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Anonymous

Regarding these constant pity-parties as well as those of you responding...(featuring one little question)

If I could write an article anonymously I would've done it that way, but since I can't do that, I'm posting this here. To those throwing pity-parties: Trust me, I get it. I'm in my early 20's and I've gotten VERY little...

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Anonymous

Is he going out with me out of pity?

I told my good guy friend that that I think he would make a good boyfriend. He gave me reasons why he wouldn’t be, like how he is so childish and stuff. And said that he thinks I wouldn’t date with him. But I like him...

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99percentangel

Why is pity a bad thing?

When people say "I don't need your pity" or "I don't want your pity" I don't get why people say that! Heck I love pity! Pity means someone is trying to understand what you're going through, that they sympathize.

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Anonymous

A pity date or a legit thing?

I recently met this girl in my school. She is 2 years older than I am. We clicked quite well and hanged out a couple of times alone. I quickly realized that I want to be more than friends. After hanging out for about 4...

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Anonymous

Why do people attack others who convey self-pity?

Seriously what's wrong with people. If they're not going help the person, then why not just ignore them and move with their life. Yet, some people feel entitled to attack the person and make them feel worse. They justify...

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aliba

Pity party ideas?

me and my friend are having mucho guy trouble. i.e. her crush is a d*ck pure and simple i.e. I spent all night on the phone with my boyfriend, both crying our eyes out because I broke up with him. ( didn't want to, I...

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Anonymous

Have you ever confused love with pity?

I broke up with my boyfriend/fiance 3 months ago. We were living together. Things didn't work out because we had a lot of issues and our priorities start to be different over the years. We had decided to be friends but I...

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Anonymous

Do guys try to het pity sex a lot?

I told my boyfriend about how I was waiting to have sex until I was in love. He said that he was cool with that and we didn't talk about it again. Month and a half later we're making out and I ask him to stop, as usually,...

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Anonymous

Does he actually want to go on a date or does he just want to pity date me? Which sounds more likely?

In the shortest form possible. I meet guy at college. Guys shows a lot of interest. I don't show much interest. This happens for months. I realize I like guy. Guy pulls away because he feels too attached to me and...

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Anonymous

Guys, Is he crushing on me, or pitying me?

The guy I like is always nice to me. He always makes time to talk to me, and pays attention to me more than others. He seems very genuinely interested In me though. He always smiles genuinely, looks at me with warm eyes,...

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Anonymous

Okay but why are some guys always fishing for pity?

"I'm 25 and I never had sex, am I not such a loser?" or "I'm 20 and a never kissed, I want to kill myself" or even "I'll never get laid because I'm ugly, broke and only girls who are ugly want me"... Like, ugh, I'm so...

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Anonymous

It isn't going to plan like it should have?

SO let me throw this out there, when I was 17 and about to graduate high school my father died of cancer, on my prom night, and I had to leave the dance and my date there to see him before he passed. after that she...

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Anonymous

Whats going on? Jealousy or truth?

So I couldn't trust my boyfriend anymore so I broke up with him. I said I would go back out with him if he earned my trust back. He said he would do anything to get my trust back and as soon as it was he would ask me out...

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Ana-Beth

I'm broken, but I want to show him I'm going to be fine, how can I do that?

So, recently, like as in a few hours ago my boyfriend broke up with me. I cried and cried and begged and called and called him, but he said no, he's never cried over a girl before and he wasn't going to give me a second...

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Anonymous

Going to a party, girl who rejected me will be there?

And she's one of those where it always seems so close, yet so far. She had a boyfriend when I met her. She was so excited when she first met me and I know that if she had been single, she would've wanted me. But since...

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Anonymous

Going out alone, can you do it? How do you do it?

My friends are just too boring, I ask them to go out with me and it takes days for them to plan it... With their bfs they go out religiosly There is a Film Festival going on in My city and I wanted someone to go with...

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DabieberRoyalty

I'm not going to date you just Because you're Nice. What more do you have to offer?

I don't owe you anything for being nice. If you are a nice guy then good for you but if I feel that you're not compatible with me then Im not going to play games with you and pity date you. It's honestly that simple. You...

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Anonymous

Was it more of a pity kiss...?

Ok so me and this guy kiss every time we are together but I'm off at school and so we hardly get to see each other. We used to talk all the time but I really wasn't sure what he really thought of me because I thought he...

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Anonymous

How can I not be intimidated when going on a date with a beautiful woman?

If I'm on a date with a beautiful woman, or even with a plain-looking girl I really like, I tend to get really nervous. I lose my confidence and either force conversation/jokes or get really quiet and end up not saying...

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Anonymous

Did this guy just give me his # out of pity or something?

We always chat whenever we meet and have exchanged emails before, but we aren't very close friends. I think he's a nice guy and people like him, always see him talking to someone, both guys and girls. He once mentioned we...

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Anonymous

What should I do if I'm just a pity date?

So I asked this girl to homecoming and she said yes, but we are only going as friends because she can't date. The bad thing was that a few days after I asked, I found out she only said yes because she felt bad. What...

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aaaalright

Don't know whats going on here?

I was dating this girl and she told me earlier last week she didn't want to date anymore and that she wanted to be friends. She kept calling and texting me a lot and we still talked and held hands after she said she...

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Anonymous

Had a coworker that I like over to my house... shit happened... then this happened... whats going on?

Had a coworker I liked over. We sit together almost all the time. It started out we'd watch each other through a distance. My other coworkers that I hung with started hanging with him and eventually we got to be...

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misssouthernbelle

I suspected he was mentally ill early on, but kept going... he makes me feel like I'm crazy?

When I pointed out his projection early on, he told me he had Asperger's. Yet, when I mention his Asperger's he gets really defensive, almost pissed at the notion he isn't perfect. He joked when I told him he had...

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Anonymous

Young Girls, am I going to have to wait on dating until I'm a lot older?

I was recently diagnosed with a condition of the scalp which causes me to lose hair diffusely,  my only option is to shave it bald, skinhead bald like pitbull. Now this is a huge blow to me because I'm only 19 and I've...

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Anonymous

Why do I feel like I'm going to be alone forever?

I've always felt that I am not worthy of the kind of men I feel attracted to, that somehow I should settle for someone less attractive, but since I can't bring myself to do that I wallow in self pity and loneliness. I...

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Anonymous

Do you think she's interested in me or she feels pity for me? Kind of a long story please read?

I work at walmart as a maintenence. A few days ago, I was called up to the front to mop a spill behind a cash register. I was mopping it up and this girl who works as a cashier came out of nowhere from behind. She asked...

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Anonymous

Ex-bf only communicating with me out of pity?

Long story short - Broke up so to speak a few weeks back. We got into stupid yelling match over the phone where I hung up in anger/stress as had just been diagnosed with a disease that will require multiple surgiers...

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Anonymous

Like my FWB? Am I a side chick? What is going on here?

I have a friend (for the sake of the this story we'll call him Joe). Well Joe and I have been friends for a little over a month. Joe is a lot like my ex and I have a huge crush on him. Well, one problem, he has a...

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Anonymous

I’m going through terrible menstrual pain and it’s keeping me from studying. What should I do?

I got my period this morning, and besides the sigh of relief that I’m not pregnant, it also brought me an excruciating amount of pain. I literally feel like my uterus is committing suicide, it has never been like this...

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Anonymous

Did he just say yes to prom out of pity?

I asked my crush to prom and i know that he used to like me a couple months ago. I was just to shy to do anything about it. but he said yes but that he can't do anything fancy because it's to expensive. I asked him his...

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Anonymous

So women ever realize they are going to hit the wall?

Not speaking about all girls but I've seen the majority act as if their beauty and sexual market value will always be the same, instead of using it to find a good man worth spending the rest of your life with and work for...

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Anonymous

Have you ever been invited somewhere out of pity?

I was invited to a co-workers sons birthday party. Only because I was working side by side with the mom. When I showed up to the party, she told me that she didn't actually think I was going to come over. The rest of the...

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Tenellex

Do you pity people miserable people with low esteem?

Personally I do. I don't know what it's like to feel down or bad about myself, I've always been confident and happy. I do think miserable people are jaded and it must suck going through life hating yourself. I avoid toxic...

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Anonymous

Do you think he accepted out of pity?

I’ve been seeing this guy for three months. I feel like I’ve been fueling the momentum lately and am just a little confused. We had a date on Monday and he texted me that it was fun and thanked me for asking about some...

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Jaybird19

Am I ever going to find someone who'll love me for who I am?

I feel like nobody ever notices me and when they do it's either bullies or people who constantly pity me for my hard life growing up and I hate both types of people...

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Hispanic-Cool-Guy

Why I Pity Many Christians.

Introduction: This Mytake is primarily for Christians and it isn't to shame My fellow Christians, but rather to exposed what I have witness during My time as a Christian and overall in the Christian Church and it's...

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jcampbell115

Dealing with a Breakup: Self-Pity or Self-Growth?

Hello, I figured I'd take a moment to write up a quick myTake on some of my ideas for how to effectively deal with a breakup. Obviously these may differ from person to person, but when I am upset, I have found them to...

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Anonymous

Did I make a mistake?

So this girl I really like is currently stuck between 3 guys. An ex she met in September, a friend of the ex, and me. We've known each other for almost a year now, and have admitted to having feelings for each other. We...

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Anonymous

She ditched halfway through our date last night and never came back, still feeling pretty miserable even today. Anyone have any thoughts or advice?

Hi everyone, So was on a date last night and all was going pretty well, after we finished eating she needed to go to an ATM to get cash (as you could only pay by card) and I stayed to wait for her. Time kept passing, 10...

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