Search Results: How can I work on my approach anxiety as a shy
Best tips you have on approaching girls as an introvert? getting into the dating life with social anxiety and other insecurities?
I am - very shy, quiet, and reserved - introverted - terrible at first impressions, and can be a bit awkward at first. I tend to take a little while to warm up and feel natural in conversations - have a bit of...
Where can I connect with real women online (safely)?
I am a single guy who is a bit shy and has approach anxiety. I was doing ok for a while, but am to the point where I feel like I am going crazy not having any females in my life. I am shy, but have been working on going...
How do I approach this cute guy? I'm a bit awkward?
Hi guys, So last week I went to a restaurant with a friend. I noticed one of the waiters who worked there was constantly looking and smiling at me. Me being the shy and reserved person that I am, especially around...
How to break the ice with this ULTRA shy girl?
So, a few weeks back I broke it off with this girl I'd been seeing. After a period of re-evaluation and thoughts about what I really wanted out of a relationship I determined I needed to start being more open minded about...
Shy Girls: The Complete Guide to Understanding the Quiet Ones
Many shy girls lament their lack of dating success due to their personality and its perceived shortcomings. In defense of shy girls everywhere, this article is dedicated to them and to the men who wish to date them....
Why guys aren't approaching you
This question comes up very often, and it is probably frustrating you if you're unsure as to why they won't. My goal for this myTake is to inform you on common reasons guys won't approach you and possible ways to fix it....
Why I Self-Published a Book about Anxiety - Embracing Discomfort: A Guide to Taming the Anxiety Beast!
That’s right, my first self-published book is now available on Amazon under the title ‘Embracing Discomfort: A Guide to Taming the Anxiety Beast’ . You may be wondering why I've phrased the title of this post in the...
Should ugly and short guys give up on women?
Should ugly and short guys give up on women? Hello im 19 and a freshmen in college. I had only one girlfriend but I can't talk to girls because I think I have social anxiety. I'm shy, short (5'6) and i feel i am ugly. I...
Asking a Guy if he wants to gym-buddy with me?
I've been going to the gym pretty constantly since last year, and at first, I was going with my brother, because I found having someone I know there grounds me. I have a lot of social anxiety and self-consciousness. Since...
Getting the actual type of guy you want to approach you
So I've noticed a trend lately about girls being approached but still having zero luck in actually getting a relationship. Some say they attract virtually every type of guy except the type they actually want to be with....
The Creepy Stereotype and Why You Still Can't Find the "Right" Person.
Guys don't worry, we're not "Creepers" we're just ugly. Don't worry, you're not really ugly, beauty is subjective. Everyone has there own taste and what they find attractive. What matters is being true to yourself....
Is being 6 feet tall a huge advantage? I'm ugly but girls still like me?
I'm goofy looking. When I meet other guys, they talk shit to me and will make snide remarks about how I "probably can't get pussy." Or how I must be a virgin. They can tell as soon as they see me that I'm no good with...
The False Promise of Looks: A Surface Deep Liability
In many online circles of unhappily single men and women, attractiveness is heralded as the barrier to romantic access and relationship success; and whilst it is true that an individual's appearance determines how...
Flirting Life Hacks For Guys
This myTake was inspired by a previous one from @Jjpayne, who so kindly "passed me the torch" ~ a code word to say he's busy watching Netflix. Respect! LOL Life is full of daily tests and momentary difficulties...
Confidence: Life's Game-Changer
Before I begin, I just wanted to say that I was influenced to write this piece by reading another one on this site titled You Can't Fake Confidence , written by Cool-Relax . Thanks for the inspiration! First, a...
A Guy's Guide to Digital Communication: How to Talk to Girls Online
A Male Guide to Digital Dating, Friendships, and Online Communication So I'm not sure if this will seem too basic, maybe so (and if so, I apologize) but I have the feeling, after reading various posts and conversing with...
A World Not So Different
Born in the depths of Northern Thailand. A tiny village resembling that of the jungle book. A bamboo hut with dirt floors and a rice pot as interior design. This is the luxuries of the third world. Trees and vines stretch...
Growing Up in a Cruel, Cruel World: A Young Girl Left Behind
#GaGWritingContest This post could be triggering to anyone who has been a victim of abuse or has a sensitive heart. Read with caution. Several years ago I was a happy, energetic little girl. I would look for the best in...
