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Cliff notes:
-Met a girl online 2 months ago. We hit it off amazing
-Later on into our "Dating", her severe depression starts acting up, causing her to react extremely strange to little stuff
-She told me she wants to stay single for awhile untill she feels she's stable. She is currently taking meds and getting professional help
-We hung out again recently, and i made a joke about her kissing me. Later that day she tells me she feels uncomfortable and awkward with hanging with me because of my feelings, because "she wants to stay single and not develop feelings right now"

HOWEVER
-Whenever i talk to her about something, that suggests me and her dating, she doesn't reject me or say anything. For example:
"Does it bother you I dont have tattoos? i know you like guys with tattoos"
"Well dont worry about them, you got me now"
"I just want you to know ill wait on you till you're ready, unless you tell me to move on"

Again, she either changes topic, or doesn't reply when i say the above. So basically she doesn't reject me, but doesn't flirt back either.

I would like opinions on what to do. Thank you

This is more of a discussion then it is a question.

I was thinking the other day. My friends and I were at a party and there’s this short (5’2), fat, red head and triple chinned. While she was nice and available, none of the guys really paid attention to her. Although boring and nice, we all talked about this later about how we felt while talking to her: “Man I just kept thinking “god I wanted to just walk away right now.”” And the general attitude was the same.

So she got rejected by her looks regardless of her personality. Now put the same personality into a hot girls body, we’d all be “wow, she is so cool, down to earth and nice.”

Big deal right? We all have seen this.

Well I was thinking about how guys get rejected. You hear girls say this all the time, “wow he’s hot but he’s such a douche / wimp.” And *whoosh, he’s rejected based on his personality. Certainly a guy’s looks plays a role but his attitude, demeanor and personality is what really makes the panties fly off.

So I was thinking to myself… who’s has the tougher cards: women getting rejected by their physical features or men rejected by their personalities?

To get more dates, women can basically have an average personality and just work on their bodies. I think its pretty straight forward, want more dates? Work on your fitness and the men will come storming around you. To gauge how much progress or how much more you need to go is a mirror away. For men it’s a little blurry.

A man, as long as he’s in the ball park, can work on his personality to be funny, charming and the billion of other things girls like as far as personality goes. But you can’t pick up confidence and measure it with a ruler nor can you measure how funny you are… Also being a male, our guy friends don’t sit around and talk about one another’s strengths and weaknesses. Maybe if the guy has female friends and he’ll ask her “hey, am I datable?” However… we’ll feel like a total dipshít afterwords.

Men reject based on the superficial level while female reject by the substance of the male. I’d say that the personality reject hurts more.

My vote is that it’s harder for males to tune themselves to get more dates.

Focus: who’s has the tougher cards: women getting rejected by their physical features or men rejected by their personalities?

2nd focus: which hurts more: Rejection by personality or physical features?