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jam66

Why does it hurt so much?

I was with my ex for a year, it was intense and really serious. I thought I was going to marry him. Anyway we got to the summer and I realized he was becoming distant because he wanted his life in his hometown. Out of...

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Anonymous

Why does my ex keep popping up?!

My ex and I officially broke up I'm not sure who did it first but we both mutually hate each other. After I let everything out he admitted he had sex with six girls after the break up I was so disgusted and said thanks...

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Anonymous

(f/22) friends with my ex boyfriend (m/24) why does it hurt me so much that he's "hanging out" (his words) with another girl?

I'm friends with my ex boyfriend and I recently told him that i still had feelings for him after he moved away. He told me that I was his best friend and he cares about me more than I know but he wants to be single and...

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Anonymous

Why does my ex still check my facebook and got angry when I removed him?

He broke up with me 4 months ago. I didn't want to break up but he brought up so many reasons and made me feel like I'm the one to blame and he just had to do things that make him happy. The only way we can still see...

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Anonymous

Why won't my friend get over her ex?

Do you have a friend who just won't get over their ex? My bestie keeps trying to talk to her ex and uses excuses like she just wants to be friends, the has been going on for more than 1 year now. Her ex even moved on and...

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Abb123x

Guys, what does it mean when you do all this to your ex?

Me and my ex boyfriend went out for 1 year and 3 months and he split up with me 3 months ago. We're both 16. We ended on good terms and are still friends, although I still love him and he has moved on(he moved on about a...

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Beli0326

Why does my ex act so cold? He does not want to see me or speak to me on the phone? Only responds to texts sometimes

We were together for 3 years off and on. We have a 11 month old daughter together. Our differences were, I was too affectionate and he was not affectionate enough! I have low self esteem and always thought he was out...

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BeeNee

8 Reasons You Haven't Gotten Over Your Ex

1. It really is too soon If you really liked your ex, and you dated for a long time, and you're wondering why a month later, you haven't moved on yet, it might literally be too soon. You can't force yourself to just be...

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Anonymous

Why staying friends with your Ex won't work

When he breaks up with you and says " we can still be friends". Trust me he does not actually mean it. Don't be that naive girl that believes that they can be an exception to the rule. Do not try and be friends with your...

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doubleaxel94

Will my ex and I ever get back together? It's long, but please, please help?

So, my ex and I broke up about three weeks ago. The first week sucked and we didn't talk to each other at all. The second week he was all over me Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday morning. He wanted to get back together...

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Anonymous

The dreaded ex and back on the scene...........

I really would appreciate your help and opinions... Me and this guy have been dating for a little while and we hit it off straight away and there was a great connection and bond. We have had fun, missed each other when...

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needtoknow14

Do you think my boyfriend still loves his ex?

OK, here's my situation. I am 28 and my boyfriend is 26. We've been dating for almost 8 months. From the beginning, I've known that he and his ex of five years broke up after she went to South Korea to teach English...

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Anonymous

How to deal with seeing an ex everyday?

Hi guys! My ex broke up with me 6 months ago. We go to school together in the same small program, and I have to see him/ work and interact with him everyday! I'm over him, and never want to date him again because of the...

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Anonymous

Girls, Would You Feel Ok With Your Boyfriend Hanging Out With Women You Don't Know?

I am in a situation I am uncomfortable with. I'm just curious; if your boyfriend was going to dinner and having drinks with females you never met and have never been invited to meet, would you be bothered? What if he also...

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lilsweets172003

Does he still care?

My ex-fiance broke up with me over the phone after 4 1/2 years we have been through soo much like his mothers death, my nursing school, his dad being an alcoholic. He ended up kicking me out of the apt. He said that he...

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Anonymous

What you think if your bf(or gf) told you this about his/her ex?

you guys got to talking about your past relationships, and he told you that his most recent ex dumped him out of the blue after dating for years(serious relationship), she said she was depressed, then came back a few...

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sunshine20

Why would my ex contact me, talk to me for almost a week, then ignore me, reject me & disappear?

We had a messy breakup, but we were together for almost 6 years. He was a best friend to me, too. Pretty much grew up with him. Anyways regardless of that - he contacted me and we talked a lot over the phone and text. He...

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jebrook

If he is closing the door on us, then why send me messages right after?

Long story short my ex had been cheated on his last 2 relationships. I haven't done anything to him but he has a 'gut feeling' that I'm a liar. So much so that he's never had a gut feeling this about anyone before (yea...

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MissGab12

Why is he playing this game with me?

I'm sure you may have seen my previous post about this whole dilemma with my ex. Starting from the beginning right after the break-up when I ignored him and he said he still wanted to be friends and kept in contact. The...

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Anonymous

I'm confused, how does he feel about me?

I've known this guy for over a year. Before even talking, he told my best friend that I'm gorgeous and asked her to hook him up with me. We instantly liked each other but things went too fast and his ex girlfriend also...

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Anonymous

My Ex won't let me go, yet he doesn't want to be with me? Please help me, I'm truly confused?

My ex and I broke up after a long heavy relationship, we were very much in love, an i still am in love with him however he ended it, he said he still loves me yet isn't "in love" what is the difference? He also got...

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Anonymous

Does being high make you say stuff you don't really mean, like how much does it impede your awareness of actions?

hi ok so last night at 2:38AM my ex texted me and said "I miss you I want you I won't want lose you" and so immediately my first thought was "yep he's high" but I replied anyway and said "you're too late" (he left me for...

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Anonymous

Why is my Ex's new girlfriend stalking my Social Media?

My ex and I are both juniors in high school. We had started dating last summer and it lasted till around the end of October or even the beginning of November. It was his first relationship but it was my second, with my...

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Anonymous

Ex boyfriend sending insulting text messages?

We dated for 10 months. Broke up less than 2 weeks ago. We broke up over a fight but no one really did the dumping he just assumed it was over. Anyway, I've been trying hard to be friends with him. But today we got in a...

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Paulina528

4 Ways to Get Over Your First Love and Move On

So I know you may be thinking this is impossible. And trust me, I know why you're thinking this. My first love made it almost impossible for me to get over him as well. It was horrible. I thought about him every day and...

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conuzzled

Getting Back With A Former Boyfriend (Not An Ex- There's A Difference)

It's kind of funny how people are so negative towards you getting back with a former boyfriend, like it's some sort of taboo, like you're stupid, naiive, and desperate for even thinking of getting back together. But...

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why-makoto-kun

Ladies: Don't Make Your Disappointing Dating Situation Worse

Ladies, have you ever been disappointed by how you were treated in a relationship with someone you loved? Ignored? Neglected? Or maybe even getting led on by someone in the dating scene, and you get the sinking feeling...

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Anonymous

Damaged guys: genuine, or bull?

Guy is damaged from childhood abuse and abusive relationships. You start out as friends. He pushes for more fast, begging you to make him see you, but is scared of following through in person. You finally meet. He pulls...

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aamina_m

Why Loving Yourself Leads to Loneliness Instead of Love and Marriage

I've been single my entire life. You know those people who are always in relationships? I'm the complete opposite. My longest relationship was 3 years, but those last 2 years were on-and-off (mostly off) and based on sex....

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Anonymous

BF won't beleive a word I say?

so this is my story.. ive been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, but we have been friends for around 3 years, at the start everything was sweet, he was always wanted to be with me, talk with me, spend time with...

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aamina_m

Why dating for the sake of dating is a bad idea!

I know so many people who date just to date. It doesn't have to be someone you're really into. It doesn't have to be someone you love. There doesn't need to be chemistry nor attraction. That person just happens to be...

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Lost_in_Space

Why Some Women Walk Away

Almost every woman has walked away from at least one relationship at one period in time or another, sometimes leaving the guy behind scratching his head... saying "What did I do?". I have had many guys ask me this, and...

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taya02

How do I get him back? Am I a bad person?

Me and ex were together officially 6years this year would make 7...ex went to jail 2 1/2 years...we were back in fourth as far as going out because every other day boyfriend wanted to break up but I kept saying no...when...

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becca123

Understand and Beat the Break Up Blues

You two were going to be together forever;  now you are sitting alone on the loveseat, eating ice cream with a shovel and wondering what happened, what you did, and how you can fix it. Breakups dont have to involve long...

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Razzle-Dazzle

Relationship Fallout: 5 Stages of Grieving After a Breakup

Heartbreak is excruciatingly painful. It can have a detrimental affect on your emotional,physical and mental state. It is a sad and disorientating time. When couples part the pain can be profound because it represents the...

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bbch25

How to Deal With SOs and their Exes and Insecurities

Disclaimer: I suppose this is a mix of a PSA, and me hoping that maybe my experience can help some people. I tend to refer to ex's in terms of girls because I am mixing in my situation (but it's obviously open to all...

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Anonymous

Warning Signs of Abuse and Control; Get Out Before It's Too Late and Beware!

I just came out of a very unhealthy relationship. I suspected that he was abusive, and I left. While it never got physical, I got suspicious. Since I am a woman, I will be writing from a female perspective. I figured I...

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BeeNee

Is Marriage For You? You Should Probably Ask Yourself These Questions First

In case you've been living under quite the giant sized rock, it will be of no surprise to you that the number of men and women getting married in this country has fallen dramatically over the last fifty years or so. With...

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RJGraveyTrain

Honesty ISN’T Always the Best Policy – Necessary Lies in Relationships

Alright, I know. I keep making promises to put mytakes out from my archives and I haven’t. I’ll be honest with you guys, keepin’ it 100: I felt super uninspired by G@G and truthfully found that things in the community...

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lovelyhoneybones

Dear Me, a Break Up Isn't the End of the World

Dear Me, It seems like you found each other at the right time whenever you first met. Things seemed to being going pretty well. Before you knew it, the both of you were falling for each other until one day, he just...

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