Search Results: What advice would we give to this “nice guy”
Why does the nice guy always get screwed over?
Just about every relationship I have been in, I have been screwed over, and even friendships. I compliment girls all the time on how good they look, how nice they are and so on. I listen to them when they have a problem,...
Not having sex on the first date...want to be chivalrous...but not labeled a "nice guy"?
I recently went on a first date with a girl I met on POF. As for first impressions she was near perfect. Smart, going to law school, well dressed, funny, sexy. She turned out to be WAY prettier than she looked in her...
Public service anouncement for the "nice guy" syndrome going around!
Hey there guys and gals of GAG... I have been reading quite some questions and takes about this confusing "Nice guy" problem. So I will attempt to try my best to help some of these guys, if I can, from wasting their time...
Dear Mr Nice Guy! 🎩
Dear Mr Nice Guy, Look at you. Trying to fit it, when you already know you broke the mould. It all started with a feeling, didn’t it? That’s what turned you cold. Once upon a time, you respected yourself. You had...
I met a super nice guy on a hinge; We are on our second date on Saturday; any advice?
Did I get lucky on the hinge suddenly? Ok, I met this man online about two weeks ago; we chatted via hinge for about five days before he asked me out for dinner; we went for dinner and drinks, and overall he is quite...
Women, if you could give “nice guys” one piece of advice for becoming more attractive, what would that be?
For guys who aren’t total douches and have good qualities but maybe come off as “too nice” or do things that make you think of them as a friend only. How can they step up the attractive factor?
A quick and simple guide on how not to be the "nice guy"
All these whiny posts about the ways "good guys" differentiate themselves from "nice guys" make me want to puke. So rather than giving you folks another social science explanation for why everyone can be an alpha, and how...
Why Nice Guys Struggle With Women And How Bad Advice From Women Encourages Nice Guy Behaviour
A few people have been talking about the "bad boy" vs "nice guy" thing recently, and I've seen many guys asking how to become more confident in approaching women, so I thought I'd write a quick take on it (maybe it will...
Guest Feature: Expert April Masini Explains Why Nice Guys Finish Last
Brief intro from GirlsAskGuys Team: We welcome noted relationship and etiquette expert April Masini ; she began her career as a relationship advice columnist in 2003 and has been featured in The Los Angeles Times, US...
Stop Being Mr. Nice Guy and Learn to be Attractive
Why do women choose bad boys over nice guys? It took me years to figure this out. I spent a lot of time being shy, lonely, angry and confused. I was definitely a "nice guy" but I was also single and jaded. Pay...
Why The "Bad Boy" Gets More Women Than The "Nice Guy"
So a few days ago I was procrastinating my studies in order to look at the /r/niceguys page on Reddit. I was scrolling through the all time feed and laughing my ass off at all the self proclaimed "nice guys." About 5...
Genuine Guy vs. Nice Guy: Ladies, Try and Tell Me I'm Wrong
5 minute read Guys, you're all doing this to yourselves. In fact I almost put this in the Guy's Behavior section instead of the dating section. Guys, despite how this article may sound to some of you I am on your side....
Where Men AND Women Are Going Wrong About The Whole 'Nice Guy' Thing
Most of us have heard the typical feminist narrative on the internet phenomena 'nice guy': - he's not that nice - he's only pretending to be nice to get into your knickers - he isn't assertive - he isn't attractive - he...
A Closer Look at the "Nice Guy/Girl" in its Natural Habitat: How These Delusional People Get Their Title
I know I'm basically ripping off @ChronicThinker at this point but I just want to add myTake on this... See what I...? Nevermind. This is not to take the piss out of anyone, but I will be very happy if it does regardless....
A word to the nice guys, from a former nice guy
Before actually delivering my message to the nice guys, I would like to clarify exactly who I am referring to, so that my target audience can understand my message better. Here are two categories the nice guys fall under....
Mr. Nice Guy Who Is Just Friends With You
It is true. You've already checked the signs; he sends you random funny texts, he always seems happy when you're around, he remembers all of those little things, and he demonstrates that chivalry is not dead. He likes...
The History of the Nice Guy, Bad Boys & Jerks
I want to start off this article noting a couple of things. First, this article is for guys. Second, this article is for guys, free of any subtle or not-so-subtle messages disguised as advice, with any sort of agenda...
Conflicting Understandings of the Notion that Nice Guys Finish Last
A very common question on this forum focuses on the statement "nice guys finish last". There are also questions around the related issue that I paraphrase as "jerks finish first". What surprises me the most about these...
What Women REALLY Want? Cutting trough the nice guy, alpha male, "confidence" bullshit... (Part 1)
I wish I could do a male version of this, but as it is, I only have insight into the brains of my fellow women. So let's begin now, shall we? ^^ You all heard unclear, misleading ideas men toss around like that...
Is this coworker of mine is just being super nice or does he likes me?
I have been working together in the same team for almost two years with this male coworker. He is a very helpful and nice guy. So there's a few incidents which make me feel like he's interested in me but I'm not sure...
