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Alder_Freshman

How do guys feel about girls initiating kiss and/or cuddling? when not dating yet

I have been hanging out with this guy a few times. we hug all the time. today they were long,drawn out hugs(which I loved). he said that I looked really pretty today. and he asked me if I was a good kisser. I was like...

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Anonymous

How do guys feel about girls initiating conversation and texts?

There's a guy I like and I started talking to him in class because for some reason my body was yelling at me to say something. We ended up having some stuff in common and we were going to be switching groups so I texted...

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Anonymous

What do you guys feel about initiating a conversation with girls on social media?

Is there any of you would never initiating a conversation on social media even with the girl you like? I like this guy a lot and he makes me feel he likes me too when face to face, but he never initiated a conversation...

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nxck_deep

Guys, how do you feel about girls being more forward?

Openly being forward about how they feel towards you, asking you out on a date, initiating a relationship that sort of thing

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ihatetakingcharge

Why am I supposed to enjoy approaching girls, enjoy taking charge, taking initiative, asking out, leading

How is it accurate that most guys enjoy doing the approaching, initiating, asking out, pursuing, initiating? because I sure as hell don't, I see it as a chore, burden, drudgery, as work, and yet why is it not supposed to...

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ihatetakingcharge

Why do a lot of people, or some people, think us guys are the ones that have more choosing and selecting power?

in the dating, relationship, boyfriend/girlfriend scene, that we guys have it easier than girls? who came up with that bullsh*t? that we guys are the luckier ones, we have more options, we have the choosing and selection...

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Anonymous

Do guys like quiet/slightly awkward girls?

I'm really awkward around guys, especially those I don't know well. I grew up without any guys around the house, and I don't really have many guy friends as well. Most of my guy friends are pretty girly anyways. So I'm...

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Anonymous

Why do so many girls these days feel entitled to be approached, and not approach the guy?

This infuriates me. I see lots of questions about girls asking about how to get the guys they like, to notice them and approach them. And then the girls that fail, complain about what they did wrong. Seriously girls(to...

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Anonymous

It seems so easy for other people to date, but I feel depressed about my dating life. Advice?

Okay, so I don't want to sound like a whiny little beta, but recently it's dawned on me that I'm 25 and my dating life sucks. I haven't been on a date for years, I haven't had sex for 2 years, and life in general sucks...

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Anonymous

Girls if you like a guy, do you still generally let him initiate everything or do you try and initiate things as well?

When I meet a girl I like, I usually have no problems with at least being the one to get the ball rolling. I'll send some texts, ask to her to hang out or grab drinks, etc. However, at the same time, I tend to give up on...

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Magirific

Having trouble STARTING conversation with attractive girls

I seem to be extremely shy around INITIATING conversation with girls. I can talk my way through a convo fine, but I can't seem to get myself to open my mouth and say "hey what's up?" Like when I need to ask them...

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Anonymous

Need help initiating convo (mega virgin let me explain)?

Guys, girls I need your help. Let me explain my situation, I think its decently unique. Im super introverted so I basically always avoided social contact. I also slipped into a depression for many years which didn't...

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Anonymous

Why are girls not attracted to guys who are resentful? why is being resentful such a turn-off for girls, women

Because if a guy is resentful, no woman will want him, that is what it said in a dating and relationship advice book written for men, on how to attract, pull women, etc. They said if you are resentful, no woman will want...

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Anonymous

Do guys want girls to text them first too when dating?

Whats your opinion? Does girls have to let guys chase them or do guys want girls to text them firs too? Especially quite early on dating? and how about initiating meetings? and how do you feel if you are the only one...

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Anonymous

Are there any more outgoing guys who will go for less outgoing girls?

Basically, I'm not the type of person who will just walk up to a stranger (male OR female) and start talking to them. I'm not quiet, in fact, I'm an excellent conversationalist, but I'm just not good at initiating...

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Anonymous

Why do girls feel the guy should _____?

You never really hear guys trying to create or impose responsibilities onto women. You never really hear guys trying to manipulate women into doing things guys would rather not do, by calling their femininity or...

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Anonymous

Hey girls, He's not initiating contact girls and guys?

So at first he would always initiate, and i was uncertain about him as a mate, we ended up hanging out and somehow it fizzled. But now he agrees to hangout with me but now im always initiating and it makes me feel like...

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Anonymous

Why do guys think girls approaching is the solution?

I hear a lot of guys talk about how this would make things so much easier, and I guess, somehow improve their chances of getting a chick. Maybe. I was for the female approach thing - or rather - at least women making...

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Anonymous

Is it wrong that I feel like instigating violence, going violently berserk in public, society, because I hate

the Status-Quo, Social-Norm, Tradition in Life, Society, Culture, that we guys always, or almost always have to be the one to make the first move and start conversation, ask the girl out, doing the pursuing, chasing,...

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Anonymous

Why do guys have to put themselves out there way more than girls do in order to meet a potential somebody

to land a date or acquire a relationship with? it really angers me, pisses me off, frustrates me, makes me want to violently explode often times, also, why do guys have to have "balls", have guts, initiative,...

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Anonymous

How come guys are one sided when they argue?

When I try to tell my boyfriend about something I'm not happy with he gets all defensive and tells me...i wasn't doing that or I never did that. Then he will come back with that's what you were doing not me. Then he will...

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IHateBeingaMan

Why do guys have to earn dating and relationships, and sex, more than girls do, why are girls more entitled

Because guys have to be extremely comfortable and content, secure with themselves but girls don't have to, guys have to earn it by realizing they don't need a girlfriend to validate their existence, since they have to do...

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Anonymous

Why do guys give their number to girls instead of asking the girls' no?

Why? and Why do guys ask girls to kiss them, instead of initiating? I don't mean all guys ofc. some. Not interested? I like this guy quite, but he doesn't do anything, he asks me to call him & asks me to kiss him....

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Loopii

Advice needed from both guys & girls (mostly guys)

Okay so I'm in a 'GAME' atm as yous would say, I need advice on contact with guys if they stop or reduce contact what does this mean, lose interest, waiting for me to initate, what? Problem is I have been initiating...

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moviedude714

Can girls, or most girls get a boyfriend/date whenever they want to? It seems like it, since they don't pursue

We all obviously know that like 95 percent of the time, or almost all the time, the guy is expected to take the initiative in the dating/relationship scene, society expects that, and obviously most girls do, almost all...

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Anonymous

Why do I feel foolish and embarrassed?

I talked to this girl in my college classes for a semester and we became comfortable enough where we teased each other, texted each other every other day, and she'd allow me to touch her. Eventually I asked her on a...

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Anonymous

I really feel like beating someone up sometimes, punching their lights out because I hate it when life...

gets cruel, unfair, yes I learned a long ass time ago that life is not fair, but there are times I can't stand it so damn much it just makes me want to violently explode sometimes, geeze!, I will admit I hate, despise,...

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Anonymous

Do you feel you have it easier in dating and relationships initially? Women?

initially? in the beginning? I'm talking about the attraction process, I'm talking about getting the date, getting the relationship, starting it, landing it. Because we all know it is the tradition that the guy has to...

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JSmuve

Girls: is it the guy's responsibility to do the approaching/initiating?

I know this question has been flogged to death but I couldn't find a poll in the search box. So, please vote and feel free to justify your reasoning should you feel so inclined. I don't think a poll's been done before so...

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RomansToPhilemon

Girls, Why aren't women more aggressive? approach guys more often? make the first move?

OK, so I have always found it more natural and even attractive when a girl approaches a guy she is interested in or even makes the first move. I'm not saying do all the work, but just make the first move. Be the one that...

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SolidusSnake

Is a girl who doesn't flirts with all the other guys in the room and is quiet around you shy or disinterested?

I'm a really funny guy, and in class everyone always laughs at all my jokes. There's this one girls who seems to flirt and talk normally with every guy in the room except for me, and makes a point of flirting with them....

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Anonymous

Why do some girls feel the need to play games?

Before I start i just want to say, I'm well aware that not all girls play games, and many guys are guilty of it too. The reason Im asking is my ex and I broke up around 6 weeks ago, she said she needed time... anyway 3...

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Anonymous

Why do us guys always have to initiate everything with girls? Why is it still up to the guy to initiate?

In the dating and relationship scene, why does the pressure still fall onto the guy to initiate everything? We have to make the first move, we have to flirt first and start the conversation, keep the conversation alive,...

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Eric644

Guys, do you actually feel good when you reject a girl, especially one that rejected you. Girls, have you ever changed your mind and the guyrejectedu?

Ok, so there was a girl that i chatted up at a bar she worked there, when i finally asked her out she was mean and said "no fucking way" and left. Fast forward a few weeks, I went back to the same bar with some freinds...

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Anonymous

GUYS, GIRLS PLEASE HELP?

Ugh... I don't even know how to start -_- (please read it all, I know people like to skip sentences :D) Okay sooo.. guy meets girl and girl meets guy typical story. I'll keep it as short as I can. We have same classes...

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Anonymous

Why oh why do guys never initiate or approach?

I hate this! Why do I always have to initiate and talk to guys first? Never ever has it been a guy who starts talking to me first! Always me... I hate it! :( I feel like sad because guys should learn to talk to girls and...

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Anonymous

How do girls feel about initiating a relationship?

As a guy, I have no idea what girls are thinking. That being said I never understand why girls wait for guys to make that first big move. A few of my old girlfriends were rather aggressive in our "courting" but they never...

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Plzhelp26

(GIRLS ANSWER S WANTED) WHAT DOES IT MEAN IF A GIRL TELLS YOU “if it happens it happens if not then” WHATS THAT SUPPOSED TO MEAN?

So I after our first date which I feel went very well I asked her if she thought we had potential to be more than friends and she said “if it happens it happens if not then” (wtf is that supposed to mean?) anyway i took...

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Anonymous

Guys: advise on getting more nerve to start flirting/ asking girls out?

Just trying to overcome the reflex of "oh fuck it. I'm too nervous." That comes up when I want to approach an attractive girl (who I haven't met before) and start flirting. I want to overcome it even just a few times so I...

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Anonymous

Girls, have you ever approached a guy before? asked a guy out before? and it turned out great, good

Have you ever approached a guy before and asked him out and it turned out to be great, good, successful? Because most girls are old-fashioned and feel it is the guys job to do the pursuing, chasing, initiating, etc. But...

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