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Idontknow092

Why rejection has nothing to do with you most of the time

In a day and age where finding people to date on apps or on social media such as instagram is the norm, it has become incredibly easy and normal for people to be flaky, unreliable, to text or say the wrong thing during a...

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Anonymous

I've been facing rejection ever since I started college. Insight please (girls mainly, but guys are also welcome to answer)?

I've just started college, and I've been facing a string of rejection from girls I'm interested in. I'm very selective in the girls that I talk to. (I'm not really interested in hook-ups, but a relationship. I find...

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ManuelMarquez

Why can't most women just be honest when it comes to rejection and just say,''I'm sorry but I just view you as a friend''?

Instead of using lame lies like''I have a boyfriend, I am busy, I am not dating right now.'' This post has nothing to do with me at all. I want to be single for life. I am speaking on behalf of this going to other guys....

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Anonymous

Why bother with love if all there is is pain?

Why even try if love is just pain and nothing more. All my life, my love life has been nothing more than pain, rejection, and manipulation. Love is literally the most evil emotion I can think of, because it is the best...

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JastyForLife

Signs of Rejection?

Dear Readers, Sadly this topic will not be very happy today. It is more dismal. I keep feeling these emotions. I like this girl and she is putting me on an emotional roller coaster. I asked if she wanted to go to the...

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Anonymous

I'm on the cusp of becoming a whore. Why have any shame?

Every girl I've grown attached to emotionally does not reciprocate. Every single one. These are not flashes in the pan, we've built some semblance of chemistry over a long period of time. I look for obvious signs that...

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ossander

If a girl says "I don't think I'll be able to, maybe some other time," is that a rejection?

So I've been on a couple of dates with this girl, and while things have gone well for the most part, there has been a little awkwardness. She seems to be very awkward and nervous about dating, and I must admit that I...

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archer86

Why do we get stood up on a date?

Folks, this has happened to me on numerous occasions. Sitting at the restaurant, standing at the park, looking like a complete idiot by myself all decked out waiting for my date. No call, no show, nothing. I go back to...

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Anonymous

How to survive college rejection... from both top and safe schools?

Okay so I am transferring colleges from a foreign country, I'm not American, I'm studying journalism and I hate it I wanted to study music in the US and I applied to many colleges and I'm just starting to hear back from...

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ValleyofDrakes

Why do women like CONFIDENCE in guys? How do you suggest I get mine back?

I hear a lot that women like confidence in men as if it's some sort of golden rule when approaching a woman. I, as a man always thought I was confident, but since my interaction with women currently is limited to...

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Anonymous

Rejection from "friends" and acquaintance ?

So this might be an odd subject but I was wondering if anyone had gone through this at one point and how they had handled it. I'm at a stage where I don't really have friends. Most of the good friends I had are busy,...

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CrowdingFiend

Why am I getting rejected so much lately?

So since the start of the year, I've rejected roughly around 4 times both directly and indirectly. The first girl just replied really late and eventually started to ignore me, fair enough. The second girl I liked from...

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Anonymous

Why are men expected to ask women out and pay for the date?

-She finds a guy attractive. -He finds her attractive as well. -Someone has to take the scary first step and risk rejection. -He is pressured by society to take that risk. -She is not. -He could wait but that increases...

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Anonymous

Unlucky in love never had boyfriend and never had my 1st kiss?

well every since I was 18 years old I have uncanny knack of getting rejected before they even get to know me .they right nasty to me too when they rejection me .i try to be nice most of the guys I like are some times...

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ManOnFire

Why I Think Women Are More Sensitive to Rejection

Women getting rejected isn’t a much talked about thing in society, although it does happen more than most people really realize, and especially more than women themselves are going to even admit. Females generally don’t...

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RJGraveyTrain

How to Handle Rejection

Rejection: the one thing that yearning singles fear most. The dreaded prospect of having their affections completely turned down by the person they want to be with. A single “I don’t see you that way” can be a quick swan...

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englisc

Why Nice Guys Struggle With Women And How Bad Advice From Women Encourages Nice Guy Behaviour

A few people have been talking about the "bad boy" vs "nice guy" thing recently, and I've seen many guys asking how to become more confident in approaching women, so I thought I'd write a quick take on it (maybe it will...

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Anonymous

Are some people not allowed to be sad?

I've dwelled on this topic for a long time and its hard for me to talk about it in real life. So I will start this question by explaining a personal experience. This isn't a feel bad for me rant, this is seriously just...

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Fearless_banana

Men, Learn to Take Rejection With a Smile

**Stop Acting So Cringe** Just lmao @ bitter guys who get butthurt after rejection. So much that they need to make themselves look even more butthurt by insulting them. Hey you're really pretty, let me take you out....

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Robertcw

Guys who are too nervous to approach aren’t always fearing rejection. Usually they probably aren’t.

This take is written for young men, but women are free to share their opinions as well. There’s a stigma out around that if you aren’t approaching any girl you find physically attractive the moment you see them there’s a...

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SeanE

How to Overcome Your Fear of Rejection

This is the number one reason why some men get a ton of women and other men get none. Fear of rejection is something that almost every man has to deal with at some point in his life, as it is the most common problem that...

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LightsOff

Rejection shouldn't be a big deal, and here's why

In this myTake I will focus specifically on getting rejected by romantic interests. Rejection concerning friends, family and the like will not be included. I started studying at a new school last fall. Everything has...

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jason15300

How to Get Your Crush Even If You Get Rejected Most or Even All the Time

Dating. It is a huge step in every guy's and girl's life, a lot of us remember our first love and first girlfriend or boyfriend. However, the biggest problem for some guys and girls is how to how to build a solid...

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A-R-Norman

Why Women Don't Like Nice Guys

Women don't want a nice guy--I have heard this more times than I care to count and yes, for some very immature women, the idea that a bad boy is somehow more desirable makes them exclude potentially great mates. However,...

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ginny_weasley

8 Reasons Why I've Rejected Guys or Just Suddenly Lost Interest

Out of all the guys who have asked me out, these stuck out the most. They are different guys but I think several of them can overlap with reason number two. I am so glad to have the boyfriend I have now. I met him in an...

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A-R-Norman

Accepting Rejection with Grace

So you go out on a date and one person is digging the experience far more than the other. The movie was awkward. The dinner was even more so. At the end of the night, the interested party looks for signs that the other...

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Fathoms77

Has the Digital Dating Landscape Turned Everyone Into Sniveling Cowards?

This goes for both men and women, by the way. I'm aware that we live in an era where online dating is the norm. We're well beyond the likes of Match, as various "hook-up apps" are popping up everywhere and a few of them...

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Anonymous

Most Girls Already Have Boyfriends

I have an assumption, and perhaps I’m not the only one, that most girls already have boyfriends and that those who don’t are likely to lie about it. 1. Why assume this? So why have I come up with such an assumption? I...

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lumos

Reasons Why Playing Hard To Get Is The Dumbest Thing You Could Do

1. It makes you look disinterested This is probably the biggest reason why people quickly drop those who play hard to get. The chase might be fun for a short while, but the more you play hard to get, the more likely it is...

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Jewluminazi

Why women have a hard time dating nerds

As a nerd, I'm no stranger to rejection. Not only have I been on the receiving end of it, but in recent years I've also dished plenty of it out. When I was young, there was such a negative stigma associated with being a...

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sandyyy_

Why Guys Who Believe In The Friendzone Annoy Me

I often hear people referring to the friendzone. According to a quick google search, a friendzone is "a situation in which a friendship exists between two people, one of whom has an unreciprocated romantic or sexual...

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Idonthaveausername

Why You Should Man Up and Pay For the First Date

Paying for dates has been a hot topic here on GAG and there's been a lot of animosity towards the opposite gender over it. My view is based on a man asking a woman out. If the woman asks a man out, then she is responsible...

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Wickenden

Why Male Self-Esteem in Formative Years is Important to Fixing Inequality Issues

Throughout a lot of discussions on gender recently I have heard a lot of generalizations about men and women and supposedly where gender inequalities stem from. "Men want to chase many girls, men have to get used to...

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Anonymous

How can I make myself like black women?

Basically, as a black man, I know they're the only women that could find me attractive. Now, some background as to how I wound up here. See, for the past, let's see, I'm about to be 18, so, 12 years of my life, I've lived...

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Anonymous

How to deal with guys who are not interested in me at all, not even as friend, so shut down completely?

how does some one deal with constant rejection and disinterested in some one .i always dealing with constant rejection even hatred guys are not interested in me even I am nice to them what worse being told to you face...

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Anonymous

I think I'm done being one of those "nice guys" is it wrong I want to be treated like a human and not used like a slave?

It's getting me no where, I never use to think that women enjoy men who just treat that like complete trash and that they are always, ALWAYS tricked and deceived but its becoming quite obvious that these men are who most...

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SweetHotGirl

Help! Relationship - and my life - careening out of control - Obsessive behavior, Jealousy...

I need therapy, I think I can say that for a fact now. Most of my posts on this site have been about the boyfriend (and I guess you can look up those posts with my screenname?) I can only hope you will, as I've discussed...

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Spinning_Out_Hard

Woman at work flirting heavily?

Hi guys, thanks in advance. I've got this lady at work who keeps flirting heavily with me. Problem being: A. I'm married B. She is in a far more senior positions than I am. She sits in a booth directly opposite me and...

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persiandoode

What to do with my life?...

I'm a 29 year old guy, and I have hit a point in my life where I'm so depressed that I've thought about doing hardcore drugs to calm my tremendous anxiety issues. I came here from Iran when I was 13 with my mom dad and...

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Anonymous

Understanding the shy guy

I know this is not a question but I though I would shed some light on the shy guy to both help my fellow shy guy out and any girls who might be wondering about that guy that keeps looking at her from across the room but...

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