Search Results: How do I tell her that I want to play video games

I've read a few Reddit posts lately about gaming, and people seem to bash them loads.

1. Woman and son (12) both have switches (son also has playstation 4), and son broke his switch. He asked mum to play on the switch and she told him okay but not to download fortnite, (might have been Minecraft) as she doesn't have space for it on her switch. He deleted her stardew valley, and she ended up banning both her switch and his playstation as he deleted 60 odd hours of work. The son also managed to get ahold of a phone to call her mum, his gran, complaining about the mum and she started throwing shade on her daughter too.

The replies regarding this said gaming is for kids, just start over again is no big deal, it's just a game nothing to get upset over, you're childish and immature to enjoy such a thing. There only seemed to be a couple of comments in her corner: regardless of what the hobby is her son deleted 60 hours of work if that was a painting or some knitting you'd all react differently.

2. Man says to wife he'd pick her up at the airport at 9. Wife was calling at 8 to say the planes early can you pick me up, he didn't see the phone and 20 mins later he sees it responds and spends about 10 minutes finishing up his game and then leaves to pick her up and gets there 9:05. He tells her he didn't see his phone cause of gaming and it's on vibrate and they had a little argument (they reconciled by the end of the edit).

Some replies did say if you were picking someone up why wouldn't you have the phone on loud. But by the time I finished up the game and left the house it was ten minutes after the phone call. Was hated on tonnes loads of comments it's one thing if you were cooking, but a game, that would immediately be turned off the second after a phonecall.

- I'm thinking not all games have regular save points, and you don't want to lose progress. It's also not like game consoles of old, where you could just leave the game on, nowadays they turn themselves off.

Please don't bash astrology if you plan on answering this--though I also believe that astrology does not dictate everything.

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All other aspects put aside, based soley on a Cancer Man's sun sign alone, how can you tell the difference between him viewing you as a FRIEND vs a potential GIRLFRIEND?

What will he do differently? Is he more physical (hugging, tickling, and just touching you in general) when he sees you as a potential girlfriend vs a friend? Is he more open when he sees you as a friend vs a potential girlfriend?

Please answer in detail :) thank you.

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I would like to add that I am an Aquarius Woman with a close knit friendship with a Cancer Man whom I am slightly curious about.

We really love each other's company, despite that I am often moody/broody due to my own reasons. Oddly enough, he understands them and wants nothing more than to see me happy and to see me laugh off the pains of life. These things, he has told me.

He confuses me, but that's because he supposedly sees in me what I fail to personally. I tend to believe I am worth no one's time--yet he tells me that I should never feel that way. In fact, he gets worked up and irritated when I tell him about my family's views on me. He tells me that they're wrong and that I am perfect the way I am. If I say "I'm ok" he can go on in a rant about how I'm more than ok and that I need to see it.

Ever since I've gotten to know him, he's helped me not only feel my emotions, but actually experience them--if that makes much sense. I can open up fully to him, and I know he'd never turn it against me.

He is also big on physical contact. Whether it's a full-bodied hug before I leave, or me sitting in his lap watching tv or friends play video games, he likes to be close to me and likes touching me--even if it's tickling or touching my arms/legs for no apparent reason.

Thank you :) I look forward to answers.

I'm friends with a guy, we used to talk a lot. I miss him so I texted him and told him I wanted to stay in touch. He invited me to come play video games with him (He knows I like them). Anyway I've never been to his house but I don't mind at all. But my female friend is saying he wants sex and now I'm nervous. She's very "sexually active" but I'm not. He also told me he wanted to go bowling together one day. Does him inviting me to his house mean he's thinking about sex?