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The 22-year-old in question owns a white 2022 Ford Mustang GT Premium (automatic), and the 27-year-old in question is a "trap mom" (as she calls herself) who owns a green 2021 Dodge Charger R/T Scat Pack narrow-body (automatic). Both girls have mostly guys (who also own such fast cars) taking photoshoots of them around their cars. They're very active on Instagram.

The 22-year-old never gave me ANY attention. She gave ONE comment of mine a like, that's it. She's younger than me by NEARLY a month. We're both 2000 babies!

The 27-year-old however was free to dm me (I was flirty with her and her car, she loved that), like most of my comments, even gave me a shoutout. But HOLY CRAP, I thought she didn't like me at first.

I don't have a car of my own. The 22-year-old lives in Florida, and the 27-year-old lives in California (*but* too damn far away from where I live).

Neither girl follows me back, but the 27-year-old "trap mom" liked many of my posts as I gave her some attention.

I also tend to give unique and funny compliments that stand out. I don't just say a girl is beautiful or gorgeous anymore, that's some "nice guy" shit obviously.

Honestly, I never had a girlfriend before and I am really looking to get back on Tinder and Bumble so that God can find the right girl for me.

I'm honestly unwilling to date a girl who drives a fast car either way (especially a high-performance V8 muscle car). I'm worried she might do dangerous activities or be a bad influencer not just on me but on my family.

I'm more into girls that drive basic cars like the Civic, Accord, Corolla, Camry. F*ck Nissan and the pre-2009 Hyundai/Kia tbh.

This is tied in with this question: https://www.girlsaskguys.com/relationships/q1674594-stuck-in-a-love-triangle-should-i-give-her-space

This question will make sense if you read that (please give your advice in there as well!).

Should the girl choose the other guy, should I maintain a friendship with her? I really enjoy being her friend. We can talk about ANYTHING, be ourselves, she's there when I'm struggling, etc. I can't be all those things with my other friends. She's the complete package as a friend (and romantic partner).

A part of me is saying no, consider my feelings. It'll be hard knowing she's with another guy. Maybe we can be friends down the road again once I've moved on from her (which will be hard, since I never got over her in the five-ish months we stopped talking).

Another part of me says that it would be selfish to end a friendship with her. She considers me her best friend as well. So should I put my feelings in the back-burner and maintain a friendship despite her decided not to choose me. At 26, I doubt I'll find another firend of the like her.

What would y'all do in this situation?

I am an Asian American (Korean descent) and I have a confession to make. I only like white women. As in women of European heritage. I could not fight it all these years, my infatuation with Caucasian women began when I was 11 and I was attracted to them.

I tried to diversify my interests and look at non-white women like Tyra Banks or Audrey Quock. But I labored in vain. I tried to lie to myself that all women are attractive. But I cannot hide it anymore. I only like white women and no women of other races, even my own. The truth has been revealed.

The thing is, most Korean American men prefer Asian women and I don't. I could never relate to most Asian women, since I'm an aspiring cyber security engineer and most of them are into things like pre-med. And I really don't like it when Asian women act all cutesy and flash the v-sign and things like that. Another thing is that most Asian women tend to be short around 5'2" and that's too tiny for me, since I am 6'2" (yes, that's rare for Korean descendants).

The reason why I prefer white women is not only because of how they look, but because of how they sound. They have such beautiful voices, whether they're white American, German, English, Italian, etc. I cannot expect the same vocal beauty from others (Asians, African Americans, Hispanics, etc.)

And on top of it all, I love European culture. If I could pick any language I want to speak, I choose German, since I loved Germany since high school and attempted the language in college. I have a poster of something written in German. Not to mention that I love eating at German restaurants and think the food is great. People tell me to embrace my Korean heritage, but I don't, since I don't really feel connection to it.

What do you think, guys and girls? Is it normal for a Korean American man to only like white women, even more than his own race?