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Hi, does anyone know if you can see when someone has "read" your inmail message on linkedin? or you can't? I messaged someone a month and a half ago but it only says awaiting response. does not say if they saw it or read it. Can they still read it without you knowing? there could be a chance that they haven't been on it. i was paying $30 dollars a month premium just to message a person, so i finally cancelled it today. its been so long and not sure if they will respond back. its expensive and not worth it. i also added this person to my connections we saw each other and worked for abit at the same company and store. i wish you can still message people for free without paying for it and being premium. i hope they aren't ignoring me. maybe the person wasn't under premium:job seeker like i was. so now that i cancelled it can they still message me back? does it affect your current inmail? thanks to everyone who answers.

This goes along with my other question about being able to tell if someone finds you attractive

Last night I went to a club with my friend and there were a bunch of guys who tried to dance with me (I only dance with girls) and they just didn't seem to get it, like all the other guys. I was polite to one who wanted to dance with my friend, but he kept talking and breathing in my face, but didn't get that I was gagging on his breath. When I intentionally ignored him to dance to a Panic At The Disco song, he kept trying to interrupt me, so I had to tell him off. I just wanted to go out dancing with my friend, not breath alcohol breath. Another guy kept trying to talk to me even though I turned my back on him (his friend kept invading my space and got kicked out). Every weekend there's at least one guy like that who just doesn't understand that ignoring them is the easiest way to say you're not interested

Can you tell if someone is intentionally ignoring you because they're not interested?

I know most of you will say you dont believe in leagues but we’re going to discuss it anyways. If i’m being 100% honest, if i feel someones out of my league, its likely because i dont see myself working to get to their level. For example, if i got all dolled up and Brad Pitt took me on a date, I’d end it with “I had a great time but you're so out of my league.” I say that because 99% of the time, I’m going to be dressed in sweats and walking around with that “i just woke up” bed hair 😂 I’m not willing to make the efforts to get on his level in the long run, so I may as well say he’s out of my league, send him on his way, and save him from my lack of efforts since I’m not willing to change. Now lets say, he likes me for the tomboy i am. Its happened before. But i dont fully trust they’ll stay happy. I liked this guy Robbie in college. He was 9/10 gorgeous. Dude looked like a model but he liked plain jane ole ME. However, I overheard comments he made to other guys about how cute he found the girls covered in makeup and wearing dresses. It was clear that my lack of efforts to appear more feminine would mean that I’d never truly be enough for him. So why waste my time if i refuse to be that girly girl that he would find MORE attractive in the long run. So i quit pursuing him 🤷‍♀️ I had an ex who told me “youre too much” and literally followed up with the fact that he didn't want to get a job and do his part in the relationship. He said he wanted to let his parents take care of him as long as possible so that he could sit around and play games all day. See he wanted me to stay but that warning was a way to save me from himself. I say take it with a grain of salt and see the statement as a compliment rather than just someone being insecure.
#FeelFreeToList #OutOfMyLeague

OK, so what if you meet someone and they have different morals than you do? Then you fall in love, do you continue to date them or not? Why?

What happens if they like to steal?

Or smuggle drugs and sell them?

Or do a lot of different illegal drugs?

Or they don't take care of themselves (bad teeth, bad odor, bad clothes)

Or they talk a lot of bad things (like curse a lot and swear words?)

Or they are like a whore or prostitute type life? Or they like to do bad things with sex?

Or anything that might be immoral to you? What happens if they do bad and mean things to other people (egg people's house, tire slashing, stealing people's dogs or cats and killing them etc)

You know what I mean, what happens if their morals are different from yours? Will you still be in a relationship with them because you love them? Or NO, and why?

What happens if they want you to approve of their bad behaviors? What happens if they want you to also do it with them? Will you go ahead and approve, or do it with them? Will you still date them if they did not stop? Will you date them if they do stop? What do you think?

By the way I'm with a guy whom is a great guy, but he does some immoral things I don't like. He says what he does is not wrong, and that I should do it with him some times. He did these bad things with his ex, and I totally disapprove. I'm so afraid that he'd do it again and what happens if he gets caught and go to jail. He could get a federal offense like my friend did! And what happens if he makes it seems like I did it? If I get caught with the stuff he does, I could go to jail! Am I naive to be thinking this or worrying for nothing? What do you think? Should you worry if you were with someone who's immoral more than yourself? Help! Thanks!