Search Results: What to text the guy that cheated on me

Guys, HE CHEATED AND NOW HE WANTS TO BE FRIENDS?

We dated for almost 2 years, I met his parents and we both knew we wanted to marry each other. He met a girl who wanted to hang out and she threw herself at him, eventhough he declined he eventually gave in. He hardly...

IntoTheVoid69

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Relationships

Girlfriend still friends with guy she cheated on me with?

Earlier this year I suspected my girlfriend was cheating. From what she told me bout the guy, how she acted, and what she did, I told her she was cheating but she kept denying. One day out of the blue she breaks up with...

A-Vengeance

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Dating

Is texting another guy/girl considered cheating?

I have a boyfriend and I also have a best guy friend we stay up late texting each other but nothing romantic or anything like that, do you consider that cheating?

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Relationships

Why do I keep thinking about the guy I cheated with?

I can't stop thinking about this guy! He is on my mind everyday dang near. When I wake up, go to sleep. I even have dreams of him and keep replaying everything in my head like how it all went down. We no longer talk...

Anonymous

Other

My boyfriend is texting escorts...is it cheating?

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years. I lived with him for one and have been in university for the past 3 years. My university is three hours away so I get to see him most weekends. We built a house...

timmyturner

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Guy's Behavior

1 mo

Why a guy would cheat on his new girlfriend with me (we were Friends with benefit)?

So we stopped our friends with benefits because he never had time for me so I decided to move on. It’s been only a month but I am currently seeing someone but he didn’t know about it. anyway the other day he texted me...

Anonymous

Break Up & Divorce

Boyfriend didn't tell me his ex was texting him?

I found out about a week ago that my boyfriend's ex (from 2 years ago) has started texting him, trying to get him to talk to her again. I found out at 1am when he got a text and he said, "ugh is this my ex?" and I saw not...

Anonymous

Break Up & Divorce

Girlfriend talking to another guy a lot, is this normal?

Background:My girlfriend of 2.5 years cheated on me and talked to the other guy for several months after I told her not to before finally stopping. I had to pry to find out, but I told her every time I looked and...

Anonymous

Relationships

Is it fair to give your partner the ultimatum of leaving if they don’t come clean about cheating in full?

Anonymous

Tbh most would just leave I’m asking out of curiosity for myself because my girlfriend of 2 years (21) is leaving for a job opportunity in a different province. I’ve been through lots

Tbh most would just leave I’m asking out of curiosity for myself because my girlfriend of 2 years (21) is leaving for a job opportunity in a different province. I’ve been through lots of shit with her, still love her after the wrong she’s done (saying it like that makes me feel sick but I do love her). I’ve half ass caught her on multiple occasions up until she caught an STI and I tested negative after almost a year of having unprotected sec together (that one broke us up for around 4 months until I saw her at a bar hooked up and got back together). I’ve snooped through her phone found texts between her and this one guy in the past meeting at a hotel while we were dating, I caught her texting another guy on multiple occasions on snap chat once she waited for me to fall asleep to rub herself and I’m assuming sext him in my bed while she thought I was sleeping (though I didn’t read the messages, I knew it was a guy she slept with in the past though and I know she was touching herself for certain), another guy she was really secretive with while we first started dating, one time I caught her dancing on a guy at the same bar I was at with her (unfortunately I lost my cool and blacked out on the guy who I later found out was the guy who met her at the hotel), one time when we were fighting she said she was going to a party with the same guy too. As I write this it breaks my heart because I’ve truly loved her for so long, I wanted to marry her and she has treated me as nothing less than worthless and I would never have done that too her under any circumstances. anytime no matter when in the relationship she was never willing to talk to me about it, she painted me out as jealous, she’d say I’m crazy, she’d say that’s why “we broke up for so long too heal” and the list goes on and on but tbh I’ve never gotten a real genuine answer or proof otherwise she’s cheated on me and I want to give her one but is it unfair to give her one last chance if she comes clean?

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Relationships

I cheated on my bf?

I cheated on my boyfriend because he neglected me for a while. We couldn't see each other, and he barely sent me a text. I thought he cheated on me because i saw him liking other girls’ pics. I was at a bar last night and...

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Dating

My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for 4 years. She has cheated on me by nude photos She snapchats random guys everyday a new guy. Help?

We fight everyday because I am uncomfortable with her adding guys on snapchat. She will add a random guy. I will find out she is texting another guy. The messages are mostly deleted and there are several pictures shared...

Huntterbeast

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Family & Friends

My girlfriend has this new 'guy friend'?

and I'm f***ing sick of it. I'm not against her having friends and never have been, though when it gets to the point where she gets hostile with me because I somehow get in the way of them both talking, I'm not having it....

dkdanfam

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Relationships

My boyfriend is always texting to Discord should I be worried?

Even in front on me he is always texting on discord and I heard that guys could cheat on there

Sadafxo

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Flirting

I'm flirting with other guys and now feel guilty about my boyfriend?

I've been texting a guy I know in work, and we've been flirting away he knows I have a boyfriend, its quite heavy flirting not lightly, I now feel guilty for doing this behind my boyfriends back. I've done this before...

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Girl's Behavior

Girlfriend cheated on me, now I'm the one that has to change?

Hi I didn't know what to do I'm 27 yo. I'm a nice guy, I don't cheat, I'm generally happy person, she is 21 yo - 10 month relationship 4 weeks ago she said she had to start writing her dissertation (final year uni)which...

bmxerwill

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Relationships

Girlfriend cheated while on vacation, need advice?

So, as the title explains it, my girlfriend cheated on me while she was on vacation for a month. So naturally, with the 16 hour time difference, and the fact that she was touring a country, we did not have too many hours...

PLURmeister

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Break Up & Divorce

My ex thinks I cheated but I didn’t?

Basically I lost all my exes trust in July and September he told me he was gonna go on a date then I asked to meet for closure and he said he didn’t join the date and he did. Then he went on live webcam sites and paid...

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Relationships

He thinks (?) I cheated so he dumped me. Would you consider this cheating?

My boyfriend and I have a long history (17 years knowing each other, this is our 3rd time trying a relationship. We both see a forever future together). This time we’ve been struggling at it for a year, and after so many...

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Break Up & Divorce

What do you consider to be cheating in a relationship?

Anonymous

I am asking this out of curiosity: what does 'cheating' mean to you? I've heard it differs between men and women, and I am wondering if that's true. If generally speaking it is, then

I am asking this out of curiosity: what does 'cheating' mean to you? I've heard it differs between men and women, and I am wondering if that's true. If generally speaking it is, then it might explain a lot of underlying miscommunications in arguments between couples.

Where do YOU draw the line between "that's fine", "that's insulting (but not technically cheating)", and "that's cheating"?

Note: in the following questions, please consider who "the other person" is to you. That might explain where/why you draw the line. Is "the other person" a random girl/guy you meet who you think is hot? Is this an ex? A best friend? Someone you had a crush on before? Someone who seems interested in you (whether or not you're interested back)? Someone who is openly flirty with you?

If you flirt with someone else, either in front of your partner or behind your partner's back, do you think that's cheating, disrespectful, or just fine?

If you make sexual innuendos (flirt provocatively) with someone else, is that cheating?

If you talk on the phone/text/email/IM, etc. everyday with someone else, is that cheating, disrespectful, or just fine?

If you go on vacation with someone else instead of your partner, do you think that's cheating?

If you hang out with someone else, instead of your partner, and feel closer either emotionally or physically, is that cheating?

If you confide in this other person about fights you and your partner have or other things - things you don't tell your partner for whatever reason - is that cheating?

If you grind on someone else on the dance floor, is that cheating to you? Or disrespectful? Or just fine?

If you go to a strip club, is that cheating? How about if you get a lap dance?

If you touch someone else's boobs, crotch, butt, lips, etc., is that cheating?

If you kiss someone else, do you think that's cheating?

If you have oral sex with someone, do you think that's cheating?

If you sleep with someone else once, is that cheating?

If you sleep with someone else repeatedly, is that cheating?

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For any of the above: how about if your partner does it?

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Break Up & Divorce

2 mo

What is going on with my ex boyfriend - I found out he was cheating after the “other woman” text me?

Quick background: im a 41yr old female - ex is 36yr old male. We were really close friends for 5yrs prior to our hook up. We moved in together quite quickly but both our situations at the time made it an easy decision and...

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