Search Results: When do girls get attracted to a guy

I just now found a question asking why do girls not like nice guys but instead end up with assholes. I very much disagree with that question but instead believe that it only seems that way and so I wrote a kinda long answer about that. Here it is:

1) people often remember stuff that doesn't make any sense and/or shouldn't happen. girls shouldn't want bad guys/assholes/jerks but some do and because of the ones that do many guys think that most - if not all - girls do.

2) guys who end up being jerks usually don't seem that way when they're first meeting girls they want to attract because, well, they want to attract them. they seem really cool and friendly until they got them then they show their true colors. unfortunately girls get attached to these guys and so they usually still want to be with them even with their jerkful ways.

3) nice guys are usually also shy and insecure guys. they hope that the girl they like likes them back, but they have a hard time doing anything about it and wonder why the girl isn't all over them. guys who are jerks are also usually very confident and, thus, easily get girls to fall for them.

I bet there are other reasons that it seems like girls like jerks versus nice guys but these are the main three that I can think of right now.

Do you agree or disagree?

When people say "men are more attracted to women than women are attracted to men": What they're talking about is superficial attraction.

Women have a sexuality that's way deeper and more complex than male attraction. I've found this out recently that I want to know if you ladies feel the same about:

Male aesthetics do nothing for me as a stand alone.


^^ That doesn't make me feel anything. Nothing. Zilch. You know why? I'm attracted to action, I like boys to *do* things. Preferably rough, naughty things to me. Not just stand there and look pretty which is what girls do.

Guys would look at a pic like this ^^ or an equivalent sexy pic of a stranger and they would feel *something*. They can just look at a girl and be sexually aroused.

I need him to *do* something and be someone that I like to be aroused (including hot celebs that I've developed crushes on). I have gotten turned on by imagining my crush doing construction, like hammering a nail into some wood in a short sleeves shirt (biceps rippling hnng). I have NOT gotten turned on by a random muscular guy on the internet with his shirt off like this: