RAE SREMMURD'S SWAE LEE talked about how he want to get with Malia Obama. https://www.youtube.com/embed/dzo6PIj-qNw Now let say Obama's daughter were to...

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11 mo
Anonymous

Is it just a hookup or does he want more?

I met this guy on Tinder (yeah yeah I know) and we’ve been talking for a month now. He goes to school four hours from me but ever since we met he kept asking me to come down and watch him play football and hang out. I...

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8 mo
Anonymous

Turned down a hookup now I’m ignored - was I wrong?

This guy and me have been texting for a while, turned to sexting, and we arranged to meet up to act out a fantasy. I backed out a few days before and explained I needed to meet up and say hi in person before I could get...

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Anonymous

Do I let her get hurt?

I am friends with this girl in college and we have gotten pretty close the last few months. Anyway, she is dating this guy who is a bit of an asshole. He never treats her to anything, never hangs out with her, and only...

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10 mo
Anonymous

Girls - would you let a guy go down on you and give you oral sex on the first date, if he offered?

So I have been talking with my male friends, and a lot of us are agreeing on, and saying, that going down on a girl and giving her oral, early on in the relationship, or on the first/second date, has lead to her being...

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Anonymous

Super confusing drunk hookup, now I'm having a mental breakdown. Help!

The other weekend, my university literary magazine had a party (it's a pretty small group, about 10 of us on staff, and I'm one of the only two freshmen). We all got pretty drunk, and one of the editors, an upperclassman,...

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Anonymous

Pls read description--how to let a guy down that you've lead on?

This guy I met online wants to meet up just to hookup. I was fine with that because it was the basis of my profile and what I was looking for. We talked a few weeks and never could meet so it's dragged on. He keeps...

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Kitkate

Does he like me more than just a casual hookup friend?

I've been completely plutonic friends with this group of guys for a while now, one of which I'm super close to and I recently met one of their friends I had not met before and we hit it off great. We've been hooking up...

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1 mo
Anonymous

How can I tell if this guy is looking for a hookup, or if he's actually excited to see me/take me on a date?

Context: Me (24F) and this man (30M) have been texting a couple times a week since he moved 1,300miles away. We were friends beforehand, had a lot of chemistry, but never dated. After he moved a mutual friend told me that...

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xxblue_eyes

This seems too good to be true... could he really like me that much?

I made out with a guy at a bar three weeks ago, and we've been texting/snapchatting every day since. We weren't able to hang out during that time because my spring break was right after his, and we both went away. He...

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msinvisible1

What are men between the ages of 30 and 50 looking for?

My gosh, I have been married for 12 years and divorced for 3. Trying to get back in the dating scene is crazy! Men and women play to many games. I seem to only meet guys who want to casually hookup and "let thing happen"....

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1 y
badblondie

Dates with a guy friend who acts like your boyfriend?

6 months ago i went on a dinner date with this guy, when he dropped me off at home i didn’t kiss him. we stopped talking and now 6 months later were talking again. he took me to the beach 3 weeks ago and we have been...

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1 y
teenagedreams

What is up with this guy?

6 months ago i went on a dinner date with this guy, when he dropped me off at home i didn’t kiss him. we stopped talking and now 6 months later were talking again. he took me to the beach 3 weeks ago with our mutual...

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Anonymous

Why would you keep having sex with a female friend but not commit?

Let's say you both get along very well, you watch Animes together, play video games together, you ask her to wear your uniforms (let's say you're a US Army Officer, stationed overseas and she's a local) and you think...

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Tishawazhere1288

Am I crushing on someone that I call my big bro?

So there is this guy I call my big brother. We aren’t actually blood related, though we are close because we tell each our problems and give each other advice. On July the 27th of this year, him and I were sitting down...

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Anonymous

I can’t stop thinking about a married woman! Is this normal?

8 months ago I met this woman named Monica on a hookup site. Me and Monica instantly clicked. We got along and had so much fun on the first date, but. She revealed on the first day she’s in an open marriage. I asked why....

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4 mo
BriannaLuvsYou

Heartbroken, depressed, and don’t know how to move on from a friendship breakup. Any advice or ways to cope?

So basically I had a one night stand with a friends I had in college for a year and a half. He was my first kiss, first cuddling, first guy to spend a night with, first guy to explore my body... etc. basically a first for...

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4 mo
operalove19

What to do with guys who don't want a hook up but also don't want a serious relationship? I need an analysis of his response please?

This guy and I went out on two dates. There was a mix up on our last date where we both expected a goodnight kiss to happen different ways and ended up not having one! He apparently expected me to invite him in my house...

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Anonymous

Why are guys I like so mean to me?

I don't have a lot of close guy friends, just guy friends I'll see around college in general. But every time I like a guy this has happened, I'll give a few examples: 1) ask random guy in a club to dance (he seems to be...

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1 y
Anonymous

please help I’m so confused?

I’m 22 and I have been messing with an older man (30 year old) for a couple months now. The first night we hung out we had sex and then the next night he invited me to come over which lead to sex again and the next day we...

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9 mo
Anonymous

Are you butthurt when someone says they don't love you?

Him and I flirted and made out. Said he didn't want a relationship cuz we'd have to be apart for school in a year. I ask to be friends he says ok, and not even two days later flirts with me again, being really caring,...

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Anonymous

Could it ever turn into anything more?

This guy and I have been "talking" for about 2 months. Although I'll admit a lot of it involves hooking up and staying nights (no sex however), we've still gotten to know each other's friends and have become friends...

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af541151

Is he for real?

OK. So for the past 3 weeks, I've been dating this guy Dan, but neither of us ever said it was exclusive (I rushed with him in the beginning). Like, we met at a house party, seriously made out on a couch, he took my...

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Anonymous

Am I being played or should I read this optimistically and wait?

HELP! I've been seeing this guy for a few months. We mostly chill at my place and rarely go out - his excuse for not going out is that he's tired/busy (he really does work a crazy amount). Yesterday, I got frustrated...

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Anonymous

I saw this girl fully admit she's a slut, safe to assume that's all she's looking for with me?

To preface this, up until this last semester I used to weigh 250lbs. I'm now down to 185 and am in fantastic shape. I've never had to deal with any sort of real girl problems until recently, and as of late there seem to...

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Anonymous

Fight with my parents--did I go overboard?

I'd like a second opinion, about a fight I had with my parents. Anyway, really conservative, Christian home. And then my parents found out that a month earlier I had been looking to hookup with girls on okcupid. (I...

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Chinkabelle5

Why do guys always suddenly stop calling me?

I'm a 21-year-old female college student who doesn't really fall into the hard-partying, hookup-seeking stereotype of many other people my age. I don't judge other people for doing what they do, but I myself am an...

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Anonymous

Would you date, be in a relationship with or marry a divorced person?

Would you only date or would you commit to a serious relationship and marry a divorced person? Why or why not? Are you divorced? Has anyone been involved romantically with a divorced person? Would the answer change...

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Anonymous

Confident and fun around other girls except around certain girls. Friendly guy becomes nervous or awkward at times?

To start off: i'm 24 years old, fairly successful and graduated with a BS degree just one year over what I originally planned for. Point being, I'm the type of person that sets a goal and pursues it at my own pace. I...

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Anonymous

Why do I feel lonely sometimes when I'm only 20, party, and should just want to have fun? I'm too young think like this right?

I'm in college and I party, drink, have a lot of people who know me and at least show they like me. I have girls that that flirt and show they like me at least for a hookup etc. I'm doing really well in school but i still...

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Anonymous

Would love some constructive criticism on my dating profile?

Let me know if you think it's good or bad and what needs changing. Thank you! Me: When I asked my roommate to help describe me for my dating profile he laughed and asked “why are you making a dating profile?” I’m...

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Anonymous

Guys, if a girl were to tell you this what would you do?

I've been friends with this kid for over a year now. Recently we started to flirt in person and text (including sexting). But he also has toned down interest. I told him from the start that I have high pride in who I am...

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Anonymous

Am I doomed? filler?

I just reached my mid 20s and never had a serious relationship. I didn't focus much on dating when I was younger because: 1) I was an ugly kid/teen growing up 2) I focused on hobbies and friends. I casually dated and had...

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Anonymous

Should I tell my cousin GF?

My cousin has a girlfriend who makes her own money, sweet bubbly, cooks, love children and animals and regularly calls him during the day and once at night to wish him good night. Basically you could say GF/Wife material....

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