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I don't really like pants most of the time as I live in a hot climate, but when the weather gets cold enough I don't mind wearing pants.

One of my friends though literally NEVER wears pants. She's always in short shorts, or some type of short skirt or dress. Always bare legs basically. The other day I was like, "It's really, really cold today... ya sure you don't wanna put on some pants?" And she flinched and got visually startled, almost jumping back, at the mere suggestion of pants... wow.

I asked her why, and at first she said she'd rather not talk about it, but later on she said that though she barely gets cold on her legs, her mom used to punish her as a kid by making her wear jeans at the beach when she was bad. And since she was so used to being in a bathing suit at the beach, this was incredibly suffocating for her, almost like a prison of some sort. So she basically associates pants with that trauma.

But I'm wondering how common it is for girls to hate pants like this... not for the EXACT same reason as her, obviously, as that's an odd case... but in general, is it common or relatively common for a girl to DESPISE pants like this?

As a girl most of my friends are female, but I feel this'd be an odd topic to bring up, so I'm asking here.

Alright, quick breakdown. I'm currently with a guy and things seem to be going great. We are so alike in so many ways and the chemistry is phenomenal. Seeing as we both have busy full time Mon-Fri jobs we don't see each other during the week, but we spend every weekend together, ALL weekend.

How we met? He liked my picture on Facebook. Yes. A picture from a few months back - I clicked on his profile and saw he was cute sand had a lot in common so I added him (not something I usually do). We ended up hitting it off and have been inseparable ever since. Oh - by the way, I was dating another guy at the time and ended up leaving him for this one.

Anyways - we talk ALL day every day... and I mean we don't even go 30 seconds without responding to each other, so I know I have his full attention all day. Not a doubt in my mind he genuinely likes me, as we both show obvious interest.

But one thing does bother me, I always see him like other girls' pictures on Instagram, but never mine? I even posted a picture WITH him on the weekend and he hasn't even liked that. But I see that he will like other girl's selfies and what not and it somewhat bothers me. Im 21 and he's 25.

PS - we aren't "officially dating" yet... kind of in the awkward "we're together but not official" stage. He's told me before he doesn't mind me posting pictures with him because "he has nothing to hide", so then why can you like other girls IG posts but not mine? Besides, I can openly admit I'm a pretty girl... not like he has any reason to hide me.

Guys, does this mean anything? Am I overreacting? I think it just freaks me out a bit because the reason WE met is due to him liking my picture. I just took it upon myself to add him to see who he was, and it flourished. Since liking MY picture worked, what if he's doing it to try and get other girl's attention too?

And ladies, do you care if your boyfriend likes pictures of another girl? Selfies, most specifically.

Thanks!