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Hanging out with couples when you're single can be very weird. Couples on the one hand are very happy and overly affectionate but on the other hand are very nosy and pushy. They are just so Happy not to be alone anymore that they want to show off their happiness and at the same time rub it in our single faces. The weird part comes after they calm down their sexual high. Suddenly you become this stray animal to them. They start looking at you with these weird eyes while trying to figure out why someone abandoned you. Then they proceed in a mission to find you a "home" that makes sense for them. When we really just need time to adjust to our new surroundings. We need stability not dependence.

A Single person to a Couple, who's just come down from the 3 to 6 month sex high, is a symbol of lost freedom and independence. A single person can come and go as they please. They don't have to compare schedules or check in all the time with someone who up until a few months ago were a complete stranger. Maybe best of all is the time to enjoy some peace and quiet to yourself without hurting someone's feelings by asking to be alone for a bit. I mean you love your partner but everyone needs a few hours to themselves to do nothing, to worry about nothing. Single people are a constant reminder of the cost of companionship, but only you can decide it's worth it.

So with all that in mind, Should Couples be allowed to hang out with Single People?

Well this girl at the gym tried a bit too hard to hit on me by doing a lot of stretches in front of me (for at least 5 -10 mins) and then making it look like an accident when she came in my way at the exact time i got off my bench to adjust it, and we exchanged a smile when i said sorry and all she did was show how happy she got by just smiling at me and not saying anything. i didn't talk to her was not sure if she was really interested and then her friend told me later that she was into me and trying to hit on me. Then few days after she was doing a workout a little distance from me but seemed to have a stressed out, annoyed/angry impression on her face. So I thought she didn't want to talk to anyone and that's why I just avoided looking at her to give her space. But then she took that personally (as her friend told me) and started avoiding me (looking away whenever we made eye contact). She's been doing this ever since. Freaks out whenever we make eye contact and hurriedly turns her head away. So then I came across her Facebook profile as this friend of hers is a mutual friend in addition to another and she came up as a friends suggestion too. So I added her. But then she not only declined also blocked me from further requests (I had already requested her before that like more than a year ago). I don't want to make her uncomfortable or upset anymore now. So when I run into her in the gym should I just ignore her completely?