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Anonymous

How old were you when you were able to stop caring about what other people thought?

... about your decisions, about your friends, family, significant other, fashion sense, faith, line of work, sexuality, anything. How old were you when you came to this realization that it didn't matter what people...

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SandraSmarts

I just need some support and maybe some perspective from other people. I feel so stupid, worthless, and deceived right now?

I like this guy. We became friends. I liked him because he was so kind, and everyone told me how nice he was. He always smiled and waved at me at school, he used to jokingly call me the wrong name. He asked me to be his...

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Anonymous

Why does the thought of my ex hooking up with other people KILL me? How can I get over this thought?

I haven't seen my ex in two months, and that was about the time when we broke up. The thought of him hooking up/being with someone else literally makes me so sick to my stomach. I've already had sex with two guys since...

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1 y
SpiderLady

Can "brutally honest" people be two faced?

Perhaps you know/knew someone who's never told a lie as far as you're aware. They're the brutally honest type. The "tell you sh*t to your face because no one else has the guts to tell you" type. How likely is it for that...

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Anonymous

How do you diffrentiate between those who are in it for other people and those who are only in it for themselves?

I remember going to a prayer meeting and telling the pastor I had 11 psychlogical disorders at the same time from my parents abusing me and he kicked me out of his prayer group because I was asking him to pray for me...

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liquidlithium

Why do I hurt people who care? and love people who don't?

I got freaked out with this guy I was dating. I began pushing him away 3 weeks ago because he was the first guy I felt something for since my ex, and it scared me because he wouldn't commit yet, so I started to get...

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Anonymous

Why do some people over react to stuff other people wouldn't really care about?

There's this girl from my school, lately we been talking more now that it's summer and schools over and what not. Anyway she was telling me about her life and how "hard" she had it, and how it eventually drove her to a...

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1 y
Anonymous

What are your thoughts on this?

So I met this guy and we hit it off immediately! The sparks are flying everywhere. Yes things got serious way too soon (in the bedroom) but everything felt so right. This was week 1. Week 2 comes around, not much has...

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ragequeen

What I've Learned From Caring About What Other People Think

Caring about what other people think about you is almost never a good thing. However, in this MyTake I am going to share with you what it`s like to view it from a different perspective; almost making it a good thing at...

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Anonymous

I miss someone I was seeing, would messaging them be wrong?

I was seeing this guy for a month we had the bf/gf label but it was more of a we are exclusively dating each other but not a couple if that makes sense. After a few weeks he kind of disappeared and after messaging him a...

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Anonymous

Should I be his girlfriend? How do I get over this? Would appreciate advice from people with life experience

Ok, so this may be a little confusing but I'll try my best: I am trying to decide whether I should be the girlfriend of a guy who I care very much about, and is practically my best friend. We have a really good...

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MindyWatson

Found out my coworkers don't like me today, should I care?

I think of myself as a high acheiver who's well liked and a hard worker. Found out from my boss today that he thinks I'm rude and too defensive. Asked my new coworker if she likes working with me and she told me she...

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7 mo
Anonymous

I'm dating someone but I don't notice that I flirt with other guys?

I know ur gonna judge me but pls hear me out first. In French class, there's this boy who sits at the same table as me. He always annoys me and doesn't stop even if I ignore him. We'd just argue but we'd also laugh...

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Anonymous

Can someone who really cared for you become cold out of nowhere? Was he the problem or was it me?

During the last year I have been in a weird relationship with a guy friend. It started with a kiss and then we start joking about dating, he went out with other girls and I went out with other boys (though he would always...

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1 y
Anonymous

Why doesn't my friends with benefits want me to talk to other guys? Why is he starting to care about me again?

It took this guy and I 3 months to decide if we were going to be in a relationship or friends with benefits. He had feelings first when I didn't have them. When I got them he didn't have them, I agreed to put mine aside...

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Anonymous

Wish he realized what he had, advice?

as soon as senior year started, I met this guy. I had known him for a while actually and well, I thought he was a player and someone nobody could be serius with. he liked me since 11th grade, I guess I was the first girl...

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AllThingsItalia

Do people realize that if they don't get rid of their baggage and fix their issues, they will INEVITBLY bring drama to future romances?

Due to the declining amount of good people who refuse to let others taint their hearts, more and more people's psyche's are being harmed. Genuine, good natured people who do not use their gifts and talents for selfish...

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Anonymous

Why are you afraid to tell people you love them? (for those of you who do worry about it)?

I dont understand why some people wait years sometimes, just to find out they dont want you, or can't handle love themselves. better to get it out there and see what happens, and move on if its required. esp in your 20s...

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BeccaHaha

Why does my sister (and other gay ppl) use lesbianism and weed as an excuse to be a jerk, dark, edgy?

1st I want to say that I mean no disrespect to the LBGTQ community. I have no problem, so please let's not get all Special Snowflake SJW here. My sister was a very sweet kid until she was 17. Until she was 17 she was...

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Anonymous

Sweet boyfriend, who's overfriendly/intimate with other women. How to make him understand?

I love my boyfriend very much and he's a great guy, but lately we've been arguing about the way he acts with other women, he doesn't understand what he perceives as 'friendly' makes me and other girls think 'flirty' that...

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Anonymous

Why does this guy care what I do? He is nothing to me.?

I dont understand why this guy keeps being this way. I am now annoyed. I like him but his actions really frustrate me because they confuse me. I hate that I even let it get to me. He is my coworker and I recently found...

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Anonymous

Why are people so mean to me?

I can assure you I am not the most attractive person on Earth. I know that, but people always feel they have to point it out. Whenever I'm at school, I am always quiet and mind my business because whenever I say something...

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6 mo
Anonymous

Who do I show his family they can trust me and I will take care of there son?

I went on a camping trip with some friends. we decided it be fun if we camp outside under the stars one night so we did. Whilst there this guy came with us to, he was very shy so I got talking with him and he was very...

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Anonymous

I thought I was over my ex but I don't think I am. Would we ever work again, Should I tell him?

Me and my ex broke up in April for the second time. We were I guess HS sweethearts for a part of it. We dated back then for 2 years and ended it. We both went our own ways and dated other people. He went into the airforce...

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Anonymous

Do a lot of black girls feel white people are evil and men and fathers are useless?

So I consider myself a free spirit. I'm white but I all love and see people who for who they are and I don't care about skin color. So I have lots of different races of friends. But I was hanging with a groups of friends...

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Anonymous

He called me fat the other night. What should I do?

hey guys.. so I've been seeing this guys for about 6 months and maybe even over that. not dating but not seeing other people.. don't ask lol anyways so he called me fat the other night. ] i know I'm not overweight or...

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Anonymous

Note to ex- apologizing and asking for him back... thoughts?

I miss you. I think I made a mistake. I think of you all the time and now I know what it feels like to have completely lost you. I’m not myself, always sad. I know you don’t want anything to do with me anymore, but I...

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Anonymous

Is he embarassed of me or does he care about me?

So this guy gave me a hickey at the movies. Later when were alone he asked to show him how it looked (since I have long hair that covered it up). He freaked out & was so upset with himself that I freaked out cause I...

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6 mo
jennifer_bloom

Guys have you ever had a female best friend who was just a friend to you and nothing more?

The guy I used to date had a female friend that he was very close to and I used to get jealous of her cause I thought she looked better than me, was younger than me and more educated and richer and happier than me too....

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Anonymous

People tell me what you would be thinking in these situations?

What would you think in these situations? -You find out your partner of fifty something years has cheated on you throughout your whole marriage. You are 92 years old. What do you do? Only one child. No friends. -You are...

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Dog19

Would this make you depressed or you wouldn't care?

Let's say your 16 years old in high school, a lot of people call you fat, ugly or they'll tell you how your face looks horrible and a few kids told you to either get plastic surgery or kill yourself. You always sit alone...

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lexythelou22

Other people may have it worse, but...

This post isn't about just my personal experiences exactly, but I'll start you off with a few details about mine so that you can get a better picture. I live in a 2 bedroom trailer with 5 people. We live off of 1 pay...

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5 mo
jennifer_bloom

In your opinion, what type of girls get the best guys? this is what I think?

1. The girls I met weren't the hottest girls - but they dressed well and took care of their appearance - they seemed to have better luck than the naturally beautiful girls who didn't care what they looked like 2. The...

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melissa543

Does he still care about me? what should I do?

OK I've officially decided sex makes everything so much more complicated haha. this guy and I had been talking for about three months and he was honestly the sweetest nicest guy who really treated me right. we acted like...

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kaeli19

How can I become confident? How can I get a guy to like me, date me and/or be my boyfriend?

OK. so, I have like no confidence in myself anymore. I use to be really confident, but then I got schizophrenia about 2 years ago where I started hearing other people's voices in my head at my apartment, in college, or...

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Anonymous

Will my guy friend ever ask me out?

I’ve been friends with a guy I like for about 4 years. We used to hang out every day and when we were together we would play with each other’s hair and act like teenagers in love, people thought we were together. We went...

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ashleymaries1990

Guys, He broke it off with his ex and I still care?

Okay so here's the details... Well this guy I liked something happened between us (nothing big) and he compulsively went back to his ex he was talking to. Me and him were NEVER together we were just "seeing" each other...

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2 mo
ambarlee25

Should your partner have an opinion on all your social platforms? Even the ones they don't have an account with?

Our whole relationship he was teaching me to not care what other people think. And I don’t, its not hard. But being in a relationship with someone, their thoughts and opinions should count for something, right? I mean,...

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TaLiaCheer12

We act like were together but I have a boyfriend & he has a girlfriend. Should I tell him to choose ?

We met during spring break. His mom's house is 2 doors down from my daddy's house.We both are in that situation where we stay over there during weekends or during breaks from school.Anyway, when we first met he admitted...

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Anonymous

Guys, I don't why my ex acts this way?

My ex boyfriend (32) and I (35) were together for over a year. Broke up. At the time I didn't know why. He got into another relationship. He found out the she has a boyfriend while she was "dating" my ex. She claimed to...

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