What I am talking about is "prostate massage" properly done at the right time.
Many guys have "gay fears" about this and others are simply uncomfortable with the thought or practice of it. But for some of us, a good session can be magnificent.
The prostate is a walnut sized gland that surrounds the urethra between the bladder and outer sphincter we use to pinch back pee. It produces seminal fluid, which is the medium that carries live semen during ejaculation. Just above and connected to it are are the seminal vesicles that store live semen arriving from the testicles and the ejaculatory ducts which force semen into the prostate, mix it with seminal fluid and expel it during ejaculation. The prostate and seminal vesicles become engorged with fluids during arousal.
My experience is that anal opening is heavily loaded with nerves and even shallow fingering adds a lot of sensation to a HJ or BJ, speeding up my orgasm. Deeper fingering combines that sensation with direct motion and pressure on the combined prostate/ejaculatory ducts/seminal vesicles, increasing the urge to ejaculate when the time is right.
Here is how she does it. Most of my BJ is pretty standard. I favor her mouth remaining up at the cap with one hand stroking my penis and the other cupping and massaging my balls. When orgasm approaches, she extends her index finger and begins to insert it into my anus. She does it in several strokes, rolling her finger side to side for both sensation and ease of insertion. At about the second knuckle, she can feel my prostate, rounded and firm. She presses her finger a little in farther so it lays on the entire prostate/ejaculatory ducts/seminal vesicle and begins in and out stroking, curling her finger on the way out and straightening it on the way in.
Each out stroke slightly compresses that area, increasing the urgency to ejaculate. When I finally do, she leaves her finger fully inserted, which makes each squirt stronger than it would be normally. When my squirts slow down toward the end, she adds pressure in rhythm of each squirt, forcing it out, which is what porn calls "prostate milking". This not only feels literally hot down there, but also gives me highly pleasurable spasms like at the start of orgasm. And she can actually press out another squirt without an ejaculation contraction. WOW!
I know that there are cleanliness issues but we are in a solo relationship so there's no disease issue and soap and water are nearby. None the less, she may want to wear a finger cot or glove to make her comfortable doing it.
I have said in posts here that if every guy who wanted this got it just once a week, there would be far fewer divorces and less marital discord and violence. Seems shallow, but I believe it.
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