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This guy friend of mine cuddled with me the other night. We are not close friends by any means. We were at a party and I got pretty drunk and he was buzzed. He had like 3 beers. the whole night, he kept asking me if I was okay (because I drank a lot). He would come up to me and put his arm around me and hold my shoulder and ask if I was good. He did this at least 5 or 6 times. He also followed me to the kitchen and I picked up a glass of water and he was like is this just water, and he made sure it was and was like okay. He was also teasing me He also does that when we're sober. He also sat next to me a few times. He sat next to me again and we ended up cuddling. I can't remember who initiated the cuddle, but we did. I had my head on his shoulder and my arm on his chest. I was pressed against him and he had his arm around my shoulders and arm, kind of holding me. I don't remember how long we stayed like this but it was at least 5 or 10 min. But it felt like forever. He eventually got up because he had to pee. Anyway, during our cuddle, we were on the couch with other people in the room and someone asked him if he was good. And he said 'yeah just drinking my beer' and then looked down at me and was like 'you good?' And I said I was great. And we continued to cuddle. So I don't know if it meant anything to him because he was tipsy or if he just went along with it if I initiated the cuddling. He was the one to sit beside me during the night.. would a guy continue to cuddle with a girl he didn't like? Wouldn't he try his best to avoid it and would he just get up right away if he didn't want to cuddle? I don't know if it matters but he is planning on staying a virgin till he is married. I think I really came on to him that night. I kind of made a comment that hinted toward dating him lol. I'm also gonna see him tomorrow so I don't know if I should talk about that night or pretend it didn't happen haha. thank You
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and we cuddled like in the bottom middle pic

So my roommate’s bf’s best friend is super attractive and checks off a lot of my boxes personality & life desires wise. I very much want to pursue something with him, but I’m super nervous since I’m in my mid/late 20s & have only ever had 1 boyfriend (who I dated off & on for a few months at a time for a few years, v toxic), he’s 1.5 years younger than me & has only ever had 1 girlfriend (only dated her for a couple months), & we’re also in a friend group together. I have more hookup experience than him, but I don’t really have a lot of dating experience, especially not healthy dating experience. The few times I have dated in the past, I’ve been told that I’m too clingy or move too fast to be serious bc I’m very touchy when I like someone. My love language is physical touch & sex is how I express a lot of affection, & sex early on doesn’t mean I’m not trying to be serious, it means I’m interested in you. If I can’t express myself in that way, then we’re not compatible.

He invited me over to his place the other night to watch some tv, & I went over & we drank some wine. I was holding his hand, put my head on his shoulder, cuddled up next to him, etc. I was expecting him to make the next move if he was interested in doing so. I’m very nervous about making all the physical moves bc I’ve been told in the past that I’m too cuddly & too physical. Well, he has even less experience than me & I don’t think he really knows how or when to move it to the next level. Long story short, I ended up leaving the other night without so much as a kiss from him, despite me being very cuddly. He seemed receptive to me touching him and when I even asked if I was doing too much he told me no, he just didn’t make a move to move things forward.

Is he uninterested & just wanting the attention? Or does it seem like he’s nervous too?