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On my birthday my boyfriend was visiting his mother, I was fine with it, and he met me on the weekends, he gave me a bottle of wine said it's very expensive, it's mine now, I can decide however I want, bring home to share with friends or drink here, I said let me leave it in your of your place first, I will take it away. That night there was no birthday cake or birthday meal, the other morning I left and forget to bring the wine. After that he didn't mention the wine anymore. One week later he visit his best friend birthday, took three hours train and bought him a perfume. I said great, he said it's not price but the gesture and heart that he put in, I asked him but why U don't remind me to bring my birthday gift for so long, I think U just don't care about my birthday and when U bought the wine U also did not really put that much heart inside. He said I should appreciate it, because I just got a Dior lipstick on velentise day, I shouldn't complain or compare too much, why can't we just have nice meals and I should appreciate that he invited me meals everytime. But I also cook for him many times and bring fruits and honey and junger everytime he got ill, I never ask him to appreciate me. Should I break up with him?

PROs
- He protects me
- He never shouted at me (I'm the one that shouts and sometimes he talks back but never shouting)
- He was never ever aggressive towards me never hit me and stuff
- He remembers birthdays anniversaries and so on
- He respects my family
- He always tells me where he goes and with who, sometimes he even asks me if he can
- He cares what I think when it comes to decision making
- He cooks when i'm tired and also cleans (not all the time though)
- He surprises me for Vday and Bday
- he tells me he loves me and that he is in love with me
- he kisses me in front of the whole world
- He lets people know that i'm his woman
- He never cheated on me and he lets me use his phone
- He works hard and provides for us. (we both work but he has a higher income and always makes sure that I have everything).
CONs
- He hangs out with his friends and in some cases he even gives them priority (I get pissed and let him know)
- He loves to drink, but he never lost control he actually gets happy, and he does not drink at home unless we have a date night with a glass of wine ( i constantly remind him and even tell him that he is becoming an alcoholic but i know for a fact that he is not becoming one because he always drinks in the evenings never in the morning).
- Sometimes like at least once a month he comes late at home, like 3 -4 am in the morning (I HATE IT) but he always prooves to me where he was and with whom.
- Sex became a one in every 1.5 / 2 weeks thing (we both work a lot especially him + saturdays BUT STILL) he also expects ME TO START IT ugh
- He sometimes hides bad news from me
- Sometimes he just doesn't seem to understand or listen to me
- Sometimes he is narcissistic
- He sleeps A LOT, especially on weekends
- He rarely organizes something for us, it's always me that does it
- In the morning is he is EXTRA GRUMPY and he doesn't talk at all, he even is pissed at times