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Today ,I was eating sour jujubes on the bus and then I thought about offering some to the person sitting beside.

I didn't want the dude to think I was a weirdo so I didn't bother :(

We're really good friends but I'm the only girl he shares with like this. He offers me any food he has, has made food and brought it to school to give me, spoon/fork feeds me and has even put candy right in my mouth. Is that how most guy/girl friends act? It seems really intimate to me. He also hangs out with me at school any time he can and knows where I am all day.

I started a new high school for my senior year and I'm a introverted person, I don't talk much, unless you come up to me, I'm friendly nonetheless, I like talking to people. In the beginning of the year, I never expected to I guess to have any interest in someone. I had this on class with this guy and over the course of the school year we had exchanged looks, waves, and smiles (deliberately trying to see each other in the hallways), shared candy together and he has tried to make small talk, (I complimented his drawing, talked about his favorite show, not much more than that, because I was too scared to I guess go up and talk to him more.
I get nervous and tongue-tied around him to the point of where I feel nauseous. I have tried my way of I guess showing that I do have an interest in him, offered candy, sneaking looks at him, smiling, I attempted once to sit by him and He moved closer to sit by me, and after the first semester, our classes got switched so I only see him in the hallway when I went to my 2nd period, sometimes my 3rd period and maybe at lunch, so this semester we don't get to see each other much and we sort of smile at each other, but lately not as much. We just have this intense eye contact and now I started to get the feeling he had lost interest in me, since he's smiling a little less and I got to thinking maybe I was reading into this the whole time and that he's just a friendly guy. Perhaps all this time I was overthinking it.
Now as I think back, there were so many opportunities to make a move, but I let my anxiety, and shyness get in the way, I realize sometimes when I would walk past him, I wouldn't make eye contact, cause inside my stomach is turning flips and I'm like "oh crap, he's here.. act natural" I would tell myself I would go up and talk to him then chicken out once I seen him.
So the story is today, everything just felt different. School ended and I was walking home and I know him and his friend (the was girl there too) saw me.

Junior year he would come up behind me every day and throw himself on me until I said he was crushing me. That was last year and now my feelings for him are so strong I would love to hug him at school since it's okay to hug but not kiss.

He refused a hug once and that hurt me and I told him never again. About a week ago we had a long tight hug and he rubbed his cheek on mine while holding me close. I really wanted to kiss him!

Yesterday he hugged a guy friend right in front of me and I asked him why I have to beg for hugs. He said he wasn't sure I liked hugs! I said always!

Today we were at a party and he only danced with me. I drove him home but was too nervous to say anything serious about us.

He took pics of us at the party with his phone and randomly puts the phone in my face to take a pic. He cooks food for me and brings it in just for me and him and sometimes feeds me with a spoon or puts candy right in my mouth with his fingers.

From stuff I've read on here, he seems to be painfully shy. He's told me he's an open book to me and he's told me tons of personal stuff and vice versa.

I really want the physical contact with him since as friends that's the only acceptable thing to do. How do I get him to offer hugs or not refuse mine? I don't want to seem clingy or needy.

I know he likes contact with me. We're always sitting close, brushing hands or fingers or playing footsie under the table. We block each other's way a lot so we have a reason to brush past each other and put our hands on each other.

He finds me all the time at school just to hang out. We talk or just sit and make eyes at each other quietly. I've heard that he's had a least three people drive him past my house and he's threatened to ring my doorbell if he's jogging by (he lives four streets away).

Did he stop hugging me because he has feelings for me too and knows the tension between us is making things awkward? The last hug felt like it was leading somewhere else.

I find it immature that some guys think eating a lollipop in public is gross or suggestive to a certain sexual act.

Anyway... I would offer my friends candy (I have a shit ton, and no it's not creepy unless I'm a middle aged man/woman) and most of the guys would normally ignore the lollipops.-.

One or two of my guy friends would take a Blow POP (pls don't misread) but I never see them eat it right away -unlike when they're given skittles.

but yeah I was just wondering what your opinion is bout this.

So this month on the 20th, it will be mine and my boyfriends 6 months together. Our relationship is fairly good. We get along great and laugh together a lot. Always have a good time when we're together. Yesterday was Valentines day and i got him a long sleeve t and socks from this brand he likes, a cartridge for his stiiizy, a custom keychain with our picture and our song on it, a collectible funkoPop, Cologne and lotion from bath and body works, i also got him Chocolate, little star wars candy collectables and snacks at the bottom and A sentimental card. He got me 6 LovePop pop-up cards. Unopened still in the plastic. He didn't write in any of them, sign them, or address them to me either. And that's it. No flowers, no chocolate, i was miserable and we went to his bowling game afterwards from 6-9pm and went home and went to bed. I'm heartbroken over this. I feel so unspecial, i feel unappreciated and just like sad. I do a lot for him and i expected a lot more. At least a sentimental card and flowers. He didn't offer to do our own separate day. Should i leave him? Is this something that normal people work past? I just think its common sense especially in a new relationship. Help.