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Anonymous

Will I be able to get some confidence?

Hey, I'm lacking horribly of confidence and also I have a low self-esteem. So, I'm asking for your help to tell me what I should do to stop having these issues that prevent me from doing what I always wanted to do. I...

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qewrreqw

Will I be able to find a girlfriend once I get confidence and have basic social and conversational skills?

Will I be able to find a girlfriend once I get confidence and have basic social and conversational skills? Just check some of the other questions to find out more about me.

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Anonymous

Guys, My Romantic Confidence Has Been Crushed. Can You Offer Insight? Advice?

So, here’s the story-- Younger, shy, “nerdy”, guy has crush on me for about two years. Then he begins a shy guy pursuit. I’m friendly, but I’m not interested. Then… I really start to fall hard for him. I begin to flirt...

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kaeli19

How can I become confident? How can I get a guy to like me, date me and/or be my boyfriend?

OK. so, I have like no confidence in myself anymore. I use to be really confident, but then I got schizophrenia about 2 years ago where I started hearing other people's voices in my head at my apartment, in college, or...

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Xlk100

Confidence = getting the guy? Bull?

OK so I'm always hearing that no matter what you look like, if you have confidence then you will be able to get a boyfriend or girlfriend or at least get someone to be into you. I don't want to all pessimistic but I'm...

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Anonymous

Confidence help. Forced to be chubby and Not allowed to lose weight?

Hi ok so I'm in some major need of any encouraging words, or advise. Ok to start off with, I'm 5'4" and used to weigh 160 lbs. over the last 2 years I've been able to exercise and cut back on my unhealthy lifestyle and...

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Anonymous

Still can't get over being shy, how will I get a girlfriend?

I came to the conclusion that I will never be able to really get over being shyness. Some might say that it is due to afraid of getting pride hurt and low confidence. Yet, it is very hard to get over both, when I look in...

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Anonymous

Should a 14 year old get a belly button piercing?

I'm 14 years old and a freshman in high school. I really want a navel/belly button piercing because I think it looks absolutely stunning (in my opinion) and it will give me more confidence. My mom isn't sure if she wants...

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tyrantfuryre

I get deleted and called ugly over a Yankees comment. WHY?

So tonight, the Yankees lost against the Red Sox. Of course this was all over everyone's Facebook. One girl that I was a friend with on there and went to school with (although I never talk to her) posted about this...

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Anonymous

Why do people only accept reality when it comes to certain things?

It's funny how people accept reality but only on certain things. When we aren't cut out for something, we accept that fact. For example, I might have a dream to play in the NBA, NFL, whatever. I trained hard and I...

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edse9

How to get out of a abusive bad relationship

I don't even know where to start My boyfriend is a very controlling abusive person (emotionally and has been physically) He always degrades me, calls me stupid (even when I am right) He has a weird mentality just because...

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Sex_Panther

Why do people give counterintuitive advice?

I want to explore two examples and explain why they are the worst advice ever and the most common advice given. 1. "Don't give a fuck about society!", well for one the words that you used are only given power by society...

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Anonymous

How do you get rid of that deeply embedded low self esteem that shows itself when talking to women?

I need help from someone who understands what I'm talking about. Someone who has managed to get rid of this shit! I work hard. I have made myself the best person I can be up to this point, and I'm looking forward to a...

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ZegDibble44

I'm a guy who's 18, never dated and has become convinced he will always be alone. Becoming more aware has made it worse. Is all lost?

Okay I have to get this out, and this is a place I found. I'm 18, living in the UK, a heterosexual guy who has never dated or been close to doing so. To give you an idea, I am not attractive physically, by my own...

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Anonymous

How to stop worrying about finding that girl who is right for me and will like me back and at the same time, maximize my chances?

I do have somewhat of an idea of what I am currently looking for in a girl. Though many of my crushes didn't fit this type, I really like the sweet and polite type. The kind of girls you can trust, won't let you down, and...

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Anonymous

Should I leave him because of my life circumstances?

Ok so now I am in really difficult situation, I am struggling with getting a job, I lost it month ago and now I can barely pay my rent, I am borrowing money from my few friends but sometimes its not enough. I only have...

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Fiskus1996

Can I get a second chance with her? And what should I do now?

Met a really cool girl but failed to make a move or build some tension because i wasn't really myself. (i had almost no confidence and was kinda weird since some heavy family stuff i had to deal with) We only met 4x in...

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TankSinatra

So I'm being forced against my will to take part in this college parody of the show 'take me out' and my self esteem is about to be killed. help?

Okay so there's this social where we're parodying take me out with some girls from another college and I am dreading it because I've already had a suicidal, self harming phase and I've already gone to counseling. I am not...

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BeautifulClassySmart

Do you know how to get over gaslighting?

1. It's okay to be upset or emotional. Get all of your feelings out however you please. Don't let anyone call you bitter, mad or upset. You were PLAYED and GASLIGHTED. That's fucked up. 2. Realize how you could avoid...

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Yriuqni

How can I get over my jealousy?

I feel so immature. I am an overly jealous person , I don't make scenes and stuff like that , but from the inside I feel that my heart is burning when I find my boyfriend talking to a girl.. I am not over the board,...

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Anonymous

Self confidence is in the shitter?

I'm an 18 year old Virgin that has been told (so I can believe) that I am physically attractive (at least somewhat) and that I am kind and I have even been able to tell that some girls have been attracted to me but there...

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Dan2287

I can't read women and have no confidence at all...

Well I'm 22, never had a girlfriend and only dates I've been on have been set ups. Pretty pathetic, I know. I have social anxiety and I've been going through the recovery process slowly for about 3 years now. I've...

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Anonymous

Why do you think some people never marry? do you worry you will be one of them?

My uncle never married, my great-Aunt is the same. Due to my lack of relationship experience and highly independent nature, I worry that maybe I'll follow suit. It seems to be a similar pattern - they don't date much as a...

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Anonymous

Feel stuck in a rut in life, any advice on snapping out of this?

I've started to realize that my life is pretty empty. I am doing a degree which I love but probably will not be able to get employed from (particularly in this economic climate) so I am having regrets about my education...

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Anonymous

Was I silently rejected?

I've been in contact with a guy I like since November. He and I are both quite shy but I was able to get enough confidence to give him my number in January, and he texted me that same night with his number. As time went...

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LeonNova

Will I ever be able to move on from my ex?

Long story short, I met a girl, she became my first girlfriend, I fell madly in love with her, and 10 months into the relationship, she cheated on me and then jumped into a new relationship overnight. For the first week...

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Anonymous

Do you think I would end up lonely?

Okay, so I never had it good, I use to get beaten from an inch of my life from my father. He is not a good person and use to traumatize me daily. That and from all the rejection I have been through. I became extremely shy...

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Anonymous

Is it true that love finds you?

Basically, if you just be yourself, whether you're shy or not, and you just do what makes you happy, and do what you do, and keep your head up and everything, will love have its way of finding you? I was never very good...

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Anonymous

Is my coworker right?

My coworker is good at reading people and at acting. He seems to have correctly guessed what girl I like despite my intentions to not show this to him or others. I wanted to tell her myself. Is he right? He sent me this...

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Anonymous

I'm at a complete loss. What can I do?

Firstly, this is kinda a pressure release question, so this could get a little long and may not entirely make sense. Sorry! :L So I'm a fairly average guy by most people's standards. I am constantly feeling kinda sad...

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molan

Do women really want the bad boy or the nice guy? part 2 of 2?

Going for someone on you own level, will greatly increase your success rate, so unless you are a young Brad Pitt lookalike, then adjust your requirements accordingly. Learn how to be dominating in the right way It may be...

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TrackisLife

I'm extremely terrified of rejection. How can I overcome it and how can I actually ask?

I finally realized that this is my problem. I am a complete (excuse my language) pussy. I am fearful of rejection, completely scared of it. I fear of what happens after asking and being rejected by the girl. I worry about...

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Nelsoen

Are any other guys disgusted by the amount of desperation of other guys online?

I'm talking about the guys online who are desperate for female attention. They have sob stories about how women don't talk to them or their crush doesn't like them back. These guys complain about never getting laid and...

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CrazynKinky

GIRLS, why are you so obsessed about your weight?

Why are you so obsessed about your weight? So some guy will think your hot? There isn't just one type of hot. Guys have different idea of it. Not all girls can be a size 0 and why would you want to be? Have no boobs no...

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Lauren2410

My obsession with my weight is destroying me. Help?

I've always been an overweight girl ,I used to be overweight with like 10(22lbs)-15 kg(33lbs). My ideal weight should be between 52(114.4 lbs/pounds) and 55(121lbs) kg at my height of 162 cm.(I don't know if that means...

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Anonymous

How do I deal with jealousy towards by best friend?

I have a best friend for 3 years. She is well, small, loud, good in PE, bad at studies, brave, and fast. And I'm shy (like REALLY shy), bad at PE, slow, good at studies and soft-spoken. I must say we are a total opposite...

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peachykeenlove

What is wrong with me?

I really just want as much feedback as possible on this... I have dated dozens of guys in my lifetime... not like serious relationship. just dates. I usually have a small amount of interest in them before they ask me out,...

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Anonymous

Girls, I'm socially awkward and am having trouble with girls. Tips?

I'm 17 and I go to boarding school. I moved away from my old home town awhile ago where I was VERY depressed (which wasn't helping my case romantically), but after adjusting to my new school/state I've developed more...

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Anonymous

I have fallen for 3 women and can't choose who I want as I don't want to be with all 3 and be a cheater. What do I do?

There are currently 3 women in my life. Olyviah, Bella, and Valeria. Each amazing in there own way and I have fallen for all of them. Olyviah is a teacher, she has an amazing passion and talent for art and she has the...

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ak666

How to Gain Confidence

This article is mainly intended towards those who lack confidence in the social realm, though it describes how to gain confidence in all areas. Let's begin by looking at a dictionary definition of confidence: Confidence:...

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