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Royalsarcasist

Why do I always feel bad/indebted to guys when they pay for dates?

Every time a guy pays for dinner my stomach drops, and I always offer to pay. One guy almost got mad at me for this. I just hate the feeling that I owe someone, I always have. Then for the rest of the date I feel I have...

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SummerWind74

Why do guys have to pay for dates?

I'm really struggling with this... I've been on six dates since my divorce and every single one of them the girls expect me to pay for everything. I don't want to pay for a girl to like me. That's the same as buying an...

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Anonymous

Why do guys try to pay on a date even though you don't genuinely like playing?

I don't like it when a guy pays the bill because I know most guys would think that if they pay, they can control girls. They would think they are allowed to have sex and if a girl turned down the offer they would be like...

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Anonymous

Why are guys expected to pay?

If where expected to pay what is expected of girls? If a date goes badly i'm assuming you should make sure she pays because if where paying all the time we must be paying for something. Guys always being expected to pay...

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SimplySkai

Why do guys offer to pay again when a woman rejects his offer?

Guys, if a woman says, 'I can pay for it by myself.' Just leave it be. If it is some trick that she is doing to see if you pay, do not date her. She is ruining things for girls who actually do want to pay for their...

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MysteriousChick93

Why do guys hate going out on date an most prefer io hangout indoors?

No matter what age guys I meet seem to prefer to chill or hangout at home rather then go out. An this is in the first stages of dating. Some say yeah let's chill first then do going out later on in dating.  Another guy...

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Giavelto

Why Guys Shouldn't Pay For Dates

Why Guys Shouldn't Pay For Dates - Giavelto Feb 14, 2015 Hey everyone, happy Valentine's Day. I'd like to get into something I've been thinking about lately. Today I saw a date deal-breaker on another thread here on...

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melissa92

Guys who ask women on dates but refuse to pay?

--Ive been on many dates with guys...usually they pay. Especially if they have money they pay- or if they're the ones asking me out. Recently I met someone on the internet--he bragged about how he owned bars and pubs and...

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Anonymous

Why are guys so cheap and tiny these days?

Recently I've ran into a guy that while we discuss about what to do on our first date he kept mention how expensive NYC is and envy I live here so I don't have to worry about the financial differences.. I noticed what he...

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Anonymous

Guys why do you offer to pay?

Like for dinner or the movies? I'm never really sure what to think. I always offer to pay on dates but most guys insist on paying for the full thing, why? Last week, I've been out 5 times. Only 2 were dates, the others...

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xLuana

Is it really so bad for girls to actually pay money? Why are guys so against it?

To me, its plain simple sense that I pay my own part (or sometimes the one who asks pays for the first date unless the other one offers to pay part but that should be as far as it goes) because going by common sense just...

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PrincessPie

Guys would you pay for a woman on a date?

If so why would you? If not why wouldn't you? Would you be offended if she expected it? Do you think you should just go dutch? Or would it depend on if you wanted to see the woman again and were interested or not? And...

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Anonymous

Who pays on dates?

I once dated a single mom, and I paid almost every time. I didn't do it because of some archaic, tradition, I did it because she was struggling, and it felt like the right thing to do. But other than that... I'd feel...

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Anonymous

Why is it that only guys have to pay for the whole date when they ask out, but if a woman asks a guy?

She can always opt to pay half and even go dutch?  If  a guy did that, he   wouldn't get  another date 99.9% of the time. I thought it was all about equality... I guess not. Sure if a guy wants to pay for everything all...

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shootingfoul

Why would girls expect guys to pay for dates if they are fighting for equal rights? Which one is more important?

Are girls serious about obtaining equal rights? Having equal rights is obtaining equal pay as boys for the same job, rid of all the sexual disadvantages in school, work and society and having the same opportunities and...

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Anonymous

Is it wrong to dump guys who don't pay for dates?

I had 4 dates this week, 2 of the guys didn't pay for me. Why should I go out with them again if they didn't even bother to offer to pay for me?

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Anonymous

Why did he make me pay for drinks on our first date?

Met a 39 year old man on a dating app tonight after a week of talking. He comes from a well-to-do family etc and seemed a lovely guy. However I didn’t really get the best impression when tonight I was waiting for him...

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Anonymous

Why Do Guys Need All Of These Ridiculous, Minute , Childish , Everyday Things To Feel Like "A Man"?

why do guys have or need all of these things to feel ok and like a " man"i hate dating because of this.. its ridiculous.. maybe its the guys i've dated (but I've dated different kinds of guys) idk.. I've notice that if...

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JoyGirl

Why do guys think a girl should pay for her own meal on a date?

I have seen a lot of questions and opinions about that. I have never stated mine. I never will... lol Anyway, why do guys think the girl should pay separately?

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Anonymous

Why do guys find me ugly and cannot be in relationship?

Iv never had a boyfriend and since I was 13 I approached guys and rejected me or had gfs or lied they had one. Im always doing my full time college classes and working everyday and work on my fashion YouTube and instagram...

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Anonymous

Why do guys date a girl based off looks, (here's her picture)?

Before you say crazy things talking about she sexy. This girl was screenshot by a guy following a paragraph he wrote. I know her personally and her IQ score is down the drain. She doesn't like working but only likes to...

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xLuana

Why do guys seem to have no self respect?

Why does it seem that guys have no self respect when it comes to dating and relationships? There are spoiled and greedy girls out there who will use guys, and expect him to do everything like pay for dates, shower her...

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Anonymous

A guy offered to pay me to date him. Why the hell is he so desperate?

This guy offered me money to date him. Sorry but that's just pathetic and sad. How do I nicely tell him to go away?

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Anonymous

Why are guys supposed to do most of the work?

I haven no issues with this, I just want to know why In this day and age, females and males are closer now than ever before. With feminism in full throttle vouching for equality etc etc why is it that men have to: -...

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Anonymous

Why do guys all of sudden find me attractive, in the new country I've moved?

So when I was in high school although I was out going and nice guys didn't pay any attention to me all of my friends had tons of guys and dates and I was stuck with being the forever single girl. I didn't change that...

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7121uc

Girls, should a guy pay for you in a date?

I was on a date last night and my date had the audacity to tell me to pay for her dinner. I told her that she should pay her dinner and that I should pay for my dinner. She got mad and obviously we will never see each...

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Anonymous

Guys, do you pay for your girlfriend on dates?

do u pay for your girlfriend on dates? and why? i think its normal when guy pay for girl, it shows he care and like her enough to pay for her... If girl dont want he to pay she always can tell no, i ll pay for myself......

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hashenda123

Guy doesn't pay when clearly he is interested!

So I've been talking to this guy for about 2 weeks now, and I got the sense that he was interested. he wanted to get frozen yogurt and walk in the park, but he didn't pay. So I thought that maybe he just saw me as a...

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henryscorpion1

Why do girls feel to pay back with sex in certain circumstances?

Hi I read a book called marriages and family and it says that 90% of the time that a guy pays for the date 100% for example: restaurant, or going to movie teather girls feels like they need to pay it back with sex. Also...

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Anonymous

Why are men EXPECTED to pay for the first date?

There are probably too many of these floating around. But I just heard of a new US survey. Apparently the #2 mistake men make on the first date is that they split the bill or go dutch, even if the girl offers to do it....

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asisterneedshelp

Why doesn’t my boyfriend let me pay for dates?

Is it really that serious to you guys? I’ve never paid for any date or any sort of activity we’ve done together. The two times I have paid, he transferred the money back into my account and it was back and forth for a...

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Luna-o3o

Why do guys here complain about a girl expecting them to pay everything?

Guys I've dated in the past always shut down my offer of buying my own movie ticket. It's a movie ticket! I can afford that! But no... they want to pay that. It makes me feel useless in a way. I said "well since you...

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Anonymous

Poll: Why do guys get mad/offended when a girl pays on a date?

My personal experience with over twenty men I have dated has made me curious. I know not all men get mad/offended about this, but what reason do the men who do get offended have for getting upset about my paying for the...

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Friends_Alibis92

Why do guys not want to have a relationship with me?

I've always wondered if I am attractive or not. I came across tmy now best friend who is my fun bright spot and she has brought out my confidence and I feel more of a go getter/outgoing person, but it's still hard to...

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Anonymous

What is wrong with expecting men to pay for dates?

Men have been the ones in charge of the courtship process throughout history. In addition, it's not like the girl is leeching off of him. I'm sure she's giving him something in return whether it's sex, companionship,...

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PDC2F

Why do guys run hot & cold - or is it me?

I met a guy on a dating website. Immediately, I knew he was "different." He showered me with attention, texted me constantly and seemed respectful and sweet. Two weeks into our "relationship," things got sticky. We...

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Lostforwordz

Do guys have to pay for everything?

So I was always brought up with the impression to be a gentleman and pay for the lady, now is it just me or does this seem to be an old mentality? Woman now are defintely more independent so when i usually tell my friends...

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Anonymous

Why do guys not realize how important it is to be told off sometimes?

a while ago i saw my ex boyfriend and he tried to laugh at me when he saw me walkinv while he drove by in a fancy carand later on he texted me on facebook saying how great his life was. I didn't care becuase i never...

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Chinkabelle5

Why do guys always suddenly stop calling me?

I'm a 21-year-old female college student who doesn't really fall into the hard-partying, hookup-seeking stereotype of many other people my age. I don't judge other people for doing what they do, but I myself am an...

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Anonymous

Why do guys ignore you?

There is this guy I like, Since junior year and till now that we've finished senior year. Since the beginning of this year I blocked my feelings for him but they come and go. In the phases where my feelings were...

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