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Is being a "security blanket" for your ex normal?
I dated a guy for a couple of years 4 years ago now. It was a very intense relationship and it ended when I couldn't forgive him for getting close to his ex again. He didn't cheat, but he confessed he came close, and they...
What does my behaviour indicate?
So I’ve been out drinking quite a lot with various friends over the years … in 2020, a friend was drunk and being insulting toward my other friend calls us bitches etc and fake, so I basically hit her threw a drink at her...
Why I STILL Haven't Given Up (On Men)
*Warning. This may contain offensive material to some. It was mainly a response to another take. It contains personal details and aspects of my life that I kept hidden for a long time growing up. This is also a long read,...
Advice For Up & Coming Young Women (Trigger Warning) 🥒🥒🥒👌
Remember this is just advice, you can choose to ignore it in an adult way. 1. Never cheat& never be with a cheater. There is never a reason to cheat when you are in a relationship, if you are unhappy leave, tripping &...
What does awkwardness between a boy and a girl mean? Does this mean you aren't compatiable
I used to be in the same class as my crush last semester.. He always made an effort to talk to me, regardless the number of times I always shot down the conversations early, because when I'm with him, I get nervous, and I...
Why I Will Never Be A Feminine Woman
I know this may seem like some feminist mentality stuff, but bear with me. Yes, I am a masculine woman. Both in looks and mentally. A part of it is by choice, other by nurture, some because of the way I grew up, maybe...
A Little Strength
We’re all feeling scared as hell. (Ignore my shitty formatting here and read the good stuff) One of my good friends and I have been talking about how childhood trauma prepares us for oncoming trauma, which we’re never...
What If I Just Want To Be Me?
I am fat. How many of you can straight out say that? No, not chunky, chubby, big-boned, or whatever-- I am able to come out and admit that I am fat. I know that doing something like that is difficult because...
Overcoming inner demons
I have never been able to speak to anyone about this, as I have been to afraid of being shunned amongst people because of the person I am and the baggage I carry. I need to get some things off my chest. So this myTake is...
Things I've Learnt In 16 Years Of Life...
Hello! I recently turned 16 this week and I'm writing a MyTake inspired by @Clo917 :) After reading her MyTake: Life Lessons I've Learned in 16 Years I thought that I'd like to do one too because it looked fun! ^_^ I...
Forbidden Love – Will Lesbian Girls Ever be Free of Societal Bigotry?
On March 8 the world celebrates the many blessings and impacts of women in society - past, present and future. But what of Lesbian girls? Are we to be celebrated and heralded as well, or shall we remain as the scapegoats...
Common Mistakes I Think Women Make When Asking Out/Dating Men
It’s been a long time coming, but here it is: just like my earlier myTake, Common Mistakes I Think Men Make When Asking Out/Dating Women , I’ve finally done a female version as per requested. I’m not going to lie, I was...
Why Do I Prefer It Online?
So, throughout my journey as a computer addict, taking advantage of what free internet I can get, passing up opportunities to spend time with friends so I can check out the latest chapter for a book I'm reading online, or...
Chug that Potion of Courage!
This is kind of a rant My Take but I feel the community can benefit from it. I see these kind of posts all the time "does he/she like me" and all the opinions usually say something along the lines of gather up your...
How Scary Things Scarred Me For Life
Since I was about 5 years old, my uncle would take me to a carnival at night and play some rides. One time, he decided me to place me in the train for the haunted house. That time I didn't know what a haunted house even...
Does Love Even Exist?
This is not a normal take. It is just something that I have been struggling with the last few weeks and I guess I just feel like venting. I'm having a really hard time dealing with the fact that I have been single for...
Depression and Suicide: My In Depth Look at What Got Me There
Before we get started I want to warn you that this my take will focus on the topics of child molestation, child abuse, rape, domestic violence, self harm and suicide. So if you or someone you know can relate to any of...
Tips to Help You Quit Smoking!
With a new year upon us, a lot of people are probably thinking about quitting smoking. Maybe some of you gave it a shot as 2016 rolled in but it didn’t work out. Or maybe some of you haven’t worked up the strength to do...
Why Do We Dream? It Has to Go Beyond Science
#Dreams #Reality #Wonder Something shook me inside this morning. I woke up pouring sweat and crying. It was another dream. I keep ending up in the bathroom stall of my old elementary school trying to text my dead father....
My Battle with a Video Game Addiction
Step-1 Harmless toys for bored boys I remember when I was 4 years old my mother bought me a Gameboy Color and a Legend of Zelda cartridge for it. That was my very first step into video games and possibly the worst...
